how many of u really mind if ppl hate u? ( Archived) (175)

Aug 2, 2009 9:29 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
Sunny143
Sunny143Sunny143christchurch, Canterbury New Zealand112 Threads 20 Polls 1,093 Posts
I care a damn....
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Aug 2, 2009 9:34 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
If people hate me that means I must mean something to them and they are likely someone important to me. I would really be concerned about what I did to warrant hate.
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Aug 2, 2009 9:35 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
The more people hate me the more I know I'm right laugh
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Aug 2, 2009 9:36 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
None of my business what another thinks about me..dunno
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Aug 2, 2009 9:42 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
avecaim: If people hate me that means I must mean something to them and they are likely someone important to me. I would really be concerned about what I did to warrant hate.
So true! If i do something to my niece and she tells me she hates me(which she hasn't since she was 2ys old and now she is 25)that would hurt me cause she is a great person and of course she is family. if someone on here "Chooses" to hate me because of my beliefs or opinions than it would hurt my feelings a little but i'll get over it! "I'd rather be hated for who i am than loved for who i'm not"hug
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Aug 2, 2009 9:47 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
I find the posts so far interesting .....I think we all care what others think or the world would in fact be a very bad place to live .....do we not try to make the best first impression that we can...best foot forward and all....come on now don't you really care what others think....I undersatnd if you think it is none of your Busness HJ ...but thats not the same as caring is it
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Aug 2, 2009 9:49 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
I DO care what people think of me, yes. Im not afraid to admit that, either..

As regards CS, I get hurt by insults on here just as much as I do in real life. Perhaps I shouldnt, but I do.

I dont expect to be liked by everyone all the time, and I dont live my life trying to please others all the time either, but I do get upset if someone is nasty toward me; I dont think I would be human if I didnt. Some people say they dont give a fig what people think of them on here; I find that quite hard to believe really, but there you go.

As I say, there will always be some that take irrational dislikes to you, or even rational ones, if they dont agree with your views, but what can you do? But in general, Id hate to think that someone hated me..
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Aug 2, 2009 9:55 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
NIGHTWLF
NIGHTWLFNIGHTWLFRICHMOND, Virginia USA3 Threads 29 Posts
Not me.......If you have haters, then that means they are jealous , so you must be doin somethin' rigt.peace cheers
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Aug 2, 2009 9:58 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
SlyIrish
SlyIrishSlyIrishKilkenny, Ireland11 Threads 402 Posts
I find hatred a very strong expression.
How can you possibly hate someone you don't know from Adam?
I don't hate, period.
I can dislike someone, and if someone says he/she hates me, I take it to be the same, just a strong dislike.
Do I care?
Yes, in a way I do.
I have to ask myself why it is so, what did I do to warrant it.
It does help me in a way to improve my own behaviour.
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Aug 2, 2009 9:59 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
NIGHTWLF: Not me.......If you have haters, then that means they are jealous , so you must be doin somethin' rigt.
perhaps ...but I think we all wish to be liked by our peers..handshake
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Aug 2, 2009 10:01 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
jessejess47: perhaps ...but I think we all wish to be liked by our peers..
Like my friend Tainogirl said, "who couldn't like Jeepers ? " grin
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Aug 2, 2009 10:03 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
jeepers: Like my friend Tainogirl said, "who couldn't like Jeepers ? "
well I will agree to that post .....thumbs up beer
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Aug 2, 2009 10:04 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
jessejess47: well I will agree to that post .....
cheers
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Aug 2, 2009 10:10 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
spiderbulgaria
spiderbulgariaspiderbulgariaYambol, Bulgaria9 Threads 250 Posts
I feel sorry for hater's, such a waste of time and energy. sad flower
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Aug 2, 2009 10:17 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
ihateusernames
ihateusernamesihateusernamesForestville, Maryland USA2 Threads 375 Posts
I don't
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Aug 2, 2009 10:18 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
spiderbulgaria: I feel sorry for hater's, such a waste of time and energy.


YES! thumbs up
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Aug 2, 2009 10:24 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
vanitystorm
vanitystormvanitystormroxboro, North Carolina USA12 Threads 180 Posts
petalbabe: I DO care what people think of me, yes. Im not afraid to admit that, either..

As regards CS, I get hurt by insults on here just as much as I do in real life. Perhaps I shouldnt, but I do.

I dont expect to be liked by everyone all the time, and I dont live my life trying to please others all the time either, but I do get upset if someone is nasty toward me; I dont think I would be human if I didnt. Some people say they dont give a fig what people think of them on here; I find that quite hard to believe really, but there you go.

As I say, there will always be some that take irrational dislikes to you, or even rational ones, if they dont agree with your views, but what can you do? But in general, Id hate to think that someone hated me..
i think u and avecaim are two of the nicest and geniune ladies on here. if someone hates ya'll than it's something wrong with them. i pay close attention to the comments people make on each post. You both are consistant with u'r beliefs and how you respond to others.hug hug
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Aug 2, 2009 10:24 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
It would bother me to know that someone really hated me. But I would then have to ask why? Is it because of something I said or did that made them feel this way. dunno
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Aug 2, 2009 10:26 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
ihateusernames
ihateusernamesihateusernamesForestville, Maryland USA2 Threads 375 Posts
Don't hate the player, hate the gamecool



sorry about the quality, its the best I could find
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Aug 2, 2009 10:30 AM CST how many of u really mind if ppl hate u?
Rod458
Rod458Rod458ST.Austell, Cornwall, England UK5 Threads 6 Posts
If someone hates someone without good reason for doing so,then they have the problem.
On chat I meet many good people,a lot now my friends,but there are some who won,t chat to me,but I don,t hate them.
If others got to know people properly,then they would know if they were good a good person.
Think of those who care about you and love you,and ignore those who may think they are better.take care
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