Chemistry (22)
I think it can be either immediate or develop but more often it happens quickly because it has something to do with pheromones and moon cycles. Y I am so intensely attracted to a man and not another is sometimes a mYsetery when I think about it logically. There is NOT really any list on which to Xx off his qualities, it is in subtler things like his smell, his gaze, moves, voice, how he talks to me.
Y people are attracted to me I will likely never know. I DO have a list of qualities I could Xx off about myself but what a man finds attractive in me is hard to guess.
Y people are attracted to me I will likely never know. I DO have a list of qualities I could Xx off about myself but what a man finds attractive in me is hard to guess.
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Chemestry to me is a combination of attractions about a women that attract.... I will name what comes to mind and in order the best i can
1 Phisical attraction
2Attitude, weather polite, humble, out going, Shy,
3size to my liking, my span, of what i like
4 Open, Closed, happy, sad,
Thats kinda the Basics, if they pass that i look at
1 Stability, The way they carry themselves in an establishment, Is she a Flaunt, Quiet, ladylike, SlobEct
2Married, single ,widowed, SEPARATED ,ha yea,
3 Children or not , ages as per my age...
4Carreer, job , work, disabled , alcoholic, Habits, Cleanliness
5 are their ways consistant.....
Are they willing to relocate for the right one, Ect
Just what comes to my mind, I feel the more points that you agree on makes up chemestry...
1 Phisical attraction
2Attitude, weather polite, humble, out going, Shy,
3size to my liking, my span, of what i like
4 Open, Closed, happy, sad,
Thats kinda the Basics, if they pass that i look at
1 Stability, The way they carry themselves in an establishment, Is she a Flaunt, Quiet, ladylike, SlobEct
2Married, single ,widowed, SEPARATED ,ha yea,
3 Children or not , ages as per my age...
4Carreer, job , work, disabled , alcoholic, Habits, Cleanliness
5 are their ways consistant.....
Are they willing to relocate for the right one, Ect
Just what comes to my mind, I feel the more points that you agree on makes up chemestry...
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yes chemistry is there from the start ...you feel like you have known the person your whole life,.. if it true chemistry you will feel so comfortable with the person in every way ......
and you will have the spark that is so clear ..
and you will have the spark that is so clear ..
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HotrodLarrys: Chemestry to me is a combination of attractions about a women that attract.... I will name what comes to mind and in order the best i can
1 Phisical attraction
2Attitude, weather polite, humble, out going, Shy,
3size to my liking, my span, of what i like
4 Open, Closed, happy, sad,
Thats kinda the Basics, if they pass that i look at1 Stability, The way they carry themselves in an establishment, Is she a Flaunt, Quiet, ladylike, SlobEct
2Married, single ,widowed, SEPARATED ,ha yea, 3 Children or not , ages as per my age...4Carreer, job , work, disabled , alcoholic, Habits, Cleanliness
5 are their ways consistant.....
Are they willing to relocate for the right one, Ect Just what comes to my mind, I feel the more points that you agree on makes up chemestry...
1 Phisical attraction
2Attitude, weather polite, humble, out going, Shy,
3size to my liking, my span, of what i like
4 Open, Closed, happy, sad,
Thats kinda the Basics, if they pass that i look at1 Stability, The way they carry themselves in an establishment, Is she a Flaunt, Quiet, ladylike, SlobEct
2Married, single ,widowed, SEPARATED ,ha yea, 3 Children or not , ages as per my age...4Carreer, job , work, disabled , alcoholic, Habits, Cleanliness
5 are their ways consistant.....
Are they willing to relocate for the right one, Ect Just what comes to my mind, I feel the more points that you agree on makes up chemestry...
I'm kinda unsure if some of there re your preferences or what you feel to be chemistry.
Another poster mentioned pheromones...oh boy..yeah..they help a lot!
Chemistry for me is a look in the eye, a smile, looks and body language which neither of you are in control of and surprie you both...that...is...lovely!!! Wooohoo!
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Entwangled: I know what my take on what chemistry is but I'm curious to know what other people think.
Is it something in the moment you meet?
Does it build?
Is it a feeling for you or something which is just there?
What's your take on what chemistry between people actually is?
Is it something in the moment you meet?
Does it build?
Is it a feeling for you or something which is just there?
What's your take on what chemistry between people actually is?
It's sharing the same vibe in that moment. But moments can change...as do vibes change.
Does it build? Only if the understanding, respect, and admiration builds, but that's a different type of chemistry...that's love.
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Chemistory can be there so often and yet it too often can be overlooked by our reality of it all....
At work your in profeshional mode!
In public you simply do not feel that it is right and proper to make an appoach due to that situations obviousness.
Or you simply do not know if they are available.
My problem is to keep my self respect as well as respecting her status and her dignity.
At work your in profeshional mode!
In public you simply do not feel that it is right and proper to make an appoach due to that situations obviousness.
Or you simply do not know if they are available.
My problem is to keep my self respect as well as respecting her status and her dignity.
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Entwangled: I know what my take on what chemistry is but I'm curious to know what other people think.
Is it something in the moment you meet?
Does it build?
Is it a feeling for you or something which is just there?
What's your take on what chemistry between people actually is?
Is it something in the moment you meet?
Does it build?
Is it a feeling for you or something which is just there?
What's your take on what chemistry between people actually is?
it is not chemistry....trust me, you don't want to do chemistry because it is a very raw and stinky subject. It is all about attraction...just simple as that.
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i also wonder about why women talk more about chemistry than men
do men have less "chemistry" in them?
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Entwangled: I'm kinda unsure if some of there re your preferences or what you feel to be chemistry.
Another poster mentioned pheromones...oh boy..yeah..they help a lot!
Chemistry for me is a look in the eye, a smile, looks and body language which neither of you are in control of and surprie you both...that...is...lovely!!! Wooohoo!
Another poster mentioned pheromones...oh boy..yeah..they help a lot!
Chemistry for me is a look in the eye, a smile, looks and body language which neither of you are in control of and surprie you both...that...is...lovely!!! Wooohoo!
Yes it is, That is (MY #1 attraction)
The rest go beyond that in other criteria, again like habbits, that to me is also attreaction, Ha, Go Take a Gal to a nice resteraunt and she is picking hey nose, and eating it while waiting for the Waitress Ha
See what i mean!, that is NOT ATTRACTION, ha
CAN YOU HEAR ME NOW?
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Entwangled: I'm kinda unsure if some of there re your preferences or what you feel to be chemistry.
Another poster mentioned pheromones...oh boy..yeah..they help a lot!
Chemistry for me is a look in the eye, a smile, looks and body language which neither of you are in control of and surprie you both...that...is...lovely!!! Wooohoo!
Another poster mentioned pheromones...oh boy..yeah..they help a lot!
Chemistry for me is a look in the eye, a smile, looks and body language which neither of you are in control of and surprie you both...that...is...lovely!!! Wooohoo!
This is also Chemestry, Absolutely, but what i am stating attributes that make them that UNIQUE to each of us, as we are all a lil different
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Chemistry to me is an emotional trigger that provokes a reaction. 
If a women tells me my secret it would have triggered a suprised reaction from me that would pull me towards her, this is chemistry.
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Chemistry to me is attraction. Without it you will be just best "friends" for life.
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tennesseejudy: Chemistry to me is attraction. Without it you will be just best "friends" for life.
Who asked you anyway
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tennesseejudy: Chemistry to me is attraction. Without it you will be just best "friends" for life.
you women just always love to make things difficult for men. don't you?
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StressFree: It's sharing the same vibe in that moment. But moments can change...as do vibes change.
Does it build? Only if the understanding, respect, and admiration builds, but that's a different type of chemistry...that's love.
Does it build? Only if the understanding, respect, and admiration builds, but that's a different type of chemistry...that's love.
Chemistry is sometimes the only thing that exists when a relationship begins; that deep seated feeling that "he knows me" happens all the time, not just in man/woman relationships but also when we meet a person who is a really good friend. But it waxes and wanes in a relationship, just like romance does. When we ignore chemistry and try to reshape the other person into what we think they should be, it messes things up, crosses the lines of communication. And, yes, chemistry can become love if we don't screw it up.
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tennesseejudy: Chemistry to me is attraction. Without it you will be just best "friends" for life.
I got all the friends I need; I need chemistry and the spark!
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Big_John: I got all the friends I need; I need chemistry and the spark!
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tennesseejudy: Shopping list:spark plugs
Dont forget the chemistry set. 
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Big_John: I got all the friends I need; I need chemistry and the spark!
There is no such thing as enough friends. Only need one lover, but all the friends you can get. 
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Is it something in the moment you meet?
Does it build?
Is it a feeling for you or something which is just there?
What's your take on what chemistry between people actually is?