I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please.... (137)
SHYGIRL31Port Perry, Ontario Canada13 Threads 574 PostsThanks mstyeyez 
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that's a big yes!
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Aw, why thank you! I am doing a bit better...emotionally, much stronger, however, i have another problem that is affecting my physical well being. My wisdom teeth have become bothersome - the gums are very, very swollen. I have trouble eating, so i have lost 5 pounds in one week! I am not getting the nutrition my body requires...so i am very weak. On top of that, i won't be getting them out until August 11th...so, i just have to grin and bear it! Grrrrr...ah well, hopefully the antibiotics start working more efficiently...otherwise the swelling will remain, and i will still not have much luck eating!
Anyway, enough about that! On the whole i am a happy, optimistic person...but this recent occurance in my life has brought me down a notch...but i'll rise back up! In regards to getting a massage or manicure/pedicure...i'll see what i can do! Maybe i'll even go shopping and buy a new outfit too!
Thank you for your concern, i hope you are doing well.
Anyway, enough about that! On the whole i am a happy, optimistic person...but this recent occurance in my life has brought me down a notch...but i'll rise back up! In regards to getting a massage or manicure/pedicure...i'll see what i can do! Maybe i'll even go shopping and buy a new outfit too!
Thank you for your concern, i hope you are doing well.
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Hmmmm...interesting, very interesting indeed 
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yep, yep. now how about a toast to you being single and me being here to see you single?
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Definitely, sounds like a great idea, let's have a toast!
A toast to the single life!
A toast to the single life!
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Why would a fool dump you? You are so nice and so cute. I'll take his place!
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hi just stopped by to give ya a hug..
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I think you may have answered your question with a question
....he dumped me because he IS a fool, at least how i see it now, and from what many friends and family have said. I thought i had a 'keeper'...my bad! I fell hard for a bad boy, so it's harder to get back up...i should've known better, but it is a lesson i will learn from, a mistake i can avoid in the future.
Thanks for the confidence boost, i really need that right now. You'd take his place?Awwwww....
Well...i already know that you have a better understanding of women, and that you have shown compassion, and are basically a great guy, one of the good ones! Glad to know i'm still desirable in that sense...why are all of the great guys so far away?
....he dumped me because he IS a fool, at least how i see it now, and from what many friends and family have said. I thought i had a 'keeper'...my bad! I fell hard for a bad boy, so it's harder to get back up...i should've known better, but it is a lesson i will learn from, a mistake i can avoid in the future. Thanks for the confidence boost, i really need that right now. You'd take his place?Awwwww....
Well...i already know that you have a better understanding of women, and that you have shown compassion, and are basically a great guy, one of the good ones! Glad to know i'm still desirable in that sense...why are all of the great guys so far away? ------ This thread is Archived ------
Aw, thanks Jax, glad you stopped by...hug received and a hug from me offered in return!
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thanx needed one.
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That's the only bad thing about this site. Everyone you see that looks like a good match for you, they live so far away. It's not fair!
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it sounds like he is not the right one if so he would have stayed through thick and thin.lucky for all the others who are real.
it takes two to tango some just dont dance as long.
it takes two to tango some just dont dance as long.
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IMPO, his hour and a half away excuse is pure bullshi*.
If I were you, I wouldn't waste my time worrying about it. (I know, that's hard to do, when you're hurt)..but believe me...the quicker you distance yourself from him...emotionally...the better off you're going to be. No one deserves to be treated that way. Find something healthy and fun and constructive to do to get your mind off of him.
If I were you, I wouldn't waste my time worrying about it. (I know, that's hard to do, when you're hurt)..but believe me...the quicker you distance yourself from him...emotionally...the better off you're going to be. No one deserves to be treated that way. Find something healthy and fun and constructive to do to get your mind off of him.
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he's bangin someone else during the week and any way 9 months and you still hadn't committed to moving near each other or something. Look you are an attractive women and if he was your first take time to see what else the world has to offer,if you truly see he is the best thing for you then go get him but I think if he was that selfish and disrespectfull you probably wanna take your time to figure all of us men out som more.
holla back and keep your head up mami!
holla back and keep your head up mami!
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I thoroughly sympathize with you dear. I am a grandmother of 5 and have been there just like you.
Over 20 years ago, I thought I found a man who was to be my partner for life. I had already been married once before, but he didn't care, and we had a wonderful relationship, and were engaged for 7 years/ I wasn't intrested in marriage and was content to be with him, period.
When he proposed, I was very happy. He showered me with gifts, jewelry, and clothes. He was very good to my children. Everything was like a dream come true.
Suddenly, after 14 months of marriage, he decided he wanted a divorce. This came as a complete shock, not only to me but to my family and friends. I don't know what gave me the stength and courage to move on, but it took a little time. Fortunately my children,
who were grown by then, were a great comfort and support.
So you see dear, remember, nobody dies from a broken heart. And the saying that there is only one mate for you in the world is not true.
There are plenty of fish in the sea and you will meet your life partner. You are young and you will look back on this as a learning life experience. Just don't give up. Time is a great healer. Best of luck. SONGBIRD.
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Pick your feet up off the ground an fly the sky is the limit! You have to look at this way he is the one sho lost you can set there and ponder in the past or what could have been or set your sights high and go for the gold. Its all up to you. I got dumped after tens years of marriage and it was absolutly devistating to me and my kids but we will make it just keep a positive attitude.
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