I know from personal experience that when i broke up with my ex and she just kept on like nothing had happened it bothered me for MONTHS. Next thing you know it was me that was devestated.
Aw gee, thanks Janice! That really means a lot to me, especially since you are one of the people i admire on her, you're awesome! I will indeed enjoy my week off, i am in need of some pampering...never had a professional massage, or manicure/pedicure, so perhaps i should try that route for relaxation!
Well thank you for the lovely kind words!! I'm very touched.
And OMG you will love to have a massage/spa treatment - its wonderful and they make you feel awesome so I highly suggest that indulgence - totally relax and enjoy.
Funny how we always seem to put off treating ourselves, but when we do we realize that we should be doing it more often and on a regular basis.
Well, you are very welcome...i only speak the truth, you are a wonderful lady! Sounds like a massage is just the thing i need right about now...total relaxation. I have to get back to doing things for me...and those who have been with me through the good and the bad, those who are true to me, my family and friends. I haven't been spoiling my dog as much as i used to either, so he's going be getting what he so deserves, back pay you could say, i owe him, he's the best! I have never really done much for myself, i always want the people around me to be happy, so i do what i can to make that happen...i love putting a smile on someone's face, there's not a greater sense of accomplishment than that!
Hiya Shaun! Don't worry, my chin is held high, i know this is for the best, i just wish that i would've realized it sooner, before i invested so much of myself into him. Ah well, ya live and learn right? Time is what i need...and rest, i am so exhausted! Take Care!
Agreed. I saw an old post in which you mentioned him, and I checked his pic. You can do better girl. Consider yourself released to find the right man for you.
Aw, thank you...i hope i will find the right one...in time! I forgot what it was like to be single...now i have got plenty more time for myself i guess. It's definitely for the best, i am better off!
Mike1162Over the Rainbow, Pennsylvania USA1,694 posts
Hi ShyGirl, It has been awhile since I have been here and I find it sad that one of the first threads I read is concerning you and your loss.
Always remember and don't ever forget that believing in yourself, thinking positive thoughts, and keeping that beautiful smile you have going on will take you where you need to go.
Just popping in to check on you and see how you're doing... chin up and do something wonderful for yourself this weekend, get a manicure, pedicure or go for a massage... something that will make you feel good...
Aw....Thank you Paul, you're such a sweetie. It definitely hurts to be dumped, but it hurts more because of the way he did it, makes me feel as though i am disposable...like my feelings don't matter...but i think it is his loss. It's funny though, because in his profile, he states that he is a gentleman and of genuine character, however, his actions and the way he spoke of women would disprove that! Perhaps someday, a man will sweep me off of my feet again...i will love again, and just as deeply. When i do things, i put my whole self into it, all or nothing. Hey, Paul you're single right?
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Enjoy your wonderful week off work to pamper and take care of yourself because you deserve it and are totally worth it.