I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please.... ( Archived) (137)

Jul 25, 2006 1:52 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Always remember that you were a beautiful caring woman before you met him and that you are still that same incredible woman!!

Enjoy your wonderful week off work to pamper and take care of yourself because you deserve it and are totally worth it.hug
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Jul 25, 2006 1:53 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
Fdapolis
FdapolisFdapolis154 Posts
I know from personal experience that when i broke up with my ex and she just kept on like nothing had happened it bothered me for MONTHS. Next thing you know it was me that was devestated.
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Jul 25, 2006 2:01 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
SHYGIRL31
SHYGIRL31SHYGIRL31Port Perry, Ontario Canada13 Threads 574 Posts
Aw gee, thanks Janice!blushing
That really means a lot to me, especially since you are one of the people i admire on her, you're awesome!
I will indeed enjoy my week off, i am in need of some pampering...never had a professional massage, or manicure/pedicure, so perhaps i should try that route for relaxation!

Take care.grin hug
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Jul 25, 2006 2:16 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Well thank you for the lovely kind words!! I'm very touched.

And OMG you will love to have a massage/spa treatment - its wonderful and they make you feel awesome so I highly suggest that indulgence - totally relax and enjoy.

Funny how we always seem to put off treating ourselves, but when we do we realize that we should be doing it more often and on a regular basis.
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Jul 25, 2006 2:21 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
his loss, you are a unque person who deserves better, Paul.
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Jul 25, 2006 2:32 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
ohiostate4life
ohiostate4lifeohiostate4lifemarion, Ohio USA34 Threads 626 Posts
I'm sorry to hear that. Keep your chin up, things will work out for the best. It may have not been meant to be, only time will tell.hug
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Jul 25, 2006 4:02 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
SHYGIRL31
SHYGIRL31SHYGIRL31Port Perry, Ontario Canada13 Threads 574 Posts
Well, you are very welcome...i only speak the truth, you are a wonderful lady!
Sounds like a massage is just the thing i need right about now...total relaxation. I have to get back to doing things for me...and those who have been with me through the good and the bad, those who are true to me, my family and friends. I haven't been spoiling my dog as much as i used to either, so he's going be getting what he so deserves, back pay you could say, i owe him, he's the best!
I have never really done much for myself, i always want the people around me to be happy, so i do what i can to make that happen...i love putting a smile on someone's face, there's not a greater sense of accomplishment than that!
grin cheers
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Jul 25, 2006 4:03 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
SHYGIRL31
SHYGIRL31SHYGIRL31Port Perry, Ontario Canada13 Threads 574 Posts
Thanks Paul, i believe you are right, i would like to think i am unique....lol
Take care!grin hug
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Jul 25, 2006 4:06 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
SHYGIRL31
SHYGIRL31SHYGIRL31Port Perry, Ontario Canada13 Threads 574 Posts
Hiya Shaun!
Don't worry, my chin is held high, i know this is for the best, i just wish that i would've realized it sooner, before i invested so much of myself into him. Ah well, ya live and learn right? Time is what i need...and rest, i am so exhausted!
Take Care!grin hug
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Jul 26, 2006 10:32 AM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
schmorbraten
schmorbratenschmorbratenCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany33 Threads 1,462 Posts
Hi Yami, hope you have a great day hug
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Jul 26, 2006 7:55 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
andyjay4
andyjay4andyjay4Puoghkeepsie, Maryland USA1 Threads 122 Posts
Agreed. I saw an old post in which you mentioned him, and I checked his pic. You can do better girl. Consider yourself released to find the right man for you. cheering
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Jul 26, 2006 11:11 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
VioladorDeLaLey
VioladorDeLaLeyVioladorDeLaLeyBajo Un Sol Feliz, USA11 Threads 4,548 Posts
Who would wanna dump you???....the guy's an idiot...i wouldn't dump you...i would take good care of ya grin
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Jul 27, 2006 8:22 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
SHYGIRL31
SHYGIRL31SHYGIRL31Port Perry, Ontario Canada13 Threads 574 Posts
Aw, thank you...i hope i will find the right one...in time!grin
I forgot what it was like to be single...now i have got plenty more time for myself i guess.sigh
It's definitely for the best, i am better off!grin
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Jul 27, 2006 8:23 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
SHYGIRL31
SHYGIRL31SHYGIRL31Port Perry, Ontario Canada13 Threads 574 Posts
I guess he did and he is, but that's his prerogative.dunno
Thanks, that's sweet, you look like a decent guy too!wink grin
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Jul 27, 2006 8:54 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
Mike1162
Mike1162Mike1162Over the Rainbow, Pennsylvania USA70 Threads 1,694 Posts
Hi ShyGirl,
It has been awhile since I have been here and I find it sad that one of the first threads I read is concerning you and your loss.

Always remember and don't ever forget that believing in yourself, thinking positive thoughts, and keeping that beautiful smile you have going on will take you where you need to go.

HUGS Girl
Mike
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Jul 28, 2006 7:34 AM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
just take your time and when you are ready, there will be someone out there to grab. Good luck!hug
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Jul 28, 2006 2:19 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
hos1971
hos1971hos1971Nova Scotia, Canada34 Threads 542 Posts
Just popping in to check on you and see how you're doing... chin up and do something wonderful for yourself this weekend, get a manicure, pedicure or go for a massage... something that will make you feel good... hug kiss
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Jul 28, 2006 2:21 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
mstyeyez
mstyeyezmstyeyez796 Posts
I'm sorrycomfort hug
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Jul 28, 2006 8:26 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
just wanted to say, hey his loss, we single guys gain, it hurts to be dumped but as bright as you are, there is only greatness ahead!peace
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Jul 28, 2006 8:59 PM CST I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please....
SHYGIRL31
SHYGIRL31SHYGIRL31Port Perry, Ontario Canada13 Threads 574 Posts
Aw....Thank you Paul, you're such a sweetie. It definitely hurts to be dumped, but it hurts more because of the way he did it, makes me feel as though i am disposable...like my feelings don't matter...but i think it is his loss.
It's funny though, because in his profile, he states that he is a gentleman and of genuine character, however, his actions and the way he spoke of women would disprove that! Perhaps someday, a man will sweep me off of my feet again...i will love again, and just as deeply. When i do things, i put my whole self into it, all or nothing.
Hey, Paul you're single right?wink grin jaw drop
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