I just got dumped! :( I am absolutely devastated! Need advice please.... (137)
betrayedAustin, Arkansas USA47 Threads 699 PostsAfter reviewing the location you provided in your profile I retract my statement of flying to your town Mrs. I live one billion miles away.
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Remember, disappointment is caused by unmet expectations. Disappointment is cured by revamped expectations.
Quote of the MONTH, at least!!!
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Quote of the MONTH, at least!!!
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Yeah, i guess i got the short end of the stick
Thank you though, but i feel a bit at loss now...i was so in love with him...and i can't just stop those feelings, but i'll try to work through it.
Thank you though, but i feel a bit at loss now...i was so in love with him...and i can't just stop those feelings, but i'll try to work through it.
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the feelings will take time to work through, but knwo you aren't alone and that you have people here to talk to... 
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Shygirl31,
I am sorry for your situation. I see no fault in you. It appears that there was more love for himself than for you. The love he had was a selfish love and you filled his need for a while. But, he wanted more for himself. It is not as if you killed part of the love by being selfish or uncaring. He was not worthy of such a woman as you with the love you have to give. It is hard now, but it is what is best for you. You find you a love that is right and he will walk the length of the world just for one touch of your hand and be content. You seem to be a special lady and your knight will come.
Len
I am sorry for your situation. I see no fault in you. It appears that there was more love for himself than for you. The love he had was a selfish love and you filled his need for a while. But, he wanted more for himself. It is not as if you killed part of the love by being selfish or uncaring. He was not worthy of such a woman as you with the love you have to give. It is hard now, but it is what is best for you. You find you a love that is right and he will walk the length of the world just for one touch of your hand and be content. You seem to be a special lady and your knight will come.
Len
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Nothing wrong with loving him...and caring enough to hurt over this..as someone very wise to me said during my time...it just shows that you are still capable of having those emotions...loving..caring...
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Len, that was a nice thing to say.
Take care,
Yami.
Take care,
Yami.
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Thank you, i did really love him, still do, always will, but i guess it wasn't reciprocated.
I feel i am embracing those feelings, but i can't help but think of what more i could've done to change this outcome...i guess it was meant to happen like this.
Thanks for your advice, i will do my best to work through all these feelings, no matter how difficult the process...i will come out stronger in the end. Take care!
I feel i am embracing those feelings, but i can't help but think of what more i could've done to change this outcome...i guess it was meant to happen like this.
Thanks for your advice, i will do my best to work through all these feelings, no matter how difficult the process...i will come out stronger in the end. Take care!
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Hello! Yami,
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Thanks a bunch...i did get the humour in it!
I am glad to be surrounded by such amazing people in here, like i said before, you're one of the great ones!
I am glad to be surrounded by such amazing people in here, like i said before, you're one of the great ones!
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We all know it hurt's,walk away learning somthing of value and never let it go.
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Listen to Fall in Love by Tom Jones,he say's it all.
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Thank you langley! You are so right. I should've trusted my intuition, it was right all along, but i chose to ignore it, because i didn't want to believe the truth. i didn't want to accept it. I will be more perceptive in the future. Thanks for your insight, muchly appreciated!
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Thank you. Great statement, so true...i did have some expectations, high hopes for the future, but my hopes were crushed with one statement..."I don't think this is going to work". I dreaded hearing that, and hoped i never would. I will be more careful next time...not to give myself so freely. I appreciate your imput.
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You wont grasp anything right now being the hurt so fresh just keep yourself busy cry all you want and give you time. When you really love someone there is not a switch you turn on and off as we sometimes wish. Only with time the hurtwill be less and less and then you will be happy again!
The only thing I can say is that as you can see many of us have being were you are right now and girl you are not alone, we are here to support you.
Take care,
Yami.
The only thing I can say is that as you can see many of us have being were you are right now and girl you are not alone, we are here to support you.
Take care,
Yami.
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My mind is still trying to absorb that, Dix. Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you for your response. Not sure if crazy glue is going to be the remedy for my heart, as it's shattered into millions of tiny pieces, but time can heal all wounds i believe, or i hope!
I agree with the distance thing, but i guess he just wasn't willing to make the extra effort...i told him i'd go to the ends of the earth for him, just to be with him, but that doesn't matter anymore, that wasn't enough for him. He must not have loved me that deeply, or that much to make it work.
I know tommorrow is a new day, and anything's possible...but until then, i don't know if i'll be able to sleep tonight.
I need all the hugs i can get!
I agree with the distance thing, but i guess he just wasn't willing to make the extra effort...i told him i'd go to the ends of the earth for him, just to be with him, but that doesn't matter anymore, that wasn't enough for him. He must not have loved me that deeply, or that much to make it work.
I know tommorrow is a new day, and anything's possible...but until then, i don't know if i'll be able to sleep tonight.
I need all the hugs i can get!
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If you need help going to sleep try reading a really boring book in dim light.
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Thanks, i needed that! I agree, i can't dwell on why or how this happened, life is indeed too short.
I know for certain, it will be awhile before i can possibly allow another man into my life, my trust has been damaged, but perhaps in time, and with the right man...i can open my heart again, but for now, closed for repairs, indefinitely. I too believe that i deserve someone who will love me and want to be with me, through anything.
Thanks!
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