WHY? (111)
Hazella: it was the same with readyornot0's goodbye thread the other day. It just disappeared as I went to post on it. there was nothing offensive at all. I actually had this conversation with jimbo yesterday evening on another thread that was removed. Its obviously petty childish reporting at this stage,
To Jimbo, keep posting and to hell with the begrudgers. Dont let them take over the forums altogether
To Jimbo, keep posting and to hell with the begrudgers. Dont let them take over the forums altogether
Its one law for one and another law for the other..
My personal opinion is that the mod who polices the Irish forum is a CS member who posts along with us....this is just my gut feeling and through observing whose threads get pulled and who remain free to continue to cause trouble 
my thread gone also saying i was taking a break
only delteted whewn i came back wonder if mods trying to give me a hint i came back to soon
but cant understand why it was pulled up to 2 am nothing was negative in it very strange
only delteted whewn i came back wonder if mods trying to give me a hint i came back to soonbut cant understand why it was pulled up to 2 am nothing was negative in it very strange
Crystal29: My personal opinion is that the mod who polices the Irish forum is a CS member who posts along with us....this is just my gut feeling and through observing whose threads get pulled and who remain free to continue to cause trouble
agree..ridiculous to pull inoffensive threads though.. im going to work now..this thread will prob be gone by the time i get home
(maybe me too) 
SlyIrish: Sorry, I didn't see the thread in question, and I do agree that it is getting harder and harder to post in here.
But what I've also noticed in the past is, the more we ask why, the more we criticize the mods decisions, the more threads get pulled and the more people disappear.
I can not understand people who report threads just because they do not like what is said in them, they don't have to partake, nobody is holding a gun to their heads to do so.
Too many people have gone missing already, and I'm getting more and more frustrated with the forums.
But what I've also noticed in the past is, the more we ask why, the more we criticize the mods decisions, the more threads get pulled and the more people disappear.
I can not understand people who report threads just because they do not like what is said in them, they don't have to partake, nobody is holding a gun to their heads to do so.
Too many people have gone missing already, and I'm getting more and more frustrated with the forums.
call me paranoid but i think one of the IE members are is either a mod or else is very "in with" the mods. There's no way any moderator could find offence in a lot of the removed threads.
There's a mole I tell you a mole
Moderators are supposed to be impartial but there's little eveidence of that these days
There's a mole I tell you a mole
Moderators are supposed to be impartial but there's little eveidence of that these days
Some forum rules
10. No bashing of this site or the moderators here. This is a free site...if you don't like the way things are handled here, you are as free to leave as you were to join.
11. There are no member-moderators on Connecting Singles. Anyone that pretends to be a moderator or pretends to work for ConnectingSingles.com will be banned.
I think he did have a bit of a dig at the mods but I stand to be corrected maybe this is why the thread was pulled
10. No bashing of this site or the moderators here. This is a free site...if you don't like the way things are handled here, you are as free to leave as you were to join.
11. There are no member-moderators on Connecting Singles. Anyone that pretends to be a moderator or pretends to work for ConnectingSingles.com will be banned.
I think he did have a bit of a dig at the mods but I stand to be corrected
maybe this is why the thread was pulled Hazella: call me paranoid but i think one of the IE members are is either a mod or else is very "in with" the mods. There's no way any moderator could find offence in a lot of the removed threads.
There's a mole I tell you a mole
Moderators are supposed to be impartial but there's little eveidence of that these days
There's a mole I tell you a mole
Moderators are supposed to be impartial but there's little eveidence of that these days
hmmmm...yeah a mole and she isnt impartial lol... and yeah I'll probably be gone when I get back from work too
only thing i can see what happened is cs is a business at end of day and if to many negative posts saying they not participating or leaving hen its not good publicity
bit ott but only thing i can think of
bit ott but only thing i can think of
Hazella: call me paranoid but i think one of the IE members are is either a mod or else is very "in with" the mods. There's no way any moderator could find offence in a lot of the removed threads.
There's a mole I tell you a mole
Moderators are supposed to be impartial but there's little eveidence of that these days
There's a mole I tell you a mole
Moderators are supposed to be impartial but there's little eveidence of that these days
I dont think there is a mole sure CS have access to all emails and IMs here so all they have to do is read them
We are not mod bashing...we are merely speculating and discussing.....personal opinions are still allowed I believe?...
Crystal29: We are not mod bashing...we are merely speculating and discussing.....personal opinions are still allowed I believe?...
well some posts and threads have been!!
skimpydoo: Somebody was petty enough to complain about it. It seems we can't all be different and have our points if view. I wonder whats next. Its getting ridiculous seeing innocent threads pulled and also innocent people banned.
i agree skimpy,
and whoever was petty enough to complain should hang their heads in shame they really are sad people,
id never complain no matter what was said to me its a part of life,
we all have the choice to leave,
sad little narrow minded people
Crystal29: My personal opinion is that the mod who polices the Irish forum is a CS member who posts along with us....this is just my gut feeling and through observing whose threads get pulled and who remain free to continue to cause trouble
Crystal and Hazela, I have said this to a few people privately so I'm glad that it's not merely my own personal paranoia at work here.
Does anyone bother to read the rules???
you may find the reason why the thread was pulled there.
Bashing the site and moderators is not allowed.
Why would anyone want to be here if all they do is complain about the way it is managed.
If I get banned today who would notice,no one. At least I hope not, this is not your world, it passes the time and help to make friends,(on line friends)and if you are really lucky you may meet the one.
If I get banned today my life is certainly not over. People who I have met on here have my email and or phone no and I can stay in touch.
My opinion is simply that, just my opinion.
Stop sweating the nonsense, worry when you have something to worry about.
you may find the reason why the thread was pulled there.
Bashing the site and moderators is not allowed.
Why would anyone want to be here if all they do is complain about the way it is managed.
If I get banned today who would notice,no one. At least I hope not, this is not your world, it passes the time and help to make friends,(on line friends)and if you are really lucky you may meet the one.
If I get banned today my life is certainly not over. People who I have met on here have my email and or phone no and I can stay in touch.
My opinion is simply that, just my opinion.
Stop sweating the nonsense, worry when you have something to worry about.
well mods job is a thankless job they cant please everyone
personally i think some decisions bit strange but then maybe they just so fed up with bs lately they taking preventitive action
personally i think some decisions bit strange but then maybe they just so fed up with bs lately they taking preventitive action
lorraine: Does anyone bother to read the rules???
you may find the reason why the thread was pulled there.
Bashing the site and moderators is not allowed.
Why would anyone want to be here if all they do is complain about the way it is managed.
If I get banned today who would notice,no one. At least I hope not, this is not your world, it passes the time and help to make friends,(on line friends)and if you are really lucky you may meet the one.
If I get banned today my life is certainly not over. People who I have met on here have my email and or phone no and I can stay in touch.
My opinion is simply that, just my opinion.
Stop sweating the nonsense, worry when you have something to worry about.
you may find the reason why the thread was pulled there.
Bashing the site and moderators is not allowed.
Why would anyone want to be here if all they do is complain about the way it is managed.
If I get banned today who would notice,no one. At least I hope not, this is not your world, it passes the time and help to make friends,(on line friends)and if you are really lucky you may meet the one.
If I get banned today my life is certainly not over. People who I have met on here have my email and or phone no and I can stay in touch.
My opinion is simply that, just my opinion.
Stop sweating the nonsense, worry when you have something to worry about.
I agree there have to be rules but the same rules should apply to all of us and evidently they dont!!!
Crystal29: I agree there have to be rules but the same rules should apply to all of us and evidently they dont!!!
yes its bs
we're all adults for gods sake
and not being allowed discuss certain things is ridiculous
any other sites we can go to ??
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Very true..no wonder people are leaving,
its not because of all the rudness and bickering..
its also because its fustrating to see inoffensive threads pulled just because one voices their opinion..