somechick: I believe most men appreciate the "little things". I guess it all depends whether it's sincere action on the part of the one doing the little things.
Definitely goes both ways, doesn't it. But I'm not so sure about most guys and gals appreciating it after reading some of the bashing threads. Would like to think it's just a bad font day there.
YouMeUs: Definitely goes both ways, doesn't it. But I'm not so sure about most guys and gals appreciating it after reading some of the bashing threads. Would like to think it's just a bad font day there.
YouMeUs: Definitely goes both ways, doesn't it. But I'm not so sure about most guys and gals appreciating it after reading some of the bashing threads. Would like to think it's just a bad font day there.
Sometimes you gotta ask those brazen questions... Date? Mate? one night stand? What you want? The shy ones will stutter, and the one that do not know... Will say... let's see where this goes. The one that know what they want, will say I want to get to know "YOU" Better. Start there. They do not say they love you right off. They "tell" you later. They do not ask for money, they keep things simple, remember they do not want to scare you away. Then they drop the bomb. They say it those words. Can I ask you something, or would you be mad at me if... Let him do the talking. You listen, you may find something you two need in one another, and want. Start there.
true true, I have the hardest time just getting them to be honest with me... I think as far as women go I'm pretty laid back, want it to be open, cool, commited, ok no prob. but why ohhh why do they lie??
kkitty2: hmmmm maybe its not game playing at all.....
could be a way of protecting ones heart
I myself am tired of ythe Games, i came her to be true and sincere, and looks like im here almost alone..... It has become a joke, but i am still having hope, even after about severalse Games, I dont do game well, be honest and sincer or leave me out, thats where I am at ,Tell it like it is, all i know
Sundown40: Tell them straight out?? I mean, no offense guys, but they don't take a hint to well.
on the flip side of that....women dont listen too well either.... you are blunt and tell them you are/aren't interested and they still dont get it... its almost as if they thought you were challenging them "if he says he likes me, i should ignore him cause he just wants one thing... and if he says he doesnt like me, i just have to try harder !!"
kkitty2OPsomewhere in Minnesota, Minnesota USA445 posts
seekndestroy: on the flip side of that....women dont listen too well either.... you are blunt and tell them you are/aren't interested and they still dont get it... its almost as if they thought you were challenging them "if he says he likes me, i should ignore him cause he just wants one thing... and if he says he doesnt like me, i just have to try harder !!"
could it be that some may have never experienced rejection before?
could it be some are afraid to trust somebody again?
kkitty2OPsomewhere in Minnesota, Minnesota USA445 posts
seekndestroy: it could....could it be that yall are being insecure by relying on subtle hints when it would be easier if you were to just say what's on your damn mind?????
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