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Aug 20, 2009 1:43 AM CST how do you know?
somechick: I believe most men appreciate the "little things". I guess it all depends whether it's sincere action on the part of the one doing the little things.
Definitely goes both ways, doesn't it. But I'm not so sure about most guys and gals appreciating it after reading some of the bashing threads. Would like to think it's just a bad font day there. laugh
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Aug 20, 2009 1:46 AM CST how do you know?
YouMeUs: Definitely goes both ways, doesn't it. But I'm not so sure about most guys and gals appreciating it after reading some of the bashing threads. Would like to think it's just a bad font day there.



I suppose it's their lose.
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Aug 20, 2009 1:47 AM CST how do you know?
YouMeUs: Definitely goes both ways, doesn't it. But I'm not so sure about most guys and gals appreciating it after reading some of the bashing threads. Would like to think it's just a bad font day there.


I guess it's both their losses.
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Aug 20, 2009 12:37 PM CST how do you know?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
somechick: I think it's by ones actions.


That's it! thumbs up
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Aug 20, 2009 12:53 PM CST how do you know?
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
Sometimes you gotta ask those brazen questions... Date? Mate? one night stand? What you want? The shy ones will stutter, and the one that do not know... Will say... let's see where this goes. The one that know what they want, will say I want to get to know "YOU" Better. Start there. They do not say they love you right off. They "tell" you later. They do not ask for money, they keep things simple, remember they do not want to scare you away. Then they drop the bomb. They say it those words. Can I ask you something, or would you be mad at me if... Let him do the talking. You listen, you may find something you two need in one another, and want. Start there.

professor
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Aug 20, 2009 12:57 PM CST how do you know?
Kristine1
Kristine1Kristine1Abilene, Texas USA2 Threads 381 Posts
true true, I have the hardest time just getting them to be honest with me...
I think as far as women go I'm pretty laid back, want it to be open, cool, commited, ok no prob. but why ohhh why do they lie??
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Aug 20, 2009 1:02 PM CST how do you know?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
kkitty2: I was reading through a post on the women playing games thread and I was just curios
how would I know if he really loves me?

so everyone that is sick of the game players tell them how it is....
how do you let him /her know that you really love them?


well i wanna sleep with her... that could mine that i love her...uh oh
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Aug 23, 2009 9:05 PM CST how do you know?
kkitty2
kkitty2kkitty2somewhere in Minnesota, Minnesota USA19 Threads 6 Polls 445 Posts
In response to: I was reading through a post on the women playing games thread and I was just curios
how would I know if he really loves me?

so everyone that is sick of the game players tell them how it is....
how do you let him /her know that you really love them?


hmmmm maybe its not game playing at all.....

could be a way of protecting ones heart grin
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Aug 23, 2009 9:13 PM CST how do you know?
kkitty2: hmmmm maybe its not game playing at all.....

could be a way of protecting ones heart



I myself am tired of ythe Games, i came her to be true and sincere, and looks like im here almost alone..... It has become a joke, but i am still having hope, even after about severalse Games, I dont do game well, be honest and sincer or leave me out, thats where I am at ,Tell it like it is, all i knowgrin cool
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Aug 23, 2009 9:18 PM CST how do you know?
kkitty2: I was reading through a post on the women playing games thread and I was just curios
how would I know if he really loves me?

so everyone that is sick of the game players tell them how it is....
how do you let him /her know that you really love them?
You tell them you really love themdoh
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Aug 23, 2009 9:19 PM CST how do you know?
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
Sundown40: Tell them straight out?? I mean, no offense guys, but they don't take a hint to well.


on the flip side of that....women dont listen too well either.... you are blunt and tell them you are/aren't interested and they still dont get it... its almost as if they thought you were challenging them "if he says he likes me, i should ignore him cause he just wants one thing... and if he says he doesnt like me, i just have to try harder !!"

doh
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Aug 23, 2009 9:23 PM CST how do you know?
In response to: I was reading through a post on the women playing games thread and I was just curios
how would I know if he really loves me?

so everyone that is sick of the game players tell them how it is....
how do you let him /her know that you really love them?



Our ctions speak awhole lot louder then words.After all men can't read our minds.
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Aug 23, 2009 9:25 PM CST how do you know?
kkitty2
kkitty2kkitty2somewhere in Minnesota, Minnesota USA19 Threads 6 Polls 445 Posts
seekndestroy: on the flip side of that....women dont listen too well either.... you are blunt and tell them you are/aren't interested and they still dont get it... its almost as if they thought you were challenging them "if he says he likes me, i should ignore him cause he just wants one thing... and if he says he doesnt like me, i just have to try harder !!"



could it be that some may have never experienced rejection before?

could it be some are afraid to trust somebody again? conversing
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Aug 23, 2009 9:32 PM CST how do you know?
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
kkitty2: could it be that some may have never experienced rejection before?

could it be some are afraid to trust somebody again?


it could....


could it be that yall are being insecure by relying on subtle hints when it would be easier if you were to just say what's on your damn mind?????
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Aug 23, 2009 9:39 PM CST how do you know?
kkitty2
kkitty2kkitty2somewhere in Minnesota, Minnesota USA19 Threads 6 Polls 445 Posts
seekndestroy: it could....could it be that yall are being insecure by relying on subtle hints when it would be easier if you were to just say what's on your damn mind?????


rolling on the floor laughing I was thinking the same thing bout yall grin
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