Opinions pls..but pls dont judge in what i am going to say... (152)
Hi joanne 
I agree with you i don't agree with violence but when my ex cheated and i found out i hit him with the mop.
Not proud of it, had never done anything like that before.
We can't say untill we're faced with it.
I agree with you i don't agree with violence but when my ex cheated and i found out i hit him with the mop.Not proud of it, had never done anything like that before.
We can't say untill we're faced with it.
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morgan5: Hi joanne I agree with you i don't agree with violence but when my ex cheated and i found out i hit him with the mop.
Not proud of it, had never done anything like that before.
We can't say untill we're faced with it.
Not proud of it, had never done anything like that before.
We can't say untill we're faced with it.
yup that is what i would think/say...
i just didnt like them judging him and thought he should had a fair shake..he must be hating what he did and what he found out..
compassion i think is thrown out the window long ago
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Never, never, never would I accept violence as an acceptable mode of expressing yourself. Just because you think you have a valid reason, so does every person. You must control yourself and stop before you do this. Walk away. You are wrong to hitting someone.
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Big_John: Never, never, never would I accept violence as an acceptable mode of expressing yourself. Just because you think you have a valid reason, so does every person. You must control yourself and stop before you do this. Walk away. You are wrong to hitting someone.
you might be right..
but i cannot say i would not do what he did in that situation..
whether right/wrong..we have all done something we are not proud of..and may not be able to always control our feelings
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Big_John: Never, never, never would I accept violence as an acceptable mode of expressing yourself. Just because you think you have a valid reason, so does every person. You must control yourself and stop before you do this. Walk away. You are wrong to hitting someone.
My ex hit me with an umbrella for less. She ruined the umbrella and got soaked that night.
I think I may have paid for her hair appointment the next day!
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no violence but walk away and don't look back, ex cheated and then filed for divorce, changed her mind and wanted to come back, took me two years to get the divorce finalized, she wanted her cake and eat it too. so i walk
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morgan5: Hi joanne I agree with you i don't agree with violence but when my ex cheated and i found out i hit him with the mop.
Not proud of it, had never done anything like that before.
We can't say untill we're faced with it.
Not proud of it, had never done anything like that before.
We can't say untill we're faced with it.
I was so distraught I took a pair of scissors to his clothes...took a few inches off a couple of pairs of jeans (one leg only), a couple of sweaters (one sleeve only). He's lucky he wasnt wearing them at the time ..
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kissmedeeply: you might be right..
but i cannot say i would not do what he did in that situation..
whether right/wrong..we have all done something we are not proud of..and may not be able to always control our feelings
but i cannot say i would not do what he did in that situation..
whether right/wrong..we have all done something we are not proud of..and may not be able to always control our feelings
Every person who ends up in court has some sort of sad expression of why they did what they did.... Either you are a person who can control yourself or you are one of 'them'.
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caspatch: no violence but walk away and don't look back, ex cheated and then filed for divorce, changed her mind and wanted to come back, took me two years to get the divorce finalized, she wanted her cake and eat it too. so i walk
Sometimes easier said then done..
I was hit when i was pregnant with my youngest in the stomach..
I did walk away from that..
Things do happen and sometimes we cant explain why..
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serene56: I was so distraught I took a pair of scissors to his clothes...took a few inches off a couple of pairs of jeans (one leg only), a couple of sweaters (one sleeve only). He's lucky he wasnt wearing them at the time .. and I had never done anything like that before either - or since. I could never trust him again and the relationship ended
I am sorry.
that is my point..people do different things becos of what happen..
I cannot judge anyone for what they have done..
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ofcourse he will hit him or maybe more...in other country once the husband caught the wife,it ends in a murder sometimes ..
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kissmedeeply: Sometimes easier said then done..
I was hit when i was pregnant with my youngest in the stomach..
I did walk away from that..
Things do happen and sometimes we cant explain why..
I was hit when i was pregnant with my youngest in the stomach..
I did walk away from that..
Things do happen and sometimes we cant explain why..
hope you had him jailed
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I was cheated on once by someone I really loved.When I wittnessed what him and her were doing I didn't say a word but turned around and just walked away.
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Big_John: Every person who ends up in court has some sort of sad expression of why they did what they did.... Either you are a person who can control yourself or you are one of 'them'.
One of them..
I dont like violence..
but as i said if havent been faced with that..
So i cannot say i wouldnt hit or not..
THAT DOES NOT MAKE ME A BAD PERSON
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caspatch: hope you had him jailed
Nope i did not..
I walk away for the sake of my child and me..
but later on he got into trouble with police and he is put away for now..
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kissmedeeply: One of them..
I dont like violence..
but as i said if havent been faced with that..
So i cannot say i wouldnt hit or not..
THAT DOES NOT MAKE ME A BAD PERSON
I dont like violence..
but as i said if havent been faced with that..
So i cannot say i wouldnt hit or not..
THAT DOES NOT MAKE ME A BAD PERSON
If you decide to hit them it does make you the bad person. There is no middle grounds on violence. Once it starts you can't control where it will go. You hit, he hits back.... etc.
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somechick: I was cheated on once by someone I really loved.When I wittnessed what him and her were doing I didn't say a word but turned around and just walked away.
I feel i dont think i could walk away...
I would want to know why the hell all of this
but good for you
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morgan5: Hi joanne I agree with you i don't agree with violence but when my ex cheated and i found out i hit him with the mop.
Not proud of it, had never done anything like that before.
We can't say untill we're faced with it.
Not proud of it, had never done anything like that before.
We can't say untill we're faced with it.
Hi Morgan,Your action comes under "A bit if sorting out in the house" so it's allowed!
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krisha: ofcourse he will hit him or maybe more...in other country once the husband caught the wife,it ends in a murder sometimes ..
used to be like that here in the south, years ago if a person caught their mate in their bed with someone else they could get away with murder, not any more tho
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He really got jump on for stating that he left her but hit him..
I dont agree in violence..
but how could one really know unless faced it...
for me..if my husband seen me with another..
sure as hell he would strike him down..
For me i didnt judge the OP becos i probably would slap him silly if i was faced with that..and same with the female..
Opinions on what you would do..
but as i said dont judge pls