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Sep 24, 2009 5:07 PM CST Nice guy
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
Fireoverhere: Is there such thing as being to nice. I'm decent looking an I have had some beautiful
Girlfriends but it seems that the girls that break up with me always end up dating the obnoxious
Thugg type . Idk maybe I should stop being so nice any advice.


Yes, there is such a thing as being too nice. It's called being a doormat and that's when you just let anyone and everyone step all over you while you are afraid to take a stand for your self preservation in the face of adversity.
Those 'girlfriends' of yours didn't leave because you were too nice, maybe you're not assertive enough, too hesitant?

There is difference between being nice and not being assertive.
It's a medium we all struggle with. Some go too far and end up being jerks and others end up being doormats.

You also have to discriminate between different people.
I mean by that, some people will be rude and crude to you, just give them back their change and some will be pleasant and nice.
Conduct yourself accordingly.
Rule of the day: Be polite.
That never fails.
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Sep 24, 2009 5:08 PM CST Nice guy
Fireoverhere
FireoverhereFireoverherecamden, Tennessee USA2 Threads 1 Polls 4 Posts
Thanks yall lol I'm new to this site but anyways advise is great. Havoc guy your hilarious thanks
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Sep 24, 2009 5:12 PM CST Nice guy
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Fireoverhere: Is there such thing as being to nice. I'm decent looking an I have had some beautiful
Girlfriends but it seems that the girls that break up with me always end up dating the obnoxious
Thugg type . Idk maybe I should stop being so nice any advice.


If it ain`t broken , don`t fix it

but if it ain`t working ........think about it

is it the girls ,or is it you
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Sep 24, 2009 5:17 PM CST Nice guy
RedStrawberri
RedStrawberriRedStrawberriMascouche/Terrebonne, Quebec Canada1 Posts
Date ulgy girls?? Just kiddin...
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Sep 24, 2009 5:19 PM CST Nice guy
francie81
francie81francie81Dunleer, Louth Ireland3 Threads 558 Posts
I will always say you have to feel that bit of attraction also on top of the best of all in personality, well considering most off the shop window girls go for looks all the way anyway.
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Sep 24, 2009 5:26 PM CST Nice guy
ContraryCol
ContraryColContraryColcrawley, West Sussex, England UK15 Threads 1 Polls 601 Posts
Fireoverhere: Is there such thing as being to nice. I'm decent looking an I have had some beautiful
Girlfriends but it seems that the girls that break up with me always end up dating the obnoxious
Thugg type . Idk maybe I should stop being so nice any advice.

My friend your getting the dates so it is not like you can not attract them with your looks and personality.
You and they are young and you simply have to except that most young people fall in and out of love quite often simply due to them not often knowing what they want as well as them not wanting to settle down too early-maybe try to be less intense?
From what I see you have a bright future in your trade and you have everything going for you.
In years to come maybe those girls will look back and go "damn,did I make a big mistake".
But whatever. Just enjoy your dating and don't take the attitude that the next one will be "the one".



cheers
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Sep 24, 2009 5:47 PM CST Nice guy
spiderbulgaria
spiderbulgariaspiderbulgariaYambol, Bulgaria9 Threads 250 Posts
RedStrawberri: Date ulgy girls?? Just kiddin...


Fancy a date. Just kidding. devil devil devil
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Sep 24, 2009 5:50 PM CST Nice guy
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
hopefloats: Thanks for the warning JD.....now everyone !
No more "coffee" for you sir. Behave!


.......What.!!!...As in 'Behave'...snooty......Come on now....Someone has to to 'Stir the Pot' on here ......grin ....devil ..devil


J.D
grin devil
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Sep 24, 2009 5:51 PM CST Nice guy
breda
bredabredaDublin, Ireland3 Threads 477 Posts
Boban1: If it ain`t broken , don`t fix it

but if it ain`t working ........think about it

is it the girls ,or is it you
THATS BETTER.NICE BOY.laugh bouquet
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Sep 24, 2009 5:55 PM CST Nice guy
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
breda: THATS BETTER.NICE BOY.


Nice boy???

me???shock
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Sep 24, 2009 5:56 PM CST Nice guy
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
virgiomonkey: .......What.!!!...As in 'Behave'.........Come on now....Someone has to to 'Stir the Pot' on here ...... .... .. J.D


And who better than you, JD?
wave wave wave
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Sep 24, 2009 6:11 PM CST Nice guy
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
WhatUwish4: And who better than you, JD?


...........Thank you so kindly Ma'am......grin ...hug ..devil ....devil ....

J.Dgrin devil
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Sep 24, 2009 7:09 PM CST Nice guy
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Be a nice guy and true to yourself. If they don't want you...they are not the kind you want anyway. It is like hunting for a diamond my friend!thumbs up
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Sep 24, 2009 7:12 PM CST Nice guy
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: Be a nice guy and true to yourself. If they don't want you...they are not the kind you want anyway. It is like hunting for a diamond my friend!


..laugh....Far worse then that.....Try hunting for an 'Needle in the Haystack'....expect the Haystack is the size of a Foot ball field.........grin .....devil ....devil ....

J.Dgrin devil
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Sep 24, 2009 7:15 PM CST Nice guy
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
and all the other guys have magnets and we don't!grin
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Sep 24, 2009 7:17 PM CST Nice guy
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: and all the other guys have magnets and we don't!


....................laugh laugh thumbs up thumbs up ..

J.Dgrin cheers devil
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Sep 24, 2009 7:18 PM CST Nice guy
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
blues cheers
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Sep 24, 2009 7:19 PM CST Nice guy
Don't change who you are for anyone.I've got a son who's your age and I've always told him to always be a nice guy,and for him not to let anyone use him as a doormat.
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Sep 24, 2009 7:21 PM CST Nice guy
saseez
saseezsaseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
Well guys need to be nice but also need that umph ,,the zing .. that makes them fun and desirable and not just boring .... Aguy who has balance is the go ..... A mixture of all things needed wine
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Sep 24, 2009 7:28 PM CST Nice guy
Michael211_2000
Michael211_2000Michael211_2000Houston, Texas USA22 Threads 5 Polls 775 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: and all the other guys have magnets and we don't!


More likely they have criminal records actually... women seem to find that attractive in the men they date these days. dunno

Hey don't shoot the messenger!!! It's just my observation that's all. uh oh

- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!") cowboy
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