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Girlfriends but it seems that the girls that break up with me always end up dating the obnoxious
Thugg type . Idk maybe I should stop being so nice any advice.
Yes, there is such a thing as being too nice. It's called being a doormat and that's when you just let anyone and everyone step all over you while you are afraid to take a stand for your self preservation in the face of adversity.
Those 'girlfriends' of yours didn't leave because you were too nice, maybe you're not assertive enough, too hesitant?
There is difference between being nice and not being assertive.
It's a medium we all struggle with. Some go too far and end up being jerks and others end up being doormats.
You also have to discriminate between different people.
I mean by that, some people will be rude and crude to you, just give them back their change and some will be pleasant and nice.
Conduct yourself accordingly.
Rule of the day: Be polite.
That never fails.