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Sep 24, 2009 7:30 PM CST Nice guy
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
Fireoverhere: Is there such thing as being to nice. I'm decent looking an I have had some beautiful
Girlfriends but it seems that the girls that break up with me always end up dating the obnoxious
Thugg type . Idk maybe I should stop being so nice any advice.


You have probably dated young, eye candy. I wish that I could tell you that at your age you are going to find a mature, nice girl. I don't think you will. From reading your profile, that's not really what you are looking for. I'm not trying to be mean, just calling it like I see it. What you think you want and what you are really going after are two different things. We all say that we are looking for a certain type, but then we find our self attracted to something totally different. We all do it.

The only advice I can give to you (if you want it) is to keep your mind open to possibilities of different types of girls. Really get to know them before you chalk them off. Good luck.
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Sep 24, 2009 7:31 PM CST Nice guy
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
They like a badass......but those women I don't want anyhoo. I want one with some smarts!rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 24, 2009 7:37 PM CST Nice guy
Michael211_2000
Michael211_2000Michael211_2000Houston, Texas USA22 Threads 5 Polls 775 Posts
woodzchick: We all say that we are looking for a certain type, but then we find our self attracted to something totally different. We all do it.


No, not actually.

- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!") cowboy
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Sep 24, 2009 7:42 PM CST Nice guy
Desertguy49
Desertguy49Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA7 Threads 2,259 Posts
woodzchick: You have probably dated young, eye candy. I wish that I could tell you that at your age you are going to find a mature, nice girl. I don't think you will. From reading your profile, that's not really what you are looking for. I'm not trying to be mean, just calling it like I see it. What you think you want and what you are really going after are two different things. We all say that we are looking for a certain type, but then we find our self attracted to something totally different. We all do it.

The only advice I can give to you (if you want it) is to keep your mind open to possibilities of different types of girls. Really get to know them before you chalk them off. Good luck.


You can't always get what you want, but sometimes you get what you need. Seems I heard that somewhere LOLlaugh
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Sep 24, 2009 8:01 PM CST Nice guy
saseez
saseezsaseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
Desertguy49: You can't always get what you want, but sometimes you get what you need. Seems I heard that somewhere LOL
laugh



there you go laugh grin cheers
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Sep 24, 2009 8:03 PM CST Nice guy
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
Fireoverhere: Is there such thing as being to nice. I'm decent looking an I have had some beautiful
Girlfriends but it seems that the girls that break up with me always end up dating the obnoxious
Thugg type . Idk maybe I should stop being so nice any advice.


I hate obnoxious thug looking THUGG guys....really I DO.You know,those tough guys who think they are all that.
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Sep 24, 2009 8:04 PM CST Nice guy
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2: I hate obnoxious thug looking THUGG guys....really I DO.You know,those tough guys who think they are all that.
grin
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Sep 24, 2009 8:12 PM CST Nice guy
Fireoverhere
FireoverhereFireoverherecamden, Tennessee USA2 Threads 1 Polls 4 Posts
Tell me about it
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Oct 1, 2009 8:43 AM CST Nice guy
Shawshank
ShawshankShawshanktromso, Troms Norway3 Threads 8 Posts
Gotta be true to yourself mate!.
I see a lot of people here tells you to not change the way you are, and rightly so. But we can always develop who we are and our qualities.

I think it might have something to do with how others(the girls) see you. In my experience, the girls prefer guys who can lead.
Not in that super dominant(there are thoose who like that as well)kinda way, but just to make a decision when one needs to be made, always speak your mind and by standing up for yourself and your girl.professor

Daniel
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Oct 1, 2009 8:46 AM CST Nice guy
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
Fireoverhere: Is there such thing as being to nice. I'm decent looking an I have had some beautiful
Girlfriends but it seems that the girls that break up with me always end up dating the obnoxious
Thugg type . Idk maybe I should stop being so nice any advice.


dont change your good attitude,you are still young and can wait the right lady for u.
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Oct 1, 2009 9:20 AM CST Nice guy
Michael211_2000: More likely they have criminal records actually... women seem to find that attractive in the men they date these days.

Hey don't shoot the messenger!!! It's just my observation that's all.

- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!")

(Some) Nice Guys wear Shirts, so the women dont Insult them in public Forums, and dont have to wear a Texas licence plate to assume to look BIGGER IN Forums, It Really insults yourself

Just my Observation! Thats all
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Oct 1, 2009 9:22 AM CST Nice guy
be yourself if you are a great person stay that way, dont worry you have flaws like everyone else lol. you dont have to be walked on though
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