Can you remember the first time you were ever dumped and how did you react to it? (45)
Your not counting getting birthed then! dumped, hung upside down and slapped on the butt. I was pissed! and didn't know how to say damnit!
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I remember quite clearly;
I was 16,he was 17.I elbowed
him in the gut as he passed
me in class.Got detention after
school.
There's a whole lot of difference;
when I was younger it really didn't bother
me as I was young and the emotional heartaches
were dealt with easily.I've never been dumped
as an adult.
I was 16,he was 17.I elbowed
him in the gut as he passed
me in class.Got detention after
school.
There's a whole lot of difference;
when I was younger it really didn't bother
me as I was young and the emotional heartaches
were dealt with easily.I've never been dumped
as an adult.
In response to: Can you remember the first time you were ever dumped and how did you react to it?
Is there much difference to being dumped as an adult than being dumped in your first efforts with dating?
Dones it effect you more,less or the same?
Is there much difference to being dumped as an adult than being dumped in your first efforts with dating?
Dones it effect you more,less or the same?
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don't remember the first time but i do the last one and they hurt regardless of when it happens in life, you just pick up and move on 
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ContraryCol: Can you remember the first time you were ever dumped and how did you react to it?
Is there much difference to being dumped as an adult than being dumped in your first efforts with dating?
Dones it effect you more,less or the same?
Is there much difference to being dumped as an adult than being dumped in your first efforts with dating?
Dones it effect you more,less or the same?
............Yep....Sure,I have been so called, 'dumped' on many occasions ...and how did I feel..????...'Relieved'...........
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.... .....J.D
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I don't wish to continue to recall when I was dumped.Besides my past is the past and I've decided to leave what happpened there behind and turn some pages.
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somechick: I don't wish to continue to recall when I was dumped.Besides my past is the past and I've decided to leave what happpened there behind and turn some pages.
That sounds too easy and unaccountable!
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ContraryCol: That sounds too easy and unaccountable!
Why is it too easy and unaccountable?Cause I don't care to constantly dwell in the past constantly and not move on.What purpose would it serve anyway?
I got rid of the excess baggage long ago and didn't wish to take it into another relationship.
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I remember the first time. He was seeing someone else.
I remember the last time. He was seeing someone else.
and there were a few in the middle that were also seeing someone else.
Frued would say it must be something I'm doing....I have no idea what though.
I remember the last time. He was seeing someone else.
and there were a few in the middle that were also seeing someone else.
Frued would say it must be something I'm doing....I have no idea what though.
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letting them see someone else would be my guess
lrrh77: I remember the first time. He was seeing someone else.
I remember the last time. He was seeing someone else.
and there were a few in the middle that were also seeing someone else.
Frued would say it must be something I'm doing....I have no idea what though.
I remember the last time. He was seeing someone else.
and there were a few in the middle that were also seeing someone else.
Frued would say it must be something I'm doing....I have no idea what though.
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ContraryCol: Can you remember the first time you were ever dumped and how did you react to it?
Is there much difference to being dumped as an adult than being dumped in your first efforts with dating?
Dones it effect you more,less or the same?
Is there much difference to being dumped as an adult than being dumped in your first efforts with dating?
Dones it effect you more,less or the same?
I can honestly say I´ve never been dumped, neither when I was young nor as a divorced adult. However, I do think there is a big difference between this happening during adulthood and the relationships formed when younger, even though they may still be classed as as adulthood. I´m thinking of middle-aged folk here.
Adults who have "gone through the mill" and are more....well can I say desperate to find somebody? are often distraught. Younger people generally know, after a short time of mourning, that there is always somebody "around the corner". that is the beauty of youth!
One´s options decrease the older one gets. Fact of life.
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somechick: Why is it too easy and unaccountable?Cause I don't care to constantly dwell in the past constantly and not move on.What purpose would it serve anyway?
I got rid of the excess baggage long ago and didn't wish to take it into another relationship.
I got rid of the excess baggage long ago and didn't wish to take it into another relationship.
Sorry somechick.Maybe I misread what you ment. What I think is that I do think occassionaly at de-ja-vu moments about past experiences in relationships and try to use that as a tool. I never mope about past relationships once im over it.
I agree too that its pointless and counter productive to bring too much old baggage into a new relationship.
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ContraryCol: Can you remember the first time you were ever dumped and how did you react to it?
Is there much difference to being dumped as an adult than being dumped in your first efforts with dating?
Dones it effect you more,less or the same?
Is there much difference to being dumped as an adult than being dumped in your first efforts with dating?
Dones it effect you more,less or the same?
Sorry, I can't remember that far in the past
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I havnt been dumped but i have dumped them and that felt bad even tho they treated me like crap
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In response to: Can you remember the first time you were ever dumped and how did you react to it?
Is there much difference to being dumped as an adult than being dumped in your first efforts with dating?
Dones it effect you more,less or the same?
Is there much difference to being dumped as an adult than being dumped in your first efforts with dating?
Dones it effect you more,less or the same?
What is dumping anyway? Mostly a friendship ends on both sides. Dumping usually isn t necessary unless she wants to show some brainless power. and think the other side will 
But in fact I have been dumped once when I was very young LOL 
But over all I am a kind of 
guy. Making a scene is something for on stage in my opinion. 
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saseez: I havnt been dumped but i have dumped them and that felt bad even tho they treated me like crap
That's not dumping, dear, that's getting rid of 'em.
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Yeah, I remember. We were both in band. I was a freshman & he was a senior. He took me to a band competition, along with his brother & his brother's friend. He kissed me. I told a friend he kissed me. She spread around that I said we were "necking". He heard. Being the nerd he was, he said we couldn't go out anymore because of it. I thought I was going to faint. 
He was a loser.
I've grown a lot since then. And I always say to myself now, "This, too, shall pass". I know that the pain subsides & someone else comes along. With experience, comes wisdom. 
He was a loser. I've grown a lot since then. And I always say to myself now, "This, too, shall pass". I know that the pain subsides & someone else comes along. With experience, comes wisdom.
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Grandepensees: That's not dumping, dear, that's getting rid of 'em.
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saseez: I havnt been dumped but i have dumped them and that felt bad even tho they treated me like crap
One of the first girlfriends I dumped was when I was 17 and she was 19.We worked together and we dated for about 4 weeks.I told her that I felt too young to get too involved,which was true.
However I did not mention the fact that her boyfriend was due out of prison in a weeks time for GBH and ABH with intent!!
But I still fely bad.
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saseez: yeah i should of got rid of them properly ..but i didnt have a shovel handy
No need to go to extremes.
Just open the door and say "Get the fak out!"
The shovel would only dull their mind even further, do another sister a favor
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Is there much difference to being dumped as an adult than being dumped in your first efforts with dating?
Dones it effect you more,less or the same?