Money or Love! (44)

Sep 30, 2009 4:20 AM CST Money or Love!
unique83
unique83unique83Roermond, Limburg Netherlands10 Threads 2 Polls 18 Posts
Hi guys! I have a quick question...Do you think that social status is the key factor to get married with someone who is not equal your financial status..I wanna make it clear..if you get married with someone who is really poor in contrast you are really wealthy is it possible to keep going your marriage for a long time?

Have a nice day! cheers professor
Sep 30, 2009 4:25 AM CST Money or Love!
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
Personally I dont think that social status or financial backgrounds has anything to do with love.

If you love someone, you love THEM as a person, as an entity. Different backgrounds can cause difficulties in any relationship, however love encompasses acceptance, forgiveness and understanding, to name a few.

Surely such differences would be overlooked, accepted, whatever to the advancement of the relationship.
Sep 30, 2009 4:33 AM CST Money or Love!
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,959 Posts
Hmm hmmm

Looking a little deeper into this question, I guess it would depend on the reason for the "poor"...what I mean by that is if the poor person was in that situation because they have a bad (or no) work ethic and the other person was financially stable or wealthy because they do, well... I would imagine that they would run into all sorts of problems within the relationship.

jmo
Sep 30, 2009 4:42 AM CST Money or Love!
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
serene56: Hmm

Looking a little deeper into this question, I guess it would depend on the reason for the "poor"...what I mean by that is if the poor person was in that situation because they have a bad (or no) work ethic and the other person was financially stable or wealthy because they do, well... I would imagine that they would run into all sorts of problems within the relationship.

jmo


I get your idea too, I was taking it from a different tack.. that you'd not marry someone because they were from the 'wrong side of the tracks' so to speak.

But yeah, if they were a lazy a*se, well I guess I wouldnt fall in love with them anyway because lazy is very unattractive to me.
Sep 30, 2009 6:02 AM CST Money or Love!
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
Money now since love avoids me?
Sep 30, 2009 6:06 AM CST Money or Love!
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,959 Posts
LoveableOne: Money now since love avoids me?



comfort dont give up loveable hug
Sep 30, 2009 6:08 AM CST Money or Love!
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
LoveableOne: Money now since love avoids me?
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 30, 2009 6:09 AM CST Money or Love!
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
Heck even you guys think less of me now..coz i opened bar..doh
Sep 30, 2009 6:11 AM CST Money or Love!
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
serene56: Hmm

Looking a little deeper into this question, I guess it would depend on the reason for the "poor"...what I mean by that is if the poor person was in that situation because they have a bad (or no) work ethic and the other person was financially stable or wealthy because they do, well... I would imagine that they would run into all sorts of problems within the relationship.

jmo


yep agree money is the root of all evil
Sep 30, 2009 6:12 AM CST Money or Love!
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
serene56: dont give up loveable


I did...10 seconds before you made that post. You missed it by ............ much! rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 30, 2009 6:13 AM CST Money or Love!
bjsss
bjsssbjsssMelbourne, Victoria Australia5 Threads 3,536 Posts
love is the only way to go wine
Sep 30, 2009 6:13 AM CST Money or Love!
bourbon
bourbonbourbonSunshine Coast, Queensland Australia32 Threads 4 Polls 3,504 Posts
tarnsnz: yep agree money is the root of all evil


Shell's root would be just as evil without her money. drinking
Sep 30, 2009 6:14 AM CST Money or Love!
bourbon
bourbonbourbonSunshine Coast, Queensland Australia32 Threads 4 Polls 3,504 Posts
serene56: dont give up loveable


If he gave up now... he save himself a lot of heartache. drinking
Sep 30, 2009 6:14 AM CST Money or Love!
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
bourbon: Shell's root would be just as evil without her money.


bj?
Sep 30, 2009 6:16 AM CST Money or Love!
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
bourbon: Shell's root would be just as evil without her money.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 30, 2009 6:16 AM CST Money or Love!
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
bourbon: Shell's root would be just as evil without her money.



devil I dont have any money

devil Must explain why Im such a good root
Sep 30, 2009 6:16 AM CST Money or Love!
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
bourbon: If he gave up now... he save himself a lot of heartache.


I think I should remove it coz hearts are breakable
Sep 30, 2009 6:17 AM CST Money or Love!
bourbon
bourbonbourbonSunshine Coast, Queensland Australia32 Threads 4 Polls 3,504 Posts
Shell225: I dont have any money

Must explain why Im such a good root


You had enough to buy a bottle of bundy... that's enough for me. grin
Sep 30, 2009 6:18 AM CST Money or Love!
bourbon
bourbonbourbonSunshine Coast, Queensland Australia32 Threads 4 Polls 3,504 Posts
bjsss: love is the only way to go


Love only lasts till the hunger pains take over. laugh
Sep 30, 2009 6:19 AM CST Money or Love!
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
bourbon: Love only lasts till the hunger pains take over.


or the DTs take over laugh
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