I read somewhere:"Women want money in a man, men want beauty in a woman,and this is a factual force of nature." Even when the woman don't ask for it, men feel morally bind to provide for the women. And nowadays it seems most women (not all) are constantly in a quest for a financial provider under the covert of love. However, some woman do not want anything from a man, in some cases they become the provider. But the fact remains a vast majority of women are still confused about Love. My question is: Is there any real woman left in America?
ojisanC: Is it true Love, Money and Women are connected?
I read somewhere:"Women want money in a man, men want beauty in a woman,and this is a factual force of nature." Even when the woman don't ask for it, men feel morally bind to provide for the women. And nowadays it seems most women (not all) are constantly in a quest for a financial provider under the covert of love. However, some woman do not want anything from a man, in some cases they become the provider. But the fact remains a vast majority of women are still confused about Love. My question is: Is there any real woman left in America?
No.
But there are still real men left, thank god...
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ojisanC: I read somewhere:"Women want money in a man, men want beauty in a woman,and this is a factual force of nature." Even when the woman don't ask for it, men feel morally bind to provide for the women. And nowadays it seems most women (not all) are constantly in a quest for a financial provider under the covert of love. However, some woman do not want anything from a man, in some cases they become the provider. But the fact remains a vast majority of women are still confused about Love. My question is: Is there any real woman left in America?
The "Tomato" you get, depends on the "lettuce" you have..
ojisanC: I read somewhere:"Women want money in a man, men want beauty in a woman,and this is a factual force of nature." Even when the woman don't ask for it, men feel morally bind to provide for the women. And nowadays it seems most women (not all) are constantly in a quest for a financial provider under the covert of love. However, some woman do not want anything from a man, in some cases they become the provider. But the fact remains a vast majority of women are still confused about Love. My question is: Is there any real woman left in America?
I've always the need a little bit to provide and protect.
I'm not in a quest for a financial provider. I provide for myself and like it that way. The last time I allowed someone to completely provide for me, they thought they owned me. That won't happen again. I have no problem taking care of myself. When I decide to become involved with somebody it would be nice to a partner financially, but not him totally provide for me. I like my independence.
I'd have to say that no one should ever marry just for money,but it's undeniable that finances do play a roll in some marriages.But the problems begin when money to some becomes the #1 priority.
When I first met my late husband and married him it certainly wasn't cause of financial gain cause he had no money.When I was married my late husband was the sole provider cause I chose to be a stay at home mother cause I didn't wish for our children to become latch key kids or in a sense raised by a daycare staff person.While staying at home and raising my children I chose to go to college to get my degree in Accounting so if need be I would be able to support myself once the children were on their own or if something happend to my husband.Well almost 2-1/2 yrs ago today he did pass away and I was so thankful that I went to college when I did to learn a trade.
Do I need a man right now to support me no I don't.In the last 2-1/2 years I've had to be independent in a sense of supporting myself.Now I've had chance to learn what he went through in supporting his family which is what a man is supposed to do.
somechick: I'd have to say that no one should ever marry just for money,but it's undeniable that finances do play a roll in some marriages.But the problems begin when money to some becomes the #1 priority.
When I first met my late husband and married him it certainly wasn't cause of financial gain cause he had no money.When I was married my late husband was the sole provider cause I chose to be a stay at home mother cause I didn't wish for our children to become latch key kids or in a sense raised by a daycare staff person.While staying at home and raising my children I chose to go to college to get my degree in Accounting so if need be I would be able to support myself once the children were on their own or if something happend to my husband.Well almost 2-1/2 yrs ago today he did pass away and I was so thankful that I went to college when I did to learn a trade.
Do I need a man right now to support me no I don't.In the last 2-1/2 years I've had to be independent in a sense of supporting myself.Now I've had chance to learn what he went through in supporting his family which is what a man is supposed to do.
my respect and prayer with you dear. your husband was a lucky man to have you as his life partner
ojisanC: I read somewhere:"Women want money in a man, men want beauty in a woman,and this is a factual force of nature." Even when the woman don't ask for it, men feel morally bind to provide for the women. And nowadays it seems most women (not all) are constantly in a quest for a financial provider under the covert of love. However, some woman do not want anything from a man, in some cases they become the provider. But the fact remains a vast majority of women are still confused about Love. My question is: Is there any real woman left in America?
I think most of the citizens in western society are finding their way towards a more harmonious and passionate love that is not connected to materialism.
We live in a material world, that's how it is for most genders.
It appears you're focusing on putting the blame on the wrong subject. It's more complex than that if you truly break down how the Western World is set up. Some break out, some don't.
The fact is, some men or women are just not going to be in a struggling position with a partner that is not exactly close in terms of wealth. The lifestyles are too different and the labels for some means everything and is just too difficult to ignore.
Welcome to the western world buddy
And there are many gems out there...you just need to look in the same stadium that you are in. Sorry, that's the reality of probabilities....
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