Married and on this Site!!!! ( Archived) (67)

Nov 4, 2009 2:19 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
Shelly21
Shelly21Shelly21Houston, Texas USA2 Threads 19 Posts
Okay Girls,

What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man.
Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.
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Nov 4, 2009 2:21 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Shelly21: Okay Girls,

What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man.
Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.


Oh.. just hump him ...a few times ....and move on ....grin
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Nov 4, 2009 2:25 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
Shelly21
Shelly21Shelly21Houston, Texas USA2 Threads 19 Posts
The humping part will NOT happen...but thanks for your response anyway.
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Nov 4, 2009 2:27 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
Shelly21: Okay Girls,

What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man.
Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.


Report him. I am not sure it's going to help, but at least you did something!! But definitely be thankful that you found out!

Good luck and God bless!! bouquet
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Nov 4, 2009 2:27 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
I'd just leave it as it is, who cares! You never know in this online world anyway. Sometimes I think the only normal people I meet on here are other women or men that for many reasons would not be compatible with me. The potential ones that I'd be even remotely interested in, have all shown themselves in the least attractive light sooner or later. (Sometimes starting with the very first chat! LOL)
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Nov 4, 2009 2:30 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Shelly21: Okay Girls,

What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man.
Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.


You are not responsible for his behaviour, but your own. Would I confront him - for sure and let him know exactly what I think of his behaviour. Then move on and don't look back to waste any more time on him.
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Nov 4, 2009 2:30 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
Shelly21: The humping part will NOT happen...but thanks for your response anyway.


Good for you, I really like women with a code of ethics!! thumbs up applause cheering head banger grin cool bouquet
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Nov 4, 2009 2:37 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
Shelly21
Shelly21Shelly21Houston, Texas USA2 Threads 19 Posts
Thank You!!!! Coming from a man, that's very sweet and unselfish of you.
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Nov 4, 2009 2:47 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
Shelly21: Thank You!!!! Coming from a man, that's very sweet and unselfish of you.


Thank you for the compliment, you seem like such a sweet heart..I hope you find your man...and more..I hope you become really good at fishing out the jerks!! thumbs up grin cool teddybear
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Nov 4, 2009 2:50 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
Shelly21
Shelly21Shelly21Houston, Texas USA2 Threads 19 Posts
I hope I become really good as well...especially on this dating site. God please give me strength!!!
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Nov 4, 2009 2:52 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
Shelly21: I hope I become really good as well...especially on this dating site. God please give me strength!!!


Just take your time...lot's of it. Don't rush into anything, especially anything long distance. Because time will reveal all.
And most of all, don't take things too seriously and just have fun. grin cool
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Nov 4, 2009 2:59 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
tc967
tc967tc967east earl, Pennsylvania USA4 Posts
Those men are the ones that ruin it for alot on websites, not only this one. If they are looking for something on the side, am sure there are plenty of other options available. Not only are they betraying the person they are in contact with on here, they are also betraying their spouse. Maybe the site should have a liar list where names of married people posing as single could be listed, just a thought.
In response to: Okay Girls,

What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man.
Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.
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Nov 4, 2009 3:12 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
tc967: Those men are the ones that ruin it for alot on websites, not only this one. If they are looking for something on the side, am sure there are plenty of other options available. Not only are they betraying the person they are in contact with on here, they are also betraying their spouse. Maybe the site should have a liar list where names of married people posing as single could be listed, just a thought.
I agree with most of what you say and the internet is a paradise for people who want to do this, (women as well).

Problem with lists is that how could it be proved? Innocent people could end up on them thro spite.
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Nov 4, 2009 3:37 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
Sunnn
SunnnSunnnValletta, Majjistral Malta72 Posts
Many engaged or married women are on this site too.
Looking to spice up their lifes. Looking for new friends to make.
Some are looking for intimate encounter, some for communnication.
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Nov 4, 2009 3:37 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
tc967
tc967tc967east earl, Pennsylvania USA4 Posts
That's why I said maybe with a list, am sure you'd agree there's no fool proof method.
In response to: Okay Girls,

What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man.
Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.
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Nov 4, 2009 3:45 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
ouzoncoke
ouzoncokeouzoncokeMelbourne, Victoria Australia172 Posts
Shelly21: Okay Girls,

What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man.
Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.



Hi

Same thing happened to me on another site. I told him I knew and contacted his wife and told her he was fooling around on her. I didn't think to report him to the Mods but wish I had. He turned out to be a real piece of work who was stringing a number of women along.

I'm glad you found out in time.
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Nov 4, 2009 3:51 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
Shelly21: I hope I become really good as well...especially on this dating site. God please give me strength!!!


Give him a piece of your mind then carry on with your own life. He is not worth wasting time over. comfort
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Nov 4, 2009 3:53 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Blah blah blah...

it all comes to , on which side of the fence are you standing...

just like in real life
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Nov 4, 2009 3:57 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
lenapage
lenapagelenapageHondo, TX, Texas USA8 Posts
I AM A MARRIED WOMAN AND IT IS IN MY PROFILE, BUT IF IT ISNT POSTED THEN TELL SO SOME ONE DOESNT GET HURT I MET MY HUBBY HERE 4 YEARS AGO NOW WE ARE SEEING WHO GETS THE MOST HITS BUT WE HAVE CLEARLY STATED THAT WE ARE IN A REALITIONSHIP.

LENA
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Nov 4, 2009 3:59 AM CST Married and on this Site!!!!
lenapage
lenapagelenapageHondo, TX, Texas USA8 Posts
IF YOU LIE THEN THE REALITIONSHIP U GET INTO IS NOTHING BUT A LIE, SO BLA BLA BLA YOUR SELF

LENArolling on the floor laughing
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