What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man. Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.
What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man. Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.
Oh.. just hump him ...a few times ....and move on ....
What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man. Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.
Report him. I am not sure it's going to help, but at least you did something!! But definitely be thankful that you found out!
I'd just leave it as it is, who cares! You never know in this online world anyway. Sometimes I think the only normal people I meet on here are other women or men that for many reasons would not be compatible with me. The potential ones that I'd be even remotely interested in, have all shown themselves in the least attractive light sooner or later. (Sometimes starting with the very first chat! LOL)
What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man. Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.
You are not responsible for his behaviour, but your own. Would I confront him - for sure and let him know exactly what I think of his behaviour. Then move on and don't look back to waste any more time on him.
Shelly21: Thank You!!!! Coming from a man, that's very sweet and unselfish of you.
Thank you for the compliment, you seem like such a sweet heart..I hope you find your man...and more..I hope you become really good at fishing out the jerks!!
Shelly21: I hope I become really good as well...especially on this dating site. God please give me strength!!!
Just take your time...lot's of it. Don't rush into anything, especially anything long distance. Because time will reveal all. And most of all, don't take things too seriously and just have fun.
Those men are the ones that ruin it for alot on websites, not only this one. If they are looking for something on the side, am sure there are plenty of other options available. Not only are they betraying the person they are in contact with on here, they are also betraying their spouse. Maybe the site should have a liar list where names of married people posing as single could be listed, just a thought.
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What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man. Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.
tc967: Those men are the ones that ruin it for alot on websites, not only this one. If they are looking for something on the side, am sure there are plenty of other options available. Not only are they betraying the person they are in contact with on here, they are also betraying their spouse. Maybe the site should have a liar list where names of married people posing as single could be listed, just a thought.
I agree with most of what you say and the internet is a paradise for people who want to do this, (women as well).
Problem with lists is that how could it be proved? Innocent people could end up on them thro spite.
Many engaged or married women are on this site too. Looking to spice up their lifes. Looking for new friends to make. Some are looking for intimate encounter, some for communnication.
That's why I said maybe with a list, am sure you'd agree there's no fool proof method.
In response to: Okay Girls,
What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man. Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.
What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man. Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.
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Same thing happened to me on another site. I told him I knew and contacted his wife and told her he was fooling around on her. I didn't think to report him to the Mods but wish I had. He turned out to be a real piece of work who was stringing a number of women along.
I AM A MARRIED WOMAN AND IT IS IN MY PROFILE, BUT IF IT ISNT POSTED THEN TELL SO SOME ONE DOESNT GET HURT I MET MY HUBBY HERE 4 YEARS AGO NOW WE ARE SEEING WHO GETS THE MOST HITS BUT WE HAVE CLEARLY STATED THAT WE ARE IN A REALITIONSHIP.
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What do you do when you find out that someone that you met on this site is married...portraying himself as a single man.
Should I report him so he doesn't lie to anyone else or leave it alone and be thankful that I found out in time.