I don't wanna know...... ( Archived) (33)

I posted this thread under 'I'm new here' because I do still consider myself new. I've 'met' some very nice people here and seen the posts and profiles of others I'd like to get to know. BUT.......I've also seen a lot of references in the forums to 'who's pissed at who', 'who's doin who', who's fake, who's got multiple ID's, who's a player, etc. etc. etc........WHO CARES???!!!!!! This is supposed to be an adult site. I'll be the first to admit I enjoy a certain amount of kidding and silliness. But as far as the bickering goes.....makes me take a step back and think.....I try to judge people only by the way they treat me and the way I see them treat others. If I see someone who I am beginning to make friends with treating others poorly, I've got to ask myself.....What makes me think I'm so special that if I were to do something to irritate that person he/she wouldn't attack me in the same way.
My point being......I feel if you have an issue with someone, it doesn't belong in the forums. Or if you feel the need to take it there....say your piece and be done with it.
As far as players and multiple ID's.....I'd like to think that I am an intelligent enough woman to weed out the bad apples.
Am I way off base here or what???

bad apples, kentucky apples

you are so right.thats why i dont say much in the forums, to much drama.if i start to see that things are getting out of hand, i wont even reply,im glad to know that im not the only one who feels this way..

This is normal operating proceedure. I have been through it before. Hang in there.

Roy

I agree with you 1000%. The flavour of animosity here changes every other month. This month it's "Fakes". Next time it maybe anything that you say. There are, here, as well as in the other world, where we do most of our living, hateful people. Bashing someone seems to add something that is missing to their lives. They mainly do it here because in the real world, it wouldn't be tolerated. Paws

Im right there with you on all that you have said sweet..it's not even any fun being forums anymore.....I also look at the way people treat others and let me tell you... I am not really impressed right now!

Thank you to those who responded intelligently. I'd like to clarify that I DID NOT start this thread to acquire a list of 'Who's hating who'.....but thank you also for your input.....two more people I can add to that list of 'How I see you treat others'.

P.S. Don't email me with your sad sob stories of who you don't like and why. I won't debate your choices with you. And I'll make my own choices of 'friends' here. I won't respond to those emails because I DON'T WANNA KNOW AND I DON'T CARE!!!!!!!!!!!

Beautifully stated and with honesty. It adds so much to your profile that could not have been written there. You really do have to swim in the lake to know how the water feels. You're a swimmer my dear. Paws