Time heals, it just takes time. Get busy, no really get busy. It helps. Another bus will drive by, I think, I hope. Spend more time with your REAL friends. Hang in there!!
Keep yourself busy by doing fun things that you've always wanted to do. And,I suggest not thinking about the negative things.You've made a good choice by posting in the forums;it's a good place to meet and make new friends.Best of luck.
In response to: what to do when YOUR heart breaks, when u feel that u have lost everything, when u can't sleep, can't eat, can't sit, can't stand??? TELL ME
911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada1,343 posts
perfectmate: what to do when YOUR heart breaks, when u feel that u have lost everything, when u can't sleep, can't eat, can't sit, can't stand??? TELL ME
You just have to go through it......like everyone else in this world. There are 5 stages of grief......you may have to go through them a few times going back to and fro.....time is always the answer.
Milandabangkok, Central Thailand Thailand1,129 Posts
Milandabangkok, Central Thailand Thailand1,129 posts
In response to: what to do when YOUR heart breaks, when u feel that u have lost everything, when u can't sleep, can't eat, can't sit, can't stand??? TELL ME
Be strong spending time with someone who loves you more than being alone and hurt yourself time is healer.
perfectmate: what to do when YOUR heart breaks, when u feel that u have lost everything, when u can't sleep, can't eat, can't sit, can't stand??? TELL ME
1. SURVIVE! (one painful day at a time).
2. Learn, each day, to slowly live again.
3. Revel in the joy of being alive and to have at least known love even if it has cruelly been taken away from you.
4. Heal - take your time but you SHALL heal.
5. Learn to love yourself.
6. Learn to love others again.
7. Be content, and even maybe 'happy'.
8. Eat.
9. Drink.
10. Die - at peace with yourself and the universe!
Never think of the good times that you had with your ex instead think of the bad times. In that way you will be able to move on with your life. One thing more, Write a letter to yourself and read it everytime you feel depress and lonely. It has helped me during those time that I was heart broken.
perfectmate: what to do when YOUR heart breaks, when u feel that u have lost everything, when u can't sleep, can't eat, can't sit, can't stand??? TELL ME
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
perfectmate: what to do when YOUR heart breaks, when u feel that u have lost everything, when u can't sleep, can't eat, can't sit, can't stand??? TELL ME
When your heart breaks, it hurts. You have to leave or they leave you either way there is grief. Now if there was true love it takes time to heal, just a short seasonal experience goes away fast, a sudden crush it will be kicked out by another, we believed we were in love and realized was an obsession, no love only attraction, a stone heart doesn’t feel, in addition, this goes on and on. Therefore, what ever level your heartbreaks it will heal, the capacity of how you loved will determine that. Best bet get yourself busy, enjoy life and do the things that you like most.
perfectmate: what to do when YOUR heart breaks, when u feel that u have lost everything, when u can't sleep, can't eat, can't sit, can't stand??? TELL ME
Go to the store and purchase some chocolates.... Chocolates are necessary in the recovery of a broken heart.
perfectmate: what to do when YOUR heart breaks, when u feel that u have lost everything, when u can't sleep, can't eat, can't sit, can't stand??? TELL ME
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