To reply to the original subject, I would just like to say that nice clothing, nice hair, a "hot bod", and some sort of scent may be interesting for a while, but they won't get you through the days you feel like crap. The day your dog dies or your car won't start or when the bills start to pile up and you've lost your job. They won't comfort you when your tear-streaked face needs a kleenex. They won't listen to your crazy ideas about your life and family and the world. They won't be the companion you really need. I have a health condition that makes it nearly impossible for me to lose weight, no matter my lifestyle. You may want to assume that I don't take care of myself or don't care, but that's not the case. What I am looking for is someone who can see my assets over my flaws. I'm great and I know it. It's just about time someone else saw it, too. The point is that most people need more than a model... like maybe another person.
moonlit_muse: To reply to the original subject, I would just like to say that nice clothing, nice hair, a "hot bod", and some sort of scent may be interesting for a while, but they won't get you through the days you feel like crap. The day your dog dies or your car won't start or when the bills start to pile up and you've lost your job. They won't comfort you when your tear-streaked face needs a kleenex. They won't listen to your crazy ideas about your life and family and the world. They won't be the companion you really need. I have a health condition that makes it nearly impossible for me to lose weight, no matter my lifestyle. You may want to assume that I don't take care of myself or don't care, but that's not the case. What I am looking for is someone who can see my assets over my flaws. I'm great and I know it. It's just about time someone else saw it, too. The point is that most people need more than a model... like maybe another person.
That turned into a lecture. sorry. lesson over.
very true. good post. Reminds me of a wise quote..."if you can't except someone at their worst then you don't deserve them at thier best.
moonlit_muse: To reply to the original subject, I would just like to say that nice clothing, nice hair, a "hot bod", and some sort of scent may be interesting for a while, but they won't get you through the days you feel like crap. The day your dog dies or your car won't start or when the bills start to pile up and you've lost your job. They won't comfort you when your tear-streaked face needs a kleenex. They won't listen to your crazy ideas about your life and family and the world. They won't be the companion you really need. I have a health condition that makes it nearly impossible for me to lose weight, no matter my lifestyle. You may want to assume that I don't take care of myself or don't care, but that's not the case. What I am looking for is someone who can see my assets over my flaws. I'm great and I know it. It's just about time someone else saw it, too. The point is that most people need more than a model... like maybe another person.
That turned into a lecture. sorry. lesson over.
That was lovely to read. Lovely looking young lady too!
ewau1: You think "why cant I find a lady who falls in love with me?" "why am I always alone". From my personal experience I can honestly say that I meet a lot of cheesy and chubby guys every single day. Then I wonder.. why dont you change your life? Maybe go work out 3 times a week to build athletic body.. or maybe buy a little bit better clothes.. or buy some nice perfumes? Men have a great deal of capacity for making themselves attractive.. you just have start taking care of yourself and then you will encounter no problems in finding your second half.
taking care of myself?i agree it has direct effect on your dating life.but..i dont think there is anythink to do in gyms.i never dated a girl when i was a bodybulder!belive me or not..
ewau1: You think "why cant I find a lady who falls in love with me?" "why am I always alone". From my personal experience I can honestly say that I meet a lot of cheesy and chubby guys every single day. Then I wonder.. why dont you change your life? Maybe go work out 3 times a week to build athletic body.. or maybe buy a little bit better clothes.. or buy some nice perfumes? Men have a great deal of capacity for making themselves attractive.. you just have start taking care of yourself and then you will encounter no problems in finding your second half.
wow... really... instead of worrying about looks, think about personality, miss california. looks aren't that important. and i know i'm not that great looking, but i dont worry what the guys i date look like. maybe you should think less of look and smell and think more of how the guy treats you....
singstar13: wow... really... instead of worrying about looks, think about personality, miss california. looks aren't that important. and i know i'm not that great looking, but i dont worry what the guys i date look like. maybe you should think less of look and smell and think more of how the guy treats you....
Well said, nice to know someone does know what they are talking about
911gypsywestbank, British Columbia Canada1,343 posts
ewau1: You think "why cant I find a lady who falls in love with me?" "why am I always alone". From my personal experience I can honestly say that I meet a lot of cheesy and chubby guys every single day. Then I wonder.. why dont you change your life? Maybe go work out 3 times a week to build athletic body.. or maybe buy a little bit better clothes.. or buy some nice perfumes? Men have a great deal of capacity for making themselves attractive.. you just have start taking care of yourself and then you will encounter no problems in finding your second half.
ewau1: You think "why cant I find a lady who falls in love with me?" "why am I always alone". From my personal experience I can honestly say that I meet a lot of cheesy and chubby guys every single day. Then I wonder.. why dont you change your life? Maybe go work out 3 times a week to build athletic body.. or maybe buy a little bit better clothes.. or buy some nice perfumes? Men have a great deal of capacity for making themselves attractive.. you just have start taking care of yourself and then you will encounter no problems in finding your second half.
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