It is nice when Men take some pride in their appearance without coming accross as being vain....personally I like a Man to dress nice be freshly showered and wear cologne....it can do a lot for a woman....
Obviously if he is working during the day and he's hands on being a labourer etc he is going to be somewhat ruffled around the edges but at the end of the day he can come out looking like a new pin and smelling like a rose...
It is nice for all of us to make an effort to look at least half decent...if not for others just for ourselves....
Dec 7, 2009 1:55 AM CST All men.. listen now cause I know what I am talking about
steve6610Goolwa, South Australia Australia2,184 Posts
steve6610Goolwa, South Australia Australia2,184 posts
stefonline: It is nice when Men take some pride in their appearance without coming accross as being vain....personally I like a Man to dress nice be freshly showered and wear cologne....it can do a lot for a woman....
Obviously if he is working during the day and he's hands on being a labourer etc he is going to be somewhat ruffled around the edges but at the end of the day he can come out looking like a new pin and smelling like a rose...
It is nice for all of us to make an effort to look at least half decent...if not for others just for ourselves....
singstar13: wow... really... instead of worrying about looks, think about personality, miss california. looks aren't that important. and i know i'm not that great looking, but i dont worry what the guys i date look like. maybe you should think less of look and smell and think more of how the guy treats you....
Of course you would want a guy to treat you well....that goes without saying.....but if he looks good and smells good then he is going to be more attractive to you....works well in his favour if you know what I mean.....
ewau1: You think "why cant I find a lady who falls in love with me?" "why am I always alone". From my personal experience I can honestly say that I meet a lot of cheesy and chubby guys every single day. Then I wonder.. why dont you change your life? Maybe go work out 3 times a week to build athletic body.. or maybe buy a little bit better clothes.. or buy some nice perfumes? Men have a great deal of capacity for making themselves attractive.. you just have start taking care of yourself and then you will encounter no problems in finding your second half.
just one question:
does this principle only apply to those who want a lady to "fall in love with them"? or does it apply to those who do not want that whole "love" crap???
i mean.. in my case... its not like you are gonna have to look at me for long.... just about 3 seconds.... and i can turn the lights off or yall can just close your eyes and think of Brad Pitt for all care !!!!
does this principle only apply to those who want a lady to "fall in love with them"? or does it apply to those who do not want that whole "love" crap???
i mean.. in my case... its not like you are gonna have to look at me for long.... just about 3 seconds.... and i can turn the lights off or yall can just close your eyes and think of Brad Pitt for all care !!!!
Brad Pitt does not cut the mustard with me. I don't do celebrities!!
MerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia11,403 posts
seekndestroy: just one question:
does this principle only apply to those who want a lady to "fall in love with them"? or does it apply to those who do not want that whole "love" crap???
i mean.. in my case... its not like you are gonna have to look at me for long.... just about 3 seconds.... and i can turn the lights off or yall can just close your eyes and think of Brad Pitt for all care !!!!
SeeknD
You know the answer to that... people like to take care of themselves...its called pride... and if you want to fall in love and you have self pride, then you are not going to fall for someone who doesnt have their own self pride now are you?
ewau1: You think "why cant I find a lady who falls in love with me?" "why am I always alone". From my personal experience I can honestly say that I meet a lot of cheesy and chubby guys every single day. Then I wonder.. why dont you change your life? Maybe go work out 3 times a week to build athletic body.. or maybe buy a little bit better clothes.. or buy some nice perfumes? Men have a great deal of capacity for making themselves attractive.. you just have start taking care of yourself and then you will encounter no problems in finding your second half.
so love for you is just physical attraction? bleh thats shallow...
In response to: You think "why cant I find a lady who falls in love with me?" "why am I always alone". From my personal experience I can honestly say that I meet a lot of cheesy and chubby guys every single day. Then I wonder.. why dont you change your life? Maybe go work out 3 times a week to build athletic body.. or maybe buy a little bit better clothes.. or buy some nice perfumes? Men have a great deal of capacity for making themselves attractive.. you just have start taking care of yourself and then you will encounter no problems in finding your second half.
to be quite honest, you left out something incredibly important in that little piece of advice. don't get me wrong, it's good advice but it's a little superficial (JMO). I think the most important thing in a potential partner is confidence. Whilst taking care of appearance helps, it's more an issue of taking care of the inside first and foremost. If you love yourself first (not in a narcissistic way of course) others will love you too. People don't like it when a person doesn't like themselves and whines about it. It's quite depressing to be around such a person...I know cos I was one of them and I never got anything out of it except people being annoyed with me lol...now I just accept myself the way I am and if anyone doesn't like it, sod 'em
haha it is so pathetic to read all your comments: "appearance doesn't count the inside is what matters the most.." the hilarious part is that... all those comments come from people who simple do not or aren't able to meet the looks requirements. Just face the truth.. stop being under the illusion of the perfect world where everybody loves everybody for the wonderful inside characteristics.
ewau1: You think "why cant I find a lady who falls in love with me?" "why am I always alone". From my personal experience I can honestly say that I meet a lot of cheesy and chubby guys every single day. Then I wonder.. why dont you change your life? Maybe go work out 3 times a week to build athletic body.. or maybe buy a little bit better clothes.. or buy some nice perfumes? Men have a great deal of capacity for making themselves attractive.. you just have start taking care of yourself and then you will encounter no problems in finding your second half.
So that's why there's no married over weight or under weight people.
ewau1: haha it is so pathetic to read all your comments: "appearance doesn't count the inside is what matters the most.." the hilarious part is that... all those comments come from people who simple do not or aren't able to meet the looks requirements. Just face the truth.. stop being under the illusion of the perfect world where everybody loves everybody for the wonderful inside characteristics.
Hmmm...perfect world we do not live in...perfect people we are not...but hell i love everybody...especially these wonderful people i've met here on CS. I love everything about them...from their wonderful sense of humor to their winning personalities.
What i look for most in a partner does not hold to looks...it is character, honestly, loyalty, honor and sense of humor. Makes me pathetic?? Oh well...still love my friends
ewau1: haha it is so pathetic to read all your comments: "appearance doesn't count the inside is what matters the most.." the hilarious part is that... all those comments come from people who simple do not or aren't able to meet the looks requirements. Just face the truth.. stop being under the illusion of the perfect world where everybody loves everybody for the wonderful inside characteristics.
Sundown40: Hmmm...perfect world we do not live in...perfect people we are not...but hell i love everybody...especially these wonderful people i've met here on CS. I love everything about them...from their wonderful sense of humor to their winning personalities.
What i look for most in a partner does not hold to looks...it is character, honestly, loyalty, honor and sense of humor. Makes me pathetic?? Oh well...still love my friends
If I go out with you, can I get some of that cake in the pic? Then we can grow fat and old together!
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Obviously if he is working during the day and he's hands on being a labourer etc he is going to be somewhat ruffled around the edges but at the end of the day he can come out looking like a new pin and smelling like a rose...
It is nice for all of us to make an effort to look at least half decent...if not for others just for ourselves....