You think "why cant I find a lady who falls in love with me?" "why am I always alone". From my personal experience I can honestly say that I meet a lot of cheesy and chubby guys every single day. Then I wonder.. why dont you change your life? Maybe go work out 3 times a week to build athletic body.. or maybe buy a little bit better clothes.. or buy some nice perfumes? Men have a great deal of capacity for making themselves attractive.. you just have start taking care of yourself and then you will encounter no problems in finding your second half.
Dec 6, 2009 5:51 PM CST All men.. listen now cause I know what I am talking about
ActivatedSydney, New South Wales Australia19 Posts
ActivatedSydney, New South Wales Australia19 posts
ewau1: You think "why cant I find a lady who falls in love with me?" "why am I always alone". From my personal experience I can honestly say that I meet a lot of cheesy and chubby guys every single day. Then I wonder.. why dont you change your life? Maybe go work out 3 times a week to build athletic body.. or maybe buy a little bit better clothes.. or buy some nice perfumes? Men have a great deal of capacity for making themselves attractive.. you just have start taking care of yourself and then you will encounter no problems in finding your second half.
ewau1: You think "why cant I find a lady who falls in love with me?" "why am I always alone". From my personal experience I can honestly say that I meet a lot of cheesy and chubby guys every single day. Then I wonder.. why dont you change your life? Maybe go work out 3 times a week to build athletic body.. or maybe buy a little bit better clothes.. or buy some nice perfumes? Men have a great deal of capacity for making themselves attractive.. you just have start taking care of yourself and then you will encounter no problems in finding your second half.
Are you sure you know what you are talking about? Not all men are obsessed with the way they look, thank god. Besides some men don't have time to go to the gym, they prefer the privacy of the bedroom for getting their exercise.
ewau1: You think "why cant I find a lady who falls in love with me?" "why am I always alone". From my personal experience I can honestly say that I meet a lot of cheesy and chubby guys every single day. Then I wonder.. why dont you change your life? Maybe go work out 3 times a week to build athletic body.. or maybe buy a little bit better clothes.. or buy some nice perfumes? Men have a great deal of capacity for making themselves attractive.. you just have start taking care of yourself and then you will encounter no problems in finding your second half.
I'd agree that being in good physical shape and making some serious effort to be more attractive VASTLY increases the odds of finding someone and having a successful romantic relationship. Someone who does those things not only looks better - they are more vigorous and healthy and confident and basically feel better about themselves overall. All things being equal, of course.
SummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK8,842 posts
Personally I like men with a lil meat on their bones and I'm not too keen on my fella wearing 'perfume' Or after shave... Better clothes???? Hmmmm I quite like the laid back casual style too
I do hope not too many of em take your advice or I'll have to go somewhere else
LaVerdad: Are you sure you know what you are talking about? Not all men are obsessed with the way they look, thank god. Besides some men don't have time to go to the gym, they prefer the privacy of the bedroom for getting their exercise.
exercising at home or in the gym = good physical condition overall.. so it doesnt matter where the activity is performed
LaVerdad: What really matters is what we put inside ourselves, like the food we eat and what we drink. This will ultimately make us into healthy being, the rest is just cosmetic.
This is what might help you stay healthy.. but definitely not more attractive..
ewau1: You think "why cant I find a lady who falls in love with me?" "why am I always alone". From my personal experience I can honestly say that I meet a lot of cheesy and chubby guys every single day. Then I wonder.. why dont you change your life? Maybe go work out 3 times a week to build athletic body.. or maybe buy a little bit better clothes.. or buy some nice perfumes? Men have a great deal of capacity for making themselves attractive.. you just have start taking care of yourself and then you will encounter no problems in finding your second half.
I have dated men overweight myself. They are nice guys but my worry is not that they weren't attractive to me but its a health issue. I don't want the love of my life having a heart attack, stroke, or even diabetes. I was overweight after my car accident as I could barely move for 4 years and I was at risk for a stroke so now I work out regularly. If a man finds me attractive because I am in shape so be it, but didn't do it just for the guys; did it for myself.
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