HOW CAN YOU MEND A BROKEN HEART? (BEE GEES) (71)
Awwwwwwww Phoenix i am sorry you are hurting and i know that pain is not imaginary, they say time is a healer and the hurt will lesson and it will if through time you dont continue to harbour it,try to look forwards and not backwards, on a lighter note i prefer Al Green singing How Do You Mend A broken Heart.
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Sorry to hear about your pain. We all search for our soulmates and sometimes we find them, sometimes not. Unhappily those that do find them may loose them as you did or in death. In the end we are all alone but we can't let that stop us from seeking the comfort of people to surround us. Wishing you all the best.
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goodfriend: Awwwwwwww Phoenix i am sorry you are hurting and i know that pain is not imaginary, they say time is a healer and the hurt will lesson and it will if through time you dont continue to harbour it,try to look forwards and not backwards, on a lighter note i prefer Al Green singing How Do You Mend A broken Heart.
thank you
even if she was mean and cruel to me.... i gave my love for ever ...till death do us part ... i would do anything for be able to take care of her again..even her father abandoned her... but not me
i know its over and i let go with both hands....and i have honestly over a hundred woman willing to marry me.... but the one i love is beyond my reach
forever 
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newinsouth: Sorry to hear about your pain. We all search for our soulmates and sometimes we find them, sometimes not. Unhappily those that do find them may loose them as you did or in death. In the end we are all alone but we can't let that stop us from seeking the comfort of people to surround us. Wishing you all the best.
thank you my friend
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phoenixrising1: thank you
even if she was mean and cruel to me.... i gave my love for ever ...till death do us part ... i would do anything for be able to take care of her again..even her father abandoned her... but not me
i know its over and i let go with both hands....and i have honestly over a hundred woman willing to marry me.... but the one i love is beyond my reach forever
And it hurts like hell, I know.even if she was mean and cruel to me.... i gave my love for ever ...till death do us part ... i would do anything for be able to take care of her again..even her father abandoned her... but not me
i know its over and i let go with both hands....and i have honestly over a hundred woman willing to marry me.... but the one i love is beyond my reach forever
I don't think it goes away, but we learn to live with it and need to move on, finding someone else to quickly us not always the answer, it takes time.
In the end you have to decide whether you are going to let it eat you up and ruin the rest of life.
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morgan5: And it hurts like hell, I know.
I don't think it goes away, but we learn to live with it and need to move on, finding someone else to quickly us not always the answer, it takes time.
In the end you have to decide whether you are going to let it eat you up and ruin the rest of life.
I don't think it goes away, but we learn to live with it and need to move on, finding someone else to quickly us not always the answer, it takes time.
In the end you have to decide whether you are going to let it eat you up and ruin the rest of life.
thank you my friend for your wise words
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phoenixrising1: thank you my friend for your wise words
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phoenixrising1: when will the pain stop..... i have been net dating when i really for the last 9 months ... i should have been here with the broken hearted....
so i take my place...i wake up and am in shock every morning... how could she do this to me...
27 years i loved her and took care of everything.... she just had to stay home and take care of the children...i paid the way....
but never time for me...... and when i asked her ,after the youngest became 17...when is our relationship going to be a priority ...when would i become a priority in her life .... she went and left me for her new lover...
i do have some interest in me...... but i feel like a cannon ball just put a hole through my chest.... tell me it will heal
or do i just have to accpet that it will always be there?
sorry for dumping my broken heart here ...but i got no one else
so i take my place...i wake up and am in shock every morning... how could she do this to me...
27 years i loved her and took care of everything.... she just had to stay home and take care of the children...i paid the way....
but never time for me...... and when i asked her ,after the youngest became 17...when is our relationship going to be a priority ...when would i become a priority in her life .... she went and left me for her new lover...
i do have some interest in me...... but i feel like a cannon ball just put a hole through my chest.... tell me it will heal
or do i just have to accpet that it will always be there?
sorry for dumping my broken heart here ...but i got no one else
I am sorry to hear that. If she truly doesn't want to be with you or love you anymore, why are you beating yourself up over her? Life is too short to stay alone because of her. If you have met someone else, then give her a chance to make you happy. You didn't state how long ago this happened. If it was recently, give yourself some time to heal. No one knows how long it takes to heal a broken heart as we all heal differently. Myself I kept myself busy with the community volunteering to overcome my recent breakup of someone I loved. I can't take your pain away, but I am a good listener. I wish you the best.
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phoenixrising1: thank you my friend .
Keep smiling and stick around in the forums.... good people here, and it stops you thinking too much about the past.
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navygirl1: I am sorry to hear that. If she truly doesn't want to be with you or love you anymore, why are you beating yourself up over her? Life is too short to stay alone because of her. If you have met someone else, then give her a chance to make you happy. You didn't state how long ago this happened. If it was recently, give yourself some time to heal. No one knows how long it takes to heal a broken heart as we all heal differently. Myself I kept myself busy with the community volunteering to overcome my recent breakup of someone I loved. I can't take your pain away, but I am a good listener. I wish you the best.
thank you my friend.... she left again in february ... and that time she said she is not coming back .. .... i gave in and the divorce was august 1
i thought i had let go .... but i wake up each morning and then shock and disbelief.....
the first three months i did not sleep more than 2 hours a night and i did not eat.... lost 25 pounds...
how do you take your heart back ...and stop caring for someone... i would do anything for her.....over the past 27 years ...in times of trial ...i did miracles for her (with the help of prayer).. i really did...and she will be the first to tell you i always dealt with EVERYTHING every month...she did not have to worry about anything....now she knows.....
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phoenixrising1: thank you my friend.... she left again in february ... and that time she said she is not coming back .. .... i gave in and the divorce was august 1
i thought i had let go .... but i wake up each morning and then shock and disbelief.....
the first three months i did not sleep more than 2 hours a night and i did not eat.... lost 25 pounds...
how do you take your heart back ...and stop caring for someone... i would do anything for her.....over the past 27 years ...in times of trial ...i did miracles for her (with the help of prayer).. i really did...and she will be the first to tell you i always dealt with EVERYTHING every month...she did not have to worry about anything....now she knows.....
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i thought i had let go .... but i wake up each morning and then shock and disbelief.....
the first three months i did not sleep more than 2 hours a night and i did not eat.... lost 25 pounds...
how do you take your heart back ...and stop caring for someone... i would do anything for her.....over the past 27 years ...in times of trial ...i did miracles for her (with the help of prayer).. i really did...and she will be the first to tell you i always dealt with EVERYTHING every month...she did not have to worry about anything....now she knows.....
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If I knew how to take my heart back; I would do it. There is no on and off switch for emotions my friend. I know it took me about 8 years to recoupe from my break up and in that time I never even dated; just drowned myself in work and volunteering. Hopefully you won't wait that long. I would say just go out and enjoy yourself with dating but not to get involved with someone for a relationship. The worse thing you can do is be alone as all you will do is dwell on it. Be with friends and have fun.
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navygirl1: If I knew how to take my heart back; I would do it. There is no on and off switch for emotions my friend. I know it took me about 8 years to recoupe from my break up and in that time I never even dated; just drowned myself in work and volunteering. Hopefully you won't wait that long. I would say just go out and enjoy yourself with dating but not to get involved with someone for a relationship. The worse thing you can do is be alone as all you will do is dwell on it. Be with friends and have fun.
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phoenixrising1: thank you
even if she was mean and cruel to me.... i gave my love for ever ...till death do us part ... i would do anything for be able to take care of her again..even her father abandoned her... but not me
i know its over and i let go with both hands....and i have honestly over a hundred woman willing to marry me.... but the one i love is beyond my reach forever
even if she was mean and cruel to me.... i gave my love for ever ...till death do us part ... i would do anything for be able to take care of her again..even her father abandoned her... but not me
i know its over and i let go with both hands....and i have honestly over a hundred woman willing to marry me.... but the one i love is beyond my reach forever
I feel the same way, in a sense, about a woman I lost.
The thing is YOU gave your love to HER....... if she didn't give her love to you then two rights could never make a wrong.
Step back a bit. Learn to love yourself. Heal. Then, once healed, move forwards.
Only a 100 women want to marry you?
What are you doing wrong?
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navygirl1: If I knew how to take my heart back; I would do it. There is no on and off switch for emotions my friend. I know it took me about 8 years to recoupe from my break up and in that time I never even dated; just drowned myself in work and volunteering. Hopefully you won't wait that long. I would say just go out and enjoy yourself with dating but not to get involved with someone for a relationship. The worse thing you can do is be alone as all you will do is dwell on it. Be with friends and have fun.
It's frightening when you get older..... you know that it shall heal with time, but you can't wait eight years when you've already got one foot in the grave!
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RobertC2: I feel the same way, in a sense, about a woman I lost.
The thing is YOU gave your love to HER....... if she didn't give her love to you then two rights could never make a wrong.
Step back a bit. Learn to love yourself. Heal. Then, once healed, move forwards.
Only a 100 women want to marry you?
What are you doing wrong?
The thing is YOU gave your love to HER....... if she didn't give her love to you then two rights could never make a wrong.
Step back a bit. Learn to love yourself. Heal. Then, once healed, move forwards.
Only a 100 women want to marry you?
What are you doing wrong?
thank you my friend ....
.... always a pleasure .
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In response to: sorry for dumping my broken heart here ...but i got no one else
er ... I thought you were off to Thailand dating a whole host of teenagers last week ... ??
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RobertC2: It's frightening when you get older..... you know that it shall heal with time, but you can't wait eight years when you've already got one foot in the grave!
i know...
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victor_meldrew: er ... I thought you were off to Thailand dating a whole host of teenagers last week ... ??
No - that was me!
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Awrit. She doesn't deserve you anymore. On the other hand, there are two sides of a coin. did u try to analyze as to why did she have to run away from you.
Are there chances for you to take her back. 'am certain that she will soon begin to miss you if " your statement of 27 yrs of relationship be true" new things attract but one will soon curl back to their favorites.
If you really need her just leave a note that "you trust her and also reassure that you will be waiting until she begins to miss you".To ensure that she doesn't stop herself from reaching out to you thinkin' dat she had ran off u. 
Are there chances for you to take her back. 'am certain that she will soon begin to miss you if " your statement of 27 yrs of relationship be true" new things attract but one will soon curl back to their favorites.
If you really need her just leave a note that "you trust her and also reassure that you will be waiting until she begins to miss you".To ensure that she doesn't stop herself from reaching out to you thinkin' dat she had ran off u.
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so i take my place...i wake up and am in shock every morning... how could she do this to me...
27 years i loved her and took care of everything.... she just had to stay home and take care of the children...i paid the way....
but never time for me...... and when i asked her ,after the youngest became 17...when is our relationship going to be a priority ...when would i become a priority in her life .... she went and left me for her new lover...
i do have some interest in me...... but i feel like a cannon ball just put a hole through my chest.... tell me it will heal
or do i just have to accpet that it will always be there?
sorry for dumping my broken heart here ...but i got no one else