Careless silly woman. (10)
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hope can get some smart advice from you
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Hi Amenda,
Wow! Guys could be sometimes insensitive. I know your feeling because I have been there and done that. The only diference is that my ex had another woman. But according to my friends and family, gambling ang womanizing has no difference. Categorised as vices!
Advise? well...
1. As couple, you should talk about it. Open up your feelings with your husband (the best time to talk is early morning, when you are still in bed, mmm... and sober...) Ask, tell , talk and you meet halfway.
2. If you really love him , you got to love every thing he does and you will accept not only his good side but also his shortcomings. I know it's very idealistic! hard, isn't it?
3. If you really can't resolve the problem, welcome to the club of "Divorced People", hehe... Sounds ridiculous but that's the truth.
So far, these are the only options I could share.
Btw, follow your gut feel. It's always YOU who could decide what's BEST for your family.
Good luck Amenda.
Haydee
Wow! Guys could be sometimes insensitive. I know your feeling because I have been there and done that. The only diference is that my ex had another woman. But according to my friends and family, gambling ang womanizing has no difference. Categorised as vices!
Advise? well...
1. As couple, you should talk about it. Open up your feelings with your husband (the best time to talk is early morning, when you are still in bed, mmm... and sober...) Ask, tell , talk and you meet halfway.
2. If you really love him , you got to love every thing he does and you will accept not only his good side but also his shortcomings. I know it's very idealistic! hard, isn't it?
3. If you really can't resolve the problem, welcome to the club of "Divorced People", hehe... Sounds ridiculous but that's the truth.
So far, these are the only options I could share.
Btw, follow your gut feel. It's always YOU who could decide what's BEST for your family.
Good luck Amenda.
Haydee
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That's bad, but I know a golfer who was screwing around while his wife was at home pregnant!
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In response to: Today I happened to remember how my ex cheated me.
When my kid was only not more than 1 years old, he used to work shift. So I took care of my baby alone at night. when she cried loudly I was so scared. But I never said I was scared to my ex, because I didn't want him to worry about me. But one day my workmate told me that he always saw him in a gamehall near his factory....I didn't believe it at all when he told me this...but fact told me that it was right...
He went to gambling everynight when I looked after my baby alone at night!!! my blood boiled when I knew this...but I didnt' divorce with him until this year...
Why I am such a silly woman who always be cheated??????
how can i become a little smart???
so sorry to hear that When my kid was only not more than 1 years old, he used to work shift. So I took care of my baby alone at night. when she cried loudly I was so scared. But I never said I was scared to my ex, because I didn't want him to worry about me. But one day my workmate told me that he always saw him in a gamehall near his factory....I didn't believe it at all when he told me this...but fact told me that it was right...
He went to gambling everynight when I looked after my baby alone at night!!! my blood boiled when I knew this...but I didnt' divorce with him until this year...
Why I am such a silly woman who always be cheated??????
how can i become a little smart???
but I thought you're not a silly woman 
youre just a good wife and good mother of your kid 
forget the bad thing and start to have a new life that better than you ever had 
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I think you ex was an idiot for not appreciating what a great wife and mother he had, it is his lose Amenda, not yours, you will find someone who will treat you well, and you ex will life in the knowledge that he screwed up badly and has now lost the chance to have such a wonderful person in his life.
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I dont think that you are careless or silly -
It is not your fault that your ex went gambling all his money away, while you were looking after your child : you are being a good parent and wife, and he blew it, not you.
I know of people who have been through the same as you, but they stayed together and worked it through. I guess it depends upon the circumstances that you find yourself in .
Is this the only time you have been cheated, or did he cheat on you with another woman as well ?
It is not your fault that your ex went gambling all his money away, while you were looking after your child : you are being a good parent and wife, and he blew it, not you.
I know of people who have been through the same as you, but they stayed together and worked it through. I guess it depends upon the circumstances that you find yourself in .
Is this the only time you have been cheated, or did he cheat on you with another woman as well ?
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You are not a silly woman.. but your husband was a silly man for getting into the gambling game,,
JayJay
JayJay
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jayjaywaiting: You are not a silly woman.. but your husband was a silly man for getting into the gambling game,,
You are not a silly woman.. but your ex-husband was a silly man for getting into the gambling game,,
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Thanks a lot everybody for replying here and giving me so many good advices.
I know why I always be cheated now. it's said that I was born in wrong time!!
Yes my ex was so silly that he didn't know how to treasure a gold. yes he had a lot shortpoints but he was handsome and he never had affairs with other woman when we were together, that's the two reasons we could live for so many years together. of course also because we had a girl.
I know why I always be cheated now. it's said that I was born in wrong time!!
Yes my ex was so silly that he didn't know how to treasure a gold. yes he had a lot shortpoints but he was handsome and he never had affairs with other woman when we were together, that's the two reasons we could live for so many years together. of course also because we had a girl.
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When my kid was only not more than 1 years old, he used to work shift. So I took care of my baby alone at night. when she cried loudly I was so scared. But I never said I was scared to my ex, because I didn't want him to worry about me. But one day my workmate told me that he always saw him in a gamehall near his factory....I didn't believe it at all when he told me this...but fact told me that it was right...
He went to gambling everynight when I looked after my baby alone at night!!! my blood boiled when I knew this...but I didnt' divorce with him until this year...
Why I am such a silly woman who always be cheated??????
how can i become a little smart???