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Dec 13, 2009 12:10 PM CST Trust
PeachesandRay
PeachesandRayPeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA72 Threads 1 Polls 1,358 Posts
For a relationship to last, there has to be full trust in each other. If trust is lost due to a previous relationship, then it must be relearned for a present relationship to continue or even to be put back together.





Earl
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Dec 13, 2009 12:13 PM CST Trust
Validity
ValidityValidityLindsay, Ontario Canada47 Threads 1 Polls 803 Posts
PeachesandRay: For a relationship to last, there has to be full trust in each other. If trust is lost due to a previous relationship, then it must be relearned for a present relationship to continue or even to be put back together.Earl
Totally agree with thatapplause
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Dec 13, 2009 12:14 PM CST Trust
thumbs up

...and not just relationships.....trust goes further then that....it is a necessary ingredient for those around you to hold you in good esteem.....

...and definitely in friendships....male or female....

wine
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Dec 13, 2009 12:17 PM CST Trust
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Previous relationships don't concern me regarding issues of trust; I must have been very lucky and never suffered from distrust myself................. but if trust is broken I guess it must be VERY hard to heal.

I have been lied to, but that was by somebody after we'd split up; the problem was we then got back together - big mistake!
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Dec 13, 2009 12:19 PM CST Trust
Usually, Once someone has Broken that Trust, It Is Broken,


deliberate actions, break trust forever! Some times it may not be deliberate...... just an Honest Mistake can be worked through!teddybear
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Dec 13, 2009 12:26 PM CST Trust
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
Trust is always paramount in a relationship; without trust there is no relationship.handshake
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Dec 13, 2009 12:27 PM CST Trust
bettyboop63
bettyboop63bettyboop63glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK61 Threads 2,036 Posts
trust can take years to build an seconds to destroy...wine
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Dec 13, 2009 12:30 PM CST Trust
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
bettyboop63: trust can take years to build an seconds to destroy...


Very true too............. oh well, life goes on but losing trust is something that's very hard to cope with.

I remember lying to my dad when I started smoking again as a young man............ he later asked me if I had taken any drugs and I truthfully replied that I hadn't.

He said:

'You lied to me about smoking. I can't trust you.'

That hurt me more than I can express in words.
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Dec 13, 2009 12:32 PM CST Trust
bettyboop63: trust can take years to build an seconds to destroy...



So True, Hello Ladiesbouquet heart wings
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Dec 13, 2009 12:39 PM CST Trust
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
HotrodLarrys: So True, Hello Ladies


wave Hi!
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Dec 15, 2009 6:43 PM CST Trust
PeachesandRay
PeachesandRayPeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA72 Threads 1 Polls 1,358 Posts
PeachesandRay: For a relationship to last, there has to be full trust in each other. If trust is lost due to a previous relationship, then it must be relearned for a present relationship to continue or even to be put back together.Earl


crying moping blues sigh
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Dec 15, 2009 7:27 PM CST Trust
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
PeachesandRay: For a relationship to last, there has to be full trust in each other. If trust is lost due to a previous relationship, then it must be relearned for a present relationship to continue or even to be put back together.Earl


Is this a general thread or are you two on rocky ground?
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Dec 15, 2009 7:28 PM CST Trust
odessaukraine48
odessaukraine48odessaukraine48odessa, Uzbekistan26 Threads 925 Posts
as a young man i was kind of jealous. but as age comes along. i don't have time to worry about what i don't no.
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Dec 15, 2009 7:33 PM CST Trust
envyu
envyuenvyumelbourne, Victoria Australia78 Posts
thumbs up true but trust not only applies 2 relationship it goes beyond dat for instance in your everyday life n dat includes work
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Dec 15, 2009 7:34 PM CST Trust
steve6610
steve6610steve6610Goolwa, South Australia Australia2,184 Posts
gingerb: Is this a general thread or are you two on rocky ground?



Ging I do hope it is the first one ( geenral thread) because they have always been such a loving couple
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Dec 15, 2009 7:41 PM CST Trust
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
steve6610: Ging I do hope it is the first one ( geenral thread) because they have always been such a loving couple


I always thought that too, but I am finding more and more on here that people start threads that are often personal to them to get views and outside opinions......
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Dec 15, 2009 7:42 PM CST Trust
steve6610
steve6610steve6610Goolwa, South Australia Australia2,184 Posts
gingerb: I always thought that too, but I am finding more and more on here that people start threads that are often personal to them to get views and outside opinions......



spot on Ging wonderful points you raised thumbs up
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Dec 15, 2009 9:13 PM CST Trust
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
PeachesandRay: For a relationship to last, there has to be full trust in each other. If trust is lost due to a previous relationship, then it must be relearned for a present relationship to continue or even to be put back together.Earl


You're a rocket scientist.

F.uck this nonsense.
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Dec 17, 2009 6:11 PM CST Trust
PeachesandRay
PeachesandRayPeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA72 Threads 1 Polls 1,358 Posts
thewall2: You're a rocket scientist.

F.uck this nonsense.


I see you're up to your ole stuff eh...walldoh

Peacheswave
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Dec 29, 2009 1:34 PM CST Trust
PeachesandRay
PeachesandRayPeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA72 Threads 1 Polls 1,358 Posts
PeachesandRay: For a relationship to last, there has to be full trust in each other. If trust is lost due to a previous relationship, then it must be relearned for a present relationship to continue or even to be put back together.Earl


Honey,

Just hate to put it online, but since you won't contact me personally, guess I've got no reasonable choice.

Trust can be highly compromised when "old flames" come into the picture, and stay there disguised as "old friends". I was born, but not yesterday, even being from the South doesn't make me that gullible. I've not brought any "old flames" into our marriage, cause I understand how natural it is for old feelings to resurface for anyone. We're not immune to it, and it's best to safeguard our committed relationships by avoiding the persons in our past relationships.

Besides the Trust was compromised by much more than that, and I won't go any further, cause I don't think CS wants to see our dirty laundry.

You & I both promised each other before our wedding and after our wedding that "divorce" was not an option for us, NO MATTER WHATvery mad Are you not a Man of Your Word anymore?mumbling

I thought this time apart was for us both to have some space to get some stuff straightened out. Seems you're a Quitterdoh

I told your family I was willing to move to be with you when the time was right, but don't guess that's what you wantdunno

Don't worry about me, I'm a Survivor; but I would have preferred to have survived this recession that has beat up our marriage so badly with you. I've given you the "benefit of the doubt" until now.hug

I suspect this together CS site is uncomfortable for you, so I'll end it soon as I can creat another for myself; will be sometime this week; as all I have available is the library computer.

In My Heart, You are Still My LifeMatekiss , but it's broken right now. Good Luck in Love & Lifewine

Peaches
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