phoenixrising1OPnorthern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
langleygirl: Its not just a "man" who does the right thing ..... there are plenty of women who do the same as well.
so really what your saying is that being a woman would require you to do all the things a man should do for you and your kids (if any)...IF HE WERE THERE???
PART OF MY REASON FOR WRITING THIS ..IS IN A PREVIOUS FORUM A POST WAS MADE... HOW A REAL WOMAN CAN EARN THE BACON AND SERVE IT TO ME AND STILL MAKE ME FEEL LIKE A MAN....
AND PERHAPS THAT IS TRUE OF A REAL WOMAN ... MY POINT IS A REAL WOMAN SHOULD NOT HAVE TO
phoenixrising1: so really what your saying is that being a woman would require you to do all the things a man should do for you and your kids (if any)...IF HE WERE THERE???
PART OF MY REASON FOR WRITING THIS ..IS IN A PREVIOUS FORUM A POST WAS MADE... HOW A REAL WOMAN CAN EARN THE BACON AND SERVE IT TO ME AND STILL MAKE ME FEEL LIKE A MAN....
AND PERHAPS THAT IS TRUE OF A REAL WOMAN ... MY POINT IS A REAL WOMAN SHOULD NOT HAVE TO
Alas reality is sometimes different than the "ideal". To have had even some support in any manner in raising my daughter would have been welcome - sadly that was not the case and it has been a big price for all of us to pay in many different ways.
someone asked me to post a meaningful thread so i did... but guys and gals..... i am surprised at you ..... i see a lot of views ...but no reply???
i recommend the book for all MEN.....all ages..... and ladies...if you want to see if i have the right idea of what a mans ideals and disciplines are....check the book out
i thought i would list the table
contents
1....the ideal man
the steel
2....man's basic role 3....man,the guide 4....how to lead woman and children 5....man, the protector 6....man. the provider 7....family finances 8....man,the builder of society 9....masculinity 10...character 11...self confidence 12...health
the velvet
13...understanding woman 14...gentleness,tenderness and affection 15...attentiveness 16...youthfulness 17...humility 18...refinement
conclusion i am not saying i am all of these things .... just that i spent my life trying to be this man ... and to the best of my ability i have been ...and am today ...and hope to be tomorrow a better man of steel and velvet ...and i invite all real men every where to commit to these values
Oh…..I think I have my Christmas wish now… I hope that this planet will be full of kinda “steal and velvet” man like Kenneth and Scouterscott
and Men...please speak out on this topic... !this is very hot issue...
rebelluvr: lets see ,,, I have 3 offspring ,two have grown up ok . 1 is 3 yo I spend allmy money on them ( food , clothing , shelter , party money for the older 2 toys for the lilun ) spend all my free time teaching them about life ,sports , dating & responsibilities of life ! I work more hours than I care to admit just so they can have a better future ! is this what your talking about ?
You never cease to surprise me Reb. Good man you are.
phoenixrising1OPnorthern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
Lee464: irrelevant...I'm not married and have no kids...what others do is non of my concern...
point well taken .....
but dude ...you still evade my question ...its a question of your personals values ... if you have no kids ever ... then that part of the book is not relevant .... how about man ...the builder of society ..? your a teacher are you not...is a teacher not a builder of society... i have seen some interesting posts from you concerning the back wards ways in thailand??? are you not interested in building the society you live in?.... like a real man?
phoenixrising1: so really what your saying is that being a woman would require you to do all the things a man should do for you and your kids (if any)...IF HE WERE THERE???
PART OF MY REASON FOR WRITING THIS ..IS IN A PREVIOUS FORUM A POST WAS MADE... HOW A REAL WOMAN CAN EARN THE BACON AND SERVE IT TO ME AND STILL MAKE ME FEEL LIKE A MAN....
AND PERHAPS THAT IS TRUE OF A REAL WOMAN ... MY POINT IS A REAL WOMAN SHOULD NOT HAVE TO
A real woman will do whatever it takes to get the job done. Just the same for a real man.
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so really what your saying is that being a woman would require you to do all the things a man should do for you and your kids (if any)...IF HE WERE THERE???
PART OF MY REASON FOR WRITING THIS ..IS IN A PREVIOUS FORUM A POST WAS MADE... HOW A REAL WOMAN CAN EARN THE BACON AND SERVE IT TO ME AND STILL MAKE ME FEEL LIKE A MAN....
AND PERHAPS THAT IS TRUE OF A REAL WOMAN ... MY POINT IS A REAL WOMAN SHOULD NOT HAVE TO