at the end of my married days. i had done everything humanely possible to save our marry life. but as years went buy. i realize buy going out of my way to save it. i really destroyed it. we had one son. at the end. i throw my hands up and gave up. i left her never him. it is better to leave then to kill them. it was that close.
phoenixrising1OPnorthern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
Blues63: A real man...?
1. Always maintains his integrity in order to protect his charges.
2. Values honesty, and practises it
3. Values fidelity, and practises it
4. High work ethic
5. Treats others as he would be treated
6. Continually tries to correct any defects of character he may possess.
Be willing to show emotion when appropriate; not to be arrogant, opinionated, judgemental, unsympathetic inter alia. I could elaborate all day, but I must go now
phoenixrising1OPnorthern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
odessaukraine48: at the end of my married days. i had done everything humanely possible to save our marry life. but as years went buy. i realize buy going out of my way to save it. i really destroyed it. we had one son. at the end. i throw my hands up and gave up. i left her never him. it is better to leave then to kill them. it was that close.
you tried your best .... my friend...
as a protector.. ....YOU did the RIGHT THING
and you never left him....
like a real man
im not here to judge...but offer a work on manhood to be the judge. i admit my mistakes more than once in the thread to illustrate
the judge is ....THE MAN OF STEEL AND VELVET....i have had this in my profile without explanation for 6 months as describe myself...and i am here for forums so im not trying to impress the girls....hehehe...but again...i was asked to leave this site by a member who said my posts were........ so i choose to write about something i believe it ...manhood
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
Lee464: Doormat is a good description of the majority of the male posters on this thread. seems most of them have bought into the western religious rhetoric that states one needs to suffer before one finds joy...guess what...you were lied to...suffering is not necessary...it's voluntary.
Is that why... as a real man, you have just done 8 pages of trying to explain your real philosophy
Here said all about Manhood and real man... I can not find the right definition of that... Why all so busy looking for that... Why don't you just become your self , I believe we all have good side.... Right thoughts... And if about living together with others who ever they are, wife, kids , parents, friends ....... We shoud be balance, compromise , tolerant..... In this era, men and women are equal its mean can change position , eg looking for money, helping each other raising kids.... All depend on situation... It said here, man are protector ,yes , if about protect from physical force, but women can protect man from Psychological harassment….. Marriage is a team , need each other …. No body perfect, just try to understand others....... And we can make mistake too, divorce is one of choices to fix our mistake in our life…. Make our life easy to live..... don't make everything become complicated.... Have a Wonderful Holiday to all of you…….
phoenixrising1OPnorthern, British Columbia Canada1,086 posts
Dianti: Here said all about Manhood and real man... I can not find the right definition of that... Why all so busy looking for that... Why don't you just become your self , I believe we all have good side.... Right thoughts... And if about living together with others who ever they are, wife, kids , parents, friends ....... We shoud be balance, compromise , tolerant..... In this era, men and women are equal its mean can change position , eg looking for money, helping each other raising kids.... All depend on situation... It said here, man are protector ,yes , if about protect from physical force, but women can protect man from Psychological harassment….. Marriage is a team , need each other …. No body perfect, just try to understand others....... And we can make mistake too, divorce is one of choices to fix our mistake in our life…. Make our life easy to live..... don't make everything become complicated.... Have a Wonderful Holiday to all of you…….
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