MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children ( Archived) (225)

Dec 26, 2009 8:07 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
alexey8
alexey8alexey8Tel Aviv, Israel10 Threads 4 Polls 1,496 Posts
bay163: He should go out find the hottest woman he can and make sweet sweet love, even if it is in a parking lot, that is how real men roll woman.


Yes cause WE ALL know what happens in parking lots doh at least with you uh oh



rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Dec 26, 2009 8:10 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
curiousgeorge2
curiousgeorge2curiousgeorge2magnolia, Mississippi USA11 Threads 5 Polls 488 Posts
RobertC2: I have no idea what it's like to be a man.

I've been a Mummy's boy all my life.

Sorry, I can't help you!

Good luck finding your manhood!


Robert !

go to your ROOM,......... You are being Bad again ! cheers
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Dec 26, 2009 8:19 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
curiousgeorge2: 1st off,..... even MEN, make mistakes ! having said that,
I have made only a few, and EACH time I did, it was because I
said,...... I DO,........................


laugh rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Dec 26, 2009 8:23 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
bay163: He should go out find the hottest woman he can and make sweet sweet love, even if it is in a parking lot, that is how real men roll woman.



yes ok...but if you knock her up ..you man enough to help feed the kid?? thats what this thread is about ..and i think you would...



cheers
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Dec 26, 2009 9:45 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
Apostophe: A good friend who is a hopeless alcoholic has been divorced for 12 years has never skipped a single alimony payment for his two kids even though his ex is now married to numbr 3 and she has denied him access all these years.A broken man - but never gave up on his own flesh. Sad thing is that they want nothing to do with him.


crying

real girl realwine
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Dec 26, 2009 9:47 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
golden_eyes71: Ya know I didnt want to respond to this thread because the title of this thread is how I ended up single. I'm furious with your statement. Shame on you. Youre lucky I dont say what I would like to on here.


sweetheart we have been waiting for you ...please ...voice ur honest and true heart.....i beg you wine
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Dec 26, 2009 10:05 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
golden_eyes71
golden_eyes71golden_eyes71Schofield, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 126 Posts
phoenixrising1: sweetheart we have been waiting for you ...please ...voice ur honest and true heart.....i beg you


Honey I lived in the inner city of Milwaukee. What I would say would ban me for life on this site. cheers
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Dec 27, 2009 4:26 AM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
bay163
bay163bay163san mateo, California USA8 Threads 4 Polls 991 Posts
phoenixrising1: to get there ...phillipines airlines

but choose wisely


phoenix is rising i would not ever go to asian to find a woman because there are too many women there who want a free ride to usa or canada where you are, do not throw your common sense out the window, go to a asian massage parlor, pay 200 dollars and then come back home with all the fantasy out of your head, this is serious, look i know morons who have gone to the philipines and brought back a wife, there are too many good normal women in america or europe to do that, STOP BEING A DUESCHEBAG!!!!!!!
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Dec 27, 2009 4:31 AM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
LaVerdad
LaVerdadLaVerdadBaghdad, Iraq1 Threads 1,897 Posts
bay163: phoenix is rising i would not ever go to asian to find a woman because there are too many women there who want a free ride to usa or canada where you are, do not throw your common sense out the window, go to a asian massage parlor, pay 200 dollars and then come back home with all the fantasy out of your head, this is serious, look i know morons who have gone to the philipines and brought back a wife, there are too many good normal women in america or europe to do that, STOP BEING A DUESCHEBAG!!!!!!!


thumbs up Each to their own in the end.
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Dec 27, 2009 3:57 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
Kiloe
KiloeKiloeMidwest, Wyoming USA1 Threads 68 Posts
I guess I have never been with a real man, my kids' fathers never attempt to see them, they do not pay child support.. My sons dad pretended he wanted to see my son, until child support people tried to garnish his wages; he quit his job the second they told him about the garnishment and has made no attempts to see my son..
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Dec 27, 2009 4:06 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
Kiloe: I guess I have never been with a real man, my kids' fathers never attempt to see them, they do not pay child support.. My sons dad pretended he wanted to see my son, until child support people tried to garnish his wages; he quit his job the second they told him about the garnishment and has made no attempts to see my son..



i am sorry to say my own brother did exactly the same??

your totally incredible....for having survived that

teddybear
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Dec 27, 2009 4:07 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
LaVerdad: Each to their own in the end.


thanks cutie cie..smitten
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Dec 27, 2009 8:12 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
golden_eyes71
golden_eyes71golden_eyes71Schofield, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 126 Posts
Kiloe: I guess I have never been with a real man, my kids' fathers never attempt to see them, they do not pay child support.. My sons dad pretended he wanted to see my son, until child support people tried to garnish his wages; he quit his job the second they told him about the garnishment and has made no attempts to see my son..


Hold your head high girl! Single moms rock babe. Even when the going is tough. You can keep your chin high with pride knowing you're doing the best you can to care for your babies on your own and they will appreciate you for it when you're all older. They will help YOU :). My 3 yr old started taking it upon himself to empty the garbages. It all starts with a little responsibility and a lot of love teddybear
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Dec 28, 2009 7:25 AM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
golden_eyes71: Hold your head high girl! Single moms rock babe. Even when the going is tough. You can keep your chin high with pride knowing you're doing the best you can to care for your babies on your own and they will appreciate you for it when you're all older. They will help YOU :). My 3 yr old started taking it upon himself to empty the garbages. It all starts with a little responsibility and a lot of love


]Hold your head high girl!

THIS IS NOT ABOUT THE AMAZING JOBS MOMS HAVE DONE......

BUT ABOUT men WHO ABANDON THEIR CHILDREN....AND WIFE WITH OUT JUST CAUSE ..doh wine

NOTHING WRONG WITH HER POST AND SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO BE PROUD OF WHAT SHE DID..... hhhaaammm i just wish the children's father could be as proud...moping crying very mad
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Dec 28, 2009 7:34 AM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
Iuchi_Zien
Iuchi_ZienIuchi_ZienSheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK21 Threads 9 Polls 1,426 Posts
Iuchi_Zien: That's a very black and white statement don't you think?

As an example what about a father who is denied permission to remain in the country and has no desire to have his children move to a country he doesn't believe they will be safe in? Does that make him not a REAL man?




phoenixrising1: THANKS FOR A REAL MEANINGFUL QUESTION ... IN YOUR EXAMPLE I CAN ONLY ASK ... DID THE MAN .....CONTINUE TO FEED HIS CHILD ???
IF NOT ....


I based the example on a case I know about through teaching refugees, No he didn't send money back to the UK because his job in Nigeria paid less than £5 a week, after his living expenses and the cost of sending the money to the UK he would have been sending back less than £1 a week. His wife told him in no uncertain terms that doing that was stupid and to spend the money on his extended family in Nigeria if he felt he couldn't spend the money on himself. Did this make him not a real man?
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Dec 28, 2009 1:00 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
Iuchi_Zien: I based the example on a case I know about through teaching refugees, No he didn't send money back to the UK because his job in Nigeria paid less than £5 a week, after his living expenses and the cost of sending the money to the UK he would have been sending back less than £1 a week. His wife told him in no uncertain terms that doing that was stupid and to spend the money on his extended family in Nigeria if he felt he couldn't spend the money on himself. Did this make him not a real man?


thank you for this post......god i did not want to offend any one.

this thread was never intended to judge or condemn anyone...

but to challenge and encourage Men to rise up and be MAN....
.

WE ALL DO THE BEST WE CAN ...i think if he had a heart for his children ... and did not abandon his wife without just cause.. then as a man he did his part....

we all fail ... i admit my some of my short commings early in the thread..beer

wine
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Dec 28, 2009 1:17 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
Iuchi_Zien: I based the example on a case I know about through teaching refugees, No he didn't send money back to the UK because his job in Nigeria paid less than £5 a week, after his living expenses and the cost of sending the money to the UK he would have been sending back less than £1 a week. His wife told him in no uncertain terms that doing that was stupid and to spend the money on his extended family in Nigeria if he felt he couldn't spend the money on himself. Did this make him not a real man?


The famous painter Cezanne Gogan.... wrote books on how to raise children... while his own wife and children were abandoned ...
so that he might live the Bohemian lifestyle in Tahiti...
and his wife and children were left begging for bread, in Paris France

this is the kind of abandonment i refer to very mad very mad
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Dec 29, 2009 1:43 AM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
Kiloe
KiloeKiloeMidwest, Wyoming USA1 Threads 68 Posts
golden_eyes71: Hold your head high girl! Single moms rock babe. Even when the going is tough. You can keep your chin high with pride knowing you're doing the best you can to care for your babies on your own and they will appreciate you for it when you're all older. They will help YOU :). My 3 yr old started taking it upon himself to empty the garbages. It all starts with a little responsibility and a lot of love


Thank you for this, encouragement helps; my kids are pretty good around the house, my kids always put aluminum cans in the recycle bin for me. Every few seconds they ask "mommy are you done so I can put that in recycle" So although I do it by myself I know it will be good for me in the end.banana lol sorry had to put the banana cuz my daughter saw it and said the dog Brian from the show Faily Guy dressed like this and sang Peanut Butter Jelly Time..
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Dec 29, 2009 1:58 AM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
rebelluvr
rebelluvrrebelluvrMonroeville, Alabama USA3 Threads 1,627 Posts
Kiloe: Thank you for this, encouragement helps; my kids are pretty good around the house, my kids always put aluminum cans in the recycle bin for me. Every few seconds they ask "mommy are you done so I can put that in recycle" So although I do it by myself I know it will be good for me in the end. lol sorry had to put the banana cuz my daughter saw it and said the dog Brian from the show Faily Guy dressed like this and sang Peanut Butter Jelly Time..
just remember not all of us guys are like that ! some love our kids & support them ! I'd die for my kids!angel
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Dec 29, 2009 3:12 AM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
golden_eyes71
golden_eyes71golden_eyes71Schofield, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 126 Posts
rebelluvr: just remember not all of us guys are like that ! some love our kids & support them ! I'd die for my kids!


That is exactly what I was told too after mine abandoned us. He's right. Hold strong, have faith and miracles will show themselves to you when you least expect it to. They did for me today. My Mr. Somebody finally asked me to be his for good. blushing
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