MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children ( Archived) (225)

Dec 22, 2009 6:09 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
cgedvr: Who the F do you think you are? A real man is over in Thailand casing little boys....I'M SURE!!!


he has a right to his opinion.... and i thank you for yours ...a lot...wine
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Dec 22, 2009 6:12 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
cgedvr
cgedvrcgedvrSo. Cal, California USA40 Threads 2,088 Posts
Sorry pr1, I was enjoying reading this thread untill I got to....well any way...you seem to be a real man to me!!!!!!!!!!!
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Dec 22, 2009 6:23 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
cgedvr: Sorry pr1, I was enjoying reading this thread until I got to....well any way...you seem to be a real man to me!!!!!!!!!!!



dude judging by your reaction and contribution, so far... i would say ..what ever i am ... you are too .. and i send you my best regards during this time ..beer

i just did not see the value of arguing with a teacher by profession.... he is an educated man... and his voice is always welcome.... even if he is upsetting at times ... i have upset others as well ....


we all offend many in much......hehehefrustrated
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Dec 22, 2009 8:16 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
scoutmaster
scoutmasterscoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA29 Threads 6 Polls 1,100 Posts
Kalimera: Dont be so condescending, yes I have heard of wedding vows and I took them, stuck to them for 14 years then decided that "worse" was to much to expect my children to go through, I took the responsible step and got my children out of a dangerous situation, just as any Mother would. The days of people staying in violent marriages are long gone thank god.

My ex husband took those same vows, honour and protect I believe where the word ha ha


I believe there are two reasons to get out of a marrage, one is if your spose is abusive, eather phisical or mental. or if your spouse is unfaithfull. I think you did the right thing.
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Dec 22, 2009 9:26 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
Lee464: Any book that states that pain is part of the joy of anything is hogwash and obviously written by a moron...
Ain't that the truth!!!!!thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Dec 22, 2009 9:29 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
scoutmaster: I believe there are two reasons to get out of a marrage, one is if your spose is abusive, eather phisical or mental. or if your spouse is unfaithfull. I think you did the right thing.


hard to argue against thatcheers
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Dec 22, 2009 9:31 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
scoutmaster: I believe there are two reasons to get out of a marrage, one is if your spose is abusive, eather phisical or mental. or if your spouse is unfaithfull. I think you did the right thing.


well... easy way not to have to deal with that !!!!


just dont get married in the first place !!! doh doh doh
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Dec 22, 2009 9:36 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
scoutmaster
scoutmasterscoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA29 Threads 6 Polls 1,100 Posts
seekndestroy: well... easy way not to have to deal with that !!!!just dont get married in the first place !!!


Well howde, nabor
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Dec 22, 2009 9:37 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
scoutmaster: Well howde, nabor


what up???

cheers
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Dec 22, 2009 9:40 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
scoutmaster
scoutmasterscoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA29 Threads 6 Polls 1,100 Posts
seekndestroy: what up???


I get use to chatting with people all around the world on this sight, it unusual to see someone so close to home, Iv seen some of your postings but never been on at the same time.
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Dec 22, 2009 9:43 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
seekndestroy: well... easy way not to have to deal with that !!!!just dont get married in the first place !!!



hard to argue with this dude...laugh rolling on the floor laughing tongue beer
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Dec 22, 2009 9:49 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
seekndestroy: well... easy way not to have to deal with that !!!!just dont get married in the first place !!!



hard to argue with this dude...laugh rolling on the floor laughing tongue beer
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Dec 22, 2009 9:54 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
cgedvr: Who the F do you think you are? A real man is over in Thailand casing little boys....I'M SURE!!!
Another man with preconceived ideas about western men living in S.E. Asia. Just who the F do you think you are. A môronic post.....I'M SUREvery mad You're a judgemental ignoramus. That's my judgement anyway.
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Dec 22, 2009 9:55 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
seekndestroy
seekndestroyseekndestroySeattle, Washington USA15 Threads 4,736 Posts
scoutmaster: I get use to chatting with people all around the world on this sight, it unusual to see someone so close to home, Iv seen some of your postings but never been on at the same time.


actually we have.... i've just been laying low on here.... its getting kinda boring !!!

and now that i said that..... i gotta log off.... got to kill things .... god is great to be able to play COD or any other xbox games without having to ask for permission first !!!!


head banger
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Dec 22, 2009 10:00 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
scon1916: Another man with preconceived ideas about western men living in S.E. Asia. Just who the F do you think you are. A môronic post.....I'M SURE You're a judgemental ignoramus. That's my judgement anyway.


SIR ...ARE YOU AWARE OF WHY HE IS UPSET WITH THE POST?

anyway ...do you think a REAL MAN abandons his wife and children?
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Dec 22, 2009 10:31 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
scon1916: Another man with preconceived ideas about western men living in S.E. Asia. Just who the F do you think you are. A môronic post.....I'M SURE You're a judgemental ignoramus. That's my judgement anyway.



ok i talked with scon and he said he misunderstood the comment ...so i think its all peaceful again....darntongue
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Dec 22, 2009 11:09 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
bay163
bay163bay163san mateo, California USA8 Threads 4 Polls 991 Posts
Lee464: Any book that states that pain is part of the joy of anything is hogwash and obviously written by a moron...


You are wrong, wrong, wrong, because I know something about raising children and it might interest you to know that alot of boys get into trouble because they like to fight and they like to hit and get hit back, this is a reason many schools put boys on different drugs to maintain peace.

This is a category of single parents, being a parent means putting others welfare before your own, hearing you lecture about manhood is like listening to a 12 year old boy telling me how to drive a car.
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Dec 22, 2009 11:28 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
jaynimble
jaynimblejaynimblehampton, Virginia USA25 Threads 7 Polls 237 Posts
bay163: You are wrong, wrong, wrong, because I know something about raising children and it might interest you to know that alot of boys get into trouble because they like to fight and they like to hit and get hit back, this is a reason many schools put boys on different drugs to maintain peace.

This is a category of single parents, being a parent means putting others welfare before your own, hearing you lecture about manhood is like listening to a 12 year old boy telling me how to drive a car.


Putting kids on drugs is an excuse for the schools inability and lazyness of a school to deal with kids problems. I used to fight all the time, used to tell my teachers to screw off, used to fight authority everybit of the way, and was the most troubled kid there was and now im going to run a nuclear reactor for the navy. Drugs are the mass solution to a problem that doesnt require drugs, but teaching and adaption.

But there are the select few people who actually need drugs...so im not saying no one should use prescription drugs, im just saying it shouldnt be the solution to most problems.
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Dec 22, 2009 11:33 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
bay163
bay163bay163san mateo, California USA8 Threads 4 Polls 991 Posts
phoenixrising1: HI .... i am a man of steal and velvet....

MAN OF STEAL AND VELVET..... BY ...AUBREY P. ANDELIN

that is the name of a book i studied as a young man ...and it shaped my understanding of man hood....

i married a woman and kept her with my love 27 years... and for 20 of those years...she let me know ..i was not a priority in her life.... yet i still loved her and ...as my lawyer said ...20 years ago...
is it over.... i said no ...

do nothing..he said...just keep putting money in the bank .... and so thats what i did ...to be a man.....
i cry ..easy and often .... does that mean i'm not a real man?


what do you think distinguishes a REAL man

lets talk about manhood who's got the balls??


I think that you instictively knew what you had to do for your family and especially children, and you did it congratulations.

What you did reminds me of a NFL lineman, he does all the work but just because you cant say, "me and my wife are now married 30 yrs" you dont feel like the quarterback who won the superbowl, but you did you are just as important, because if not for you your kids would have possibly alot of serious abondonment issues. Good Job.cheers handshake
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Dec 22, 2009 11:34 PM CST MANHOOD.....A real man never abandons his wife or children
phoenixrising1
phoenixrising1phoenixrising1northern, British Columbia Canada58 Threads 25 Polls 1,086 Posts
jaynimble: Putting kids on drugs is an excuse for the schools inability and lazyness of a school to deal with kids problems. I used to fight all the time, used to tell my teachers to screw off, used to fight authority everybit of the way, and was the most troubled kid there was and now im going to run a nuclear reactor for the navy. Drugs are the mass solution to a problem that doesnt require drugs, but teaching and adaption.

But there are the select few people who actually need drugs...so im not saying no one should use prescription drugs, im just saying it shouldnt be the solution to most problems.


but how do you feel about the question ... will you also tell us how do you feel ..

a man does not abandon wife and children...A REAL MANcheers
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