Should I even be here? ( Archived) (42)

Where to start so this doesn't turn into a novel? I was what I thought was happily married for ten years, when my wife had an affair. She told me why she felt she had cheated and we worked together on fixing the problem. Eight years later I got hurt at work and eventually became disabled. During that process she asked for a divorce swearing it had nothing to do with my becoming disabled. My divorce was final on Oct. 29 of this year. On Nov. 24th I found out that about a year after I got hurt and a month before she asked for the divorce, she had started cheating on me again. I feel so pathetic now that I really don't know if I should even be thinking about trying to date. Maby I should go find a nice monastery, or a cave in the hills? Thoughts anyone?

She choices are her own to make. They do not reflect who you are as an individual. Be responsible for yourself and if you know that you did your best - that is all that can be said.

You now need to move forward in your own life and not dwell in the past otherwise the only person you are hurting is yourself. If it was a friend that this happened too - I'm sure your advice would be to move forward and be happy. You deserve it.

Good luck and be excited to a whole new future of possibilities. There are many wonderful people out in the world - don't let some bad experiences rob you of future happiness.

hi daish, sori 2 hear about yr story, i guess d only thing u can do now is start over again n try 2 4get about d past, having said dat i know it is alot easier said dan done but hopefully u'l find dat special person soon n dat she would love u 4 who u r not wat u r, cheers

where else would you be if not here?

Can anyone translate this post for me?

It is the way of the wanderer. It says "this way is common to me, look to your feet and the path appears, the next part is only steps, if you so choose."

Keep your eyes up though, so you don't walk into a tree.

cool thanks......psst...can anyone translate THIS post for me...