Nature Versus Nurture??? (35)

Jan 8, 2010 8:50 PM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
saoirse65: I have the book and I am still kinda scared to read it
I do not know the nature v nurture thing...
It is all very scary to me.
Are we all just very safe in our own environments,,,, Have You read the book? I have it right here


Want me to read it to you........flirty

Its a good read S, and I reckon you would enjoy it. Kinda scary with a very strong message.

wine
Jan 8, 2010 8:50 PM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
saoirse65
saoirse65saoirse65Ballyshannon, Donegal Ireland210 Threads 3,338 Posts
vinny1967: Sorry wrong title.

'We need to talk about Kevin'..........Its a book by Lionel Shriver about a child born to loving parents who was bad from the time he was born............Its a work of fiction but is frighteningly scary.....

Dam ...thought you got it right the first time... I am still to scared to read it...
Jan 8, 2010 8:58 PM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
sharina: i just read "born bad", josephine cox..very good reading .fiction..


Will check it out Shar.........hug
Jan 8, 2010 9:00 PM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
Kalimera
KalimeraKalimeraDublin, Ireland6 Threads 1,708 Posts
sharina: i read that,,



"Feel the fear and do it anyway", great book
Jan 8, 2010 9:07 PM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
saoirse65
saoirse65saoirse65Ballyshannon, Donegal Ireland210 Threads 3,338 Posts
I have three first cousins.. well they are my adopted first cousins and they are so like their parents... mannerisms etc...If you did not know they were adopted you would just say that they were just like their parents...same mannerisms same nature same sense of humour to a certain degree...so that is the nurture argumentdunno
Jan 8, 2010 9:10 PM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
saoirse65: What makes you the person that you are?
Did your upbringing make you what you are now?
Did life make you what you are now?
Just curious
Speaking for myself.. I think that my Parents made me the core person that I am..meaning what I learned from them...values..etc...
Life ...did the rest to me...
tongue you should be very previgleged,,gurl,,i,m answering your thread,,,but it struck something in medoh My answer to it,would be,,,my parents has a lot to do with my up bringing,,,and whether was right r wrong,,as in them times,,was in the deep troubles of derry.and northern ireland etcwink but they rared 10 of us,,5 boys and 5 gurls,which thankfully we all did them proud in them days,,but as a parent my self now,,and know what my parents did,,and scarificed,,too bring us up,but now,,its a different generation,,,the values that our parents taught us etc,,are no longer values,,as such,,as socially,,its a different generation altogether.

OOO,,yes we can advise etc,,but now,,as a parent,,and adult of 2010,,i wud say as so far as my parents,,has taught me the values of life,,its the experiences,,of life that has made them real,,and in them experiences,,we grow and learn.So as much as my parents long ago,taught me the values in life away back then,,,i also take a lot of values,,, from my experiences in life, since then,,,,as its only realy through experincing something we can realy learn.
Jan 8, 2010 9:19 PM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
saoirse65
saoirse65saoirse65Ballyshannon, Donegal Ireland210 Threads 3,338 Posts
derrywoman: all i seen was londonderry,,rite thats it gurl..its war nowwwwwwwww

WELL HOW THE HELL ELSE WOULD I GET YOUR ATTENTION
LONDON DERRY LONDON DERRY LONDON DERRYtongue tongue tongue tongue
Sure we all know it is DERRY and nothing elsecheering cheering cheering cheering
Jan 8, 2010 9:20 PM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
saoirse65
saoirse65saoirse65Ballyshannon, Donegal Ireland210 Threads 3,338 Posts
all i seen was londonderry,,rite thats it gurl..its war nowwwwwwwww[/quote
Damn it is good to see youteddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear
Jan 8, 2010 9:28 PM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
saoirse65: all i seen was londonderry,,rite thats it gurl..its war nowwwwwwwww[/quote
Damn it is good to see you
doh jaysus woman,,,,was answering ur email,,now gurl,,what about the time,,u got us arrested,,in the waterside singing,,,lovely DERRY,,,on the banks of the foyledoh then when the police,came up,,,in that areaconversing and give you the last warning,,,wot did u do thenconfused u started to sing,,the town i love so welll,,and as usual,u lead me astray,,and i started,,singing,,oooooooooo,,ooooo i wish i was home in derrydancing dancing grin
Jan 8, 2010 9:31 PM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
derrywoman: jaysus woman,,,,was answering ur email,,now gurl,,what about the time,,u got us arrested,,in the waterside singing,,,lovely DERRY,,,on the banks of the foyle then when the police,came up,,,in that area and give you the last warning,,,wot did u do then u started to sing,,the town i love so welll,,and as usual,u lead me astray,,and i started,,singing,,oooooooooo,,ooooo i wish i was home in derry


Saoirse leading someone astray? wow Are you sure it was her? Sounds totally out of character confused

Hi K, Hope you are well wave
Jan 8, 2010 9:34 PM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: Saoirse leading someone astray? Are you sure it was her? Sounds totally out of character

Hi K, Hope you are well
conversing Noel,,,for god sake man,,was her,,u know that shes like,,we critter,,notttttttttt,,shes so innocent,,nottttyay doh but she got us locked up noelcrying crying cool wave oooooooo,,hi ya pethug
Jan 8, 2010 10:05 PM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
scarwolve
scarwolvescarwolvescarwolfs den, Carlow Ireland313 Threads 18 Polls 3,060 Posts
1oneman: nobody is born good or bad in my opinion
its the way your treated as a child
and the way your brought up
that has a big bearing on your life as a adult


i agree 100%
Jan 8, 2010 11:08 PM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
saoirse65
saoirse65saoirse65Ballyshannon, Donegal Ireland210 Threads 3,338 Posts
scarwolve: i agree 100%

So...that is nurture/
Jan 9, 2010 6:13 AM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Jan 9, 2010 6:17 AM CST Nature Versus Nurture???
redrain
redrainredrainlimerick, Limerick Ireland27 Threads 12 Polls 1,525 Posts
saoirse65: What makes you the person that you are?
Did your upbringing make you what you are now?
Did life make you what you are now?
Just curious
Speaking for myself.. I think that my Parents made me the core person that I am..meaning what I learned from them...values..etc...
Life ...did the rest to me...


I belive that im the only person that makes me what i am today and what i will be in the future... ya your parents can teach you alot about life but when it comes down to it your parents cant be with you as a child for every decision you make.

One example for me was when i was 11 no one had ever talked to me about drugs and about not taking them.. one of my friends offered me a joint and right then and there at that time it was up to me to make a decision on my own that could possibly effect the rest of my life and i said no to him and never spoke to him again and he was one of my best freinds aswell..
O ya today he is in jail so i guess i did good to get away from him...
Thats just one example from my life i could easily pick a few more...

What im trying to say is that no matter how much your parents teach you as a child you still have to think for yourself and thats what it comes down too only you can make you the person you are or the person you want to be in the future grin
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