AM I BEING PARANOID? (102)
paulitoleonaidaswaterford/tipperary, Tipperary Ireland4 Threads 37 Postsi called my girlfreind and she didnt pick up or get back to me within an hour so i called again but no reply.. i called again 5 mins later on private number and she answered...when i asked why she didnt pick up she said she didnt hear it ringing and it was in her jacket pocket. am i being paranoid or what? serious replys please.
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yes.
unless you have some other reason to be suspicious and if your asking this question maybe you do.
or not.
either way it is not healthy for a relationship.
unless you have some other reason to be suspicious and if your asking this question maybe you do.
or not.
either way it is not healthy for a relationship.
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paulitoleonaidas: i called my girlfreind and she didnt pick up or get back to me within an hour so i called again but no reply.. i called again 5 mins later on private number and she answered...when i asked why she didnt pick up she said she didnt hear it ringing and it was in her jacket pocket. am i being paranoid or what? serious replys please.
Put the shoe on the other foot, bud, now really. (If she had called you and you honestly had not heard it ringing, how would it make you feel if she doubted YOU? I say give her a break- after all, she did answer. Look, you could be right, but loving someone means being willing to give them the benefit of the doubt. You can find out if she's truly loyal without looking "bad". Use some common sense. You're celtic, ya know. 
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Medsummer09: yes.
unless you have some other reason to be suspicious and if your asking this question maybe you do.
or not.
either way it is not healthy for a relationship.
unless you have some other reason to be suspicious and if your asking this question maybe you do.
or not.
either way it is not healthy for a relationship.
thank you very much for your honest opinion.
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You probably are paranoid.
It happens often that I don't hear my mobile ringing because it is deep down my purse that I left near the entrance door.
It happens often that I don't hear my mobile ringing because it is deep down my purse that I left near the entrance door.
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I agree with the previous posters...
How happy is she about you being on a singles site??
How happy is she about you being on a singles site??
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paulitoleonaidas: i called my girlfreind and she didnt pick up or get back to me within an hour so i called again but no reply.. i called again 5 mins later on private number and she answered...when i asked why she didnt pick up she said she didnt hear it ringing and it was in her jacket pocket. am i being paranoid or what? serious replys please.
yes u could be ,the mind does wonders ,if u let it,if ur still not sure just keep an eye on little things ,if ur right ,it will fall into place like a jizsaw,ut dont jump in2 the deep end yet
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rohaan: Put the shoe on the other foot, bud, now really. (If she had called you and you honestly had not heard it ringing, how would it make you feel if she doubted YOU? I say give her a break- after all, she did answer. Look, you could be right, but loving someone means being willing to give them the benefit of the doubt. You can find out if she's truly loyal without looking "bad". Use some common sense. You're celtic, ya know.
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paulitoleonaidas: i called my girlfreind and she didnt pick up or get back to me within an hour so i called again but no reply.. i called again 5 mins later on private number and she answered...when i asked why she didnt pick up she said she didnt hear it ringing and it was in her jacket pocket. am i being paranoid or what? serious replys please.
Try not ringing her at all..... let her ring you first..... you will either get a call or nothing at all, at least you won't be putting her under pressure and you may get the answer to your suspicions also. !
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ella1976: yes u could be ,the mind does wonders ,if u let it,if ur still not sure just keep an eye on little things ,if ur right ,it will fall into place like a jizsaw,ut dont jump in2 the deep end yet
thanks i think your right!
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Englishman55: Try not ringing her at all..... let her ring you first..... you will either get a call or nothing at all, at least you won't be putting her under pressure and you may get the answer to your suspicions also. !
thats true!
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paulitoleonaidas: thanks i think your right!
continue this path my friend and the door shuts hard
Everytime she doesnt answer will eat you alive, she doesnt have to answer every 20 questions you give her
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paulitoleonaidas: i called my girlfreind and she didnt pick up or get back to me within an hour so i called again but no reply.. i called again 5 mins later on private number and she answered...when i asked why she didnt pick up she said she didnt hear it ringing and it was in her jacket pocket. am i being paranoid or what? serious replys please.
I don't think you should be worried.
That can happen.
How is everything else in the relationship going......
You know, being a jealous guy is often a real turn off to most women.
Women like confidence in a man.
So, try to remember that you can control your thoughts, and kick the jealous thoughts out of your mind.
Just entertain positive thoughts.
Thought become words,
Words become actions,
Actions become habits,
And Habits become your destiny.
So, watch your thoughts.
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Good advice
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Englishman55: Try not ringing her at all..... let her ring you first..... you will either get a call or nothing at all, at least you won't be putting her under pressure and you may get the answer to your suspicions also. !
Good advice was ment for this one 
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lights: I don't think you should be worried.
That can happen.
How is everything else in the relationship going......
You know, being a jealous guy is often a real turn off to most women.
Women like confidence in a man.
So, try to remember that you can control your thoughts, and kick the jealous thoughts out of your mind.
Just entertain positive thoughts.
Thought become words,
Words become actions,
Actions become habits,
And Habits become your destiny.
So, watch your thoughts.
That can happen.
How is everything else in the relationship going......
You know, being a jealous guy is often a real turn off to most women.
Women like confidence in a man.
So, try to remember that you can control your thoughts, and kick the jealous thoughts out of your mind.
Just entertain positive thoughts.
Thought become words,
Words become actions,
Actions become habits,
And Habits become your destiny.
So, watch your thoughts.
everthing else in the relationship is going very well...and maybe i just need to enjoy it and chill a bit..maybe its because wer going so well that sometimes i think its to good to be true!
thanks a lot everyone..yee were a great help and i feel much better now!
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You are paranoid. There's a whole group of us on here who really really hate you and we meet once a week to decide strategies of screwing up your life. One of these is barring calls to your gf's phone.
Then we take great delight in giving you bad advice to make things that bit worse!
Then we take great delight in giving you bad advice to make things that bit worse!
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markizamkd25: Good advice was ment for this one
Thankyou sweetness... I do try
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