SOS, Can anybody out here help me locate the woman I love? (65)
fallguy68: I am fairly new to this and I would love to honestly find that one woman that can take my heart and hold it with love. I am separated from my wife and the marriage hasn't been a marriage for some time. She is in the middle of finding a place of her own and she is staying in a different room until she does. I know it may sound
funny but, I was with her for 8 years and I can't just throw her to the curb without a place to go. But the marriage is over or I wouldn't be on here. I'm just being open an honest about the situation I'm in.I thought she was the one but things happen and maybe someone is telling me that one special woman is still out there waiting for me. So can anyone help me find her?
funny but, I was with her for 8 years and I can't just throw her to the curb without a place to go. But the marriage is over or I wouldn't be on here. I'm just being open an honest about the situation I'm in.I thought she was the one but things happen and maybe someone is telling me that one special woman is still out there waiting for me. So can anyone help me find her?
uhhh.... No. Baby, you need to close that deal before you make another one. On top of that, psychological studies show that you should work on yourself for a couple of years before trying to start a new relationship. You still have a lot of crap to sort through, in your heart and your head.
Good luck.
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redkayak: Guess what dude? You're still married, she lives in the same house and no woman wants to deal with that baggage....WTF, And quit whining, you're embarrassing the man card holders....
Thank you. HE IS STILL MARRIED. He needs to sort out his problems with this woman before finding someone new. I dated and lived with someone who was separated and worked with the wife, it was hell so I vowed never to be in such a situation again. She was always in the house because they worked from home and she put her nose in everything. I couldn't say anything because she was the wife, I wasn't and her teenage son also lived there.
She walked in to the house whenever she wanted.
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Nuliiiiiii: Ahhhhhhh the upstairs /Downstairs Marriage hmmmm
But u still married so maybe u should wait untill its realy Finished
But u still married so maybe u should wait untill its realy Finished
Yes.
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rohaan: You need to clear the air first, get her settled in another home, (not just another room). You are not ready to find the right companion until you give yourself some down time from this one. Man, what a mess. You must fix it before you are ready, and then, for all the world, my friend, take your time--find someone who is going to be good to you and for you. Life is too wonderful, and, sadly, too short for you to accept a miserable situation. Incidentally, since it isn't working, why isn't she gone yet? That's a good question, you know. Get the act together, bud. Good Luck, for real-
Thank you. Couldn't have said it any better, No woman wants to be with a man involved in such a mess and an unfinished business. I know, I won't
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fallguy68: she is staying in a different room . . .
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Not sure why that's funny. My ex lived in the basement for six months before our legal separation....
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LadyPhoenix1965: Not sure why that's funny. My ex lived in the basement for six months before our legal separation....
It would be funny AFTER your legal separation . . . .
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newinsouth: It would be funny AFTER your legal separation . . . .
No, it would have been murder...
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LadyPhoenix1965: No, it would have been murder...
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fallguy68: I am fairly new to this and I would love to honestly find that one woman that can take my heart and hold it with love. I am separated from my wife and the marriage hasn't been a marriage for some time. She is in the middle of finding a place of her own and she is staying in a different room until she does. I know it may sound
funny but, I was with her for 8 years and I can't just throw her to the curb without a place to go. But the marriage is over or I wouldn't be on here. I'm just being open an honest about the situation I'm in.I thought she was the one but things happen and maybe someone is telling me that one special woman is still out there waiting for me. So can anyone help me find her?
funny but, I was with her for 8 years and I can't just throw her to the curb without a place to go. But the marriage is over or I wouldn't be on here. I'm just being open an honest about the situation I'm in.I thought she was the one but things happen and maybe someone is telling me that one special woman is still out there waiting for me. So can anyone help me find her?
Can we help you find the woman you love ????
It sounds like she is still living in your house !
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Englishman55: Can we help you find the woman you love ????
It sounds like she is still living in your house !
It sounds like she is still living in your house !
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Englishman55: Can we help you find the woman you love ????
It sounds like she is still living in your house !
It sounds like she is still living in your house !
Not necessarily so .... I am in a situ that is temporarily not good ....I share 2 properties with my ex who Is my Business partner and until the house has been finished refurbished and this cannot happen quick enough So any handy men out there ????
At Times we are at the same property but DO NOT have any connection Only financial and business I am actively seeking new love and romance and the BP is now ok with this as he now knows there is NO WAY back . we have been seperated over 2yrs so I gave it good time before I moved on....
sometimes circumstances dont allow you to just walk out but I plan to have a seperate life for sure VERY SOON
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Pocoloco44: We have all been through a break-up or we wouldn't be here, But Come On Man....she hasn't even left the house and your already trying to replace her, Has it occurred to you, that any woman reading this would actually think this is an ideal situation?
As many have said, handle your business first, get her moved out and situated, then take a litle time to let the dust settle and make sure you're not bringing baggage to a new relationship. I'm not sure anyone worth the time, would be interested in dating someone who still lives with his wife. You're asking alot from someone, most people understand, after a divorce everyone needs a little time, to think things over and get them selves together, before their ready to take on another relationship.
If you're not careful you're going to end up in a Rebound Love situation, where no one wins, only hearts are broken. Finally have a little Respect for (Her) and the Love once shared. Don't disrespect her like that, she's in another room and you're trying to find her replacement? That's Cold and shows no respect at all for the relationship once shared. Did she mean so little to you, for you to belittle her in a home you both share?
As many have said, handle your business first, get her moved out and situated, then take a litle time to let the dust settle and make sure you're not bringing baggage to a new relationship. I'm not sure anyone worth the time, would be interested in dating someone who still lives with his wife. You're asking alot from someone, most people understand, after a divorce everyone needs a little time, to think things over and get them selves together, before their ready to take on another relationship.
If you're not careful you're going to end up in a Rebound Love situation, where no one wins, only hearts are broken. Finally have a little Respect for (Her) and the Love once shared. Don't disrespect her like that, she's in another room and you're trying to find her replacement? That's Cold and shows no respect at all for the relationship once shared. Did she mean so little to you, for you to belittle her in a home you both share?
Good post
When we make ourselves vulnerable, we do open ourselves to pain, sometimes excruciating pain. The more people we love or think we love , the more we are liable to be hurt... But our souls do not grow if we insulate ourselves from pain. That's exactly what you are trying to do. There is no quick fix when it comes to matters of the heart. Have some respect for her and the love and relationship you two shared. Give yourself time. Another door always opens but only when one closes .
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rohaan: You need to clear the air first, get her settled in another home, (not just another room). You are not ready to find the right companion until you give yourself some down time from this one. Man, what a mess. You must fix it before you are ready, and then, for all the world, my friend, take your time--find someone who is going to be good to you and for you. Life is too wonderful, and, sadly, too short for you to accept a miserable situation. Incidentally, since it isn't working, why isn't she gone yet? That's a good question, you know. Get the act together, bud. Good Luck, for real-
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Englishman55: Can we help you find the woman you love ????
It sounds like she is still living in your house !
on the other hand..It sounds like she is still living in your house !
if its deffo over and he finds someone else surly the wife will know its realy time to find that bedsit!!!
im not sayi this women is bad or deserves such actions....
just ive held onto a relationship living in hope that things would change...
ended in 18mth of my life wasted...
but yeah....why she stil there if its done?????
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mickybwoy: on the other hand.. if its deffo over and he finds someone else surly the wife will know its realy time to find that bedsit!!!
im not sayi this women is bad or deserves such actions....
just ive held onto a relationship living in hope that things would change...
ended in 18mth of my life wasted...
but yeah....why she stil there if its done?????
im not sayi this women is bad or deserves such actions....
just ive held onto a relationship living in hope that things would change...
ended in 18mth of my life wasted...
but yeah....why she stil there if its done?????
I know where you coming from Micky..... I wasted 5 years of mine, but there were children to think of !
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Englishman55: I know where you coming from Micky..... I wasted 5 years of mine, but there were children to think of !
yep...got me too
but now my child has the best life ever
funny how life turns out eh
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mickybwoy: yep...got me too
but now my child has the best life ever
funny how life turns out eh
but now my child has the best life ever
funny how life turns out eh
True....life is so much better for my two now
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fallguy68: I am fairly new to this and I would love to honestly find that one woman that can take my heart and hold it with love. I am separated from my wife and the marriage hasn't been a marriage for some time. She is in the middle of finding a place of her own and she is staying in a different room until she does. I know it may sound funny but, I was with her for 8 years and I can't just throw her to the curb without a place to go. But the marriage is over or I wouldn't be on here. I'm just being open an honest about the situation I'm in.I thought she was the one but things happen and maybe someone is telling me that one special woman is still out there waiting for me. So can anyone help me find her?
Take some time between the end of the marriage and finding 'the one.' Otherwise, 'the one,' will be the one who was the getting over your wife one, and you will probably cause her a lot of pain. Why do you need to replace your wife so soon? While she is still in the same house with you? Reeks of neediness, insensitivity, inability to be on your own, obtuseness, and a whole lot of other things. Relax, meet some new people for friends, take some time before you jump into a serious relationship.
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As many have said, handle your business first, get her moved out and situated, then take a litle time to let the dust settle and make sure you're not bringing baggage to a new relationship. I'm not sure anyone worth the time, would be interested in dating someone who still lives with his wife. You're asking alot from someone, most people understand, after a divorce everyone needs a little time, to think things over and get them selves together, before their ready to take on another relationship.
If you're not careful you're going to end up in a Rebound Love situation, where no one wins, only hearts are broken. Finally have a little Respect for (Her) and the Love once shared. Don't disrespect her like that, she's in another room and you're trying to find her replacement? That's Cold and shows no respect at all for the relationship once shared. Did she mean so little to you, for you to belittle her in a home you both share?