bodleingGreater Manchester, England UK13,810 posts
redkayak: Guess what dude? You're still married, she lives in the same house and no woman wants to deal with that baggage....WTF, And quit whining, you're embarrassing the man card holders....
That's a sweeping statement, which in fact is not entirely true.
redkayak: Guess what dude? You're still married, she lives in the same house and no woman wants to deal with that baggage....WTF, And quit whining, you're embarrassing the man card holders....
^ This. 200% agreement with Mr. Kayak here.
You have a blessed heart for kindness to your soon to be ex, but you also need to go away and come back after the cord has been completely cut. She's gone, and the big D id a done deal.
That is nice that you would like to provide your soon to be ex wife your place to live. But please show her respect and if you really can't wait to meet someone else, why don't you find another place to live until she can. It would be disrespectful for you to be bringing home another woman when you are still married to her and she is living there. We don't know your wife's story. Maybe she is the one that needs help. But you should respect her and wait until you are divorced. I couldn't help a married man meet another woman.
hello2you2: That is nice that you would like to provide your soon to be ex wife your place to live. But please show her respect and if you really can't wait to meet someone else, why don't you find another place to live until she can. It would be disrespectful for you to be bringing home another woman when you are still married to her and she is living there. We don't know your wife's story. Maybe she is the one that needs help. But you should respect her and wait until you are divorced. I couldn't help a married man meet another woman.
Yes, to every story there are 3 sides - his side, her side, and the truth ! I wouldn't move in with someone where his wife still lives. It is no respect for her and if he does that to her, he might someday do it to me too.
Exactly EQUIYA, you are right and that is the point I am trying to make. FALLGUY68 can you ask your wife to post on here to your post? Can we please ask her to let us know why the marraige or her is not what your husband expected. I haven't read about the wife cheating or anything. Could it be the husband that is the problem? Already he is looking for another woman while he is married. He is already wanting to cheat on his wife. How does the wife feel about your husband bringing another woman home in front of you? We hope to read your wife's post soon. Please respect what Marriage is about FALLGUY68.
hello2you2: Exactly EQUIYA, you are right and that is the point I am trying to make. FALLGUY68 can you ask your wife to post on here to your post? Can we please ask her to let us know why the marraige or her is not what your husband expected. I haven't read about the wife cheating or anything. Could it be the husband that is the problem? Already he is looking for another woman while he is married. He is already wanting to cheat on his wife. How does the wife feel about your husband bringing another woman home in front of you? We hope to read your wife's post soon. Please respect what Marriage is about FALLGUY68.
Yes we don't know her side of the story and he claims the marriage is over. It may not be true. I met a guy once who told me she was not married, not true, the wife was in another country, waiting to join him in NY, and they had a 5 year old daughter. After 25 years she is still married to her, they live together now in NJ. They have even had a second child. The daughter is now an adult and has even given them a granddaughter. If the marriage is over, HE needs to move out and sort out his situation. Not go looking for another woman.
In response to: I am fairly new to this and I would love to honestly find that one woman that can take my heart and hold it with love. I am separated from my wife and the marriage hasn't been a marriage for some time. She is in the middle of finding a place of her own and she is staying in a different room until she does. I know it may sound funny but, I was with her for 8 years and I can't just throw her to the curb without a place to go. But the marriage is over or I wouldn't be on here. I'm just being open an honest about the situation I'm in.I thought she was the one but things happen and maybe someone is telling me that one special woman is still out there waiting for me. So can anyone help me find her?
Not everyone would be as nice as you are. It is hard in these times to find another place to live. I know I worked next to the Housing Authority for many years, so I see how people struggle to find some place to live.
Good luck on here. Hope you find what you are looking for. At least you are starting to go through the process of trying to move on, and someone will understand your situation. We all do what we have to, to survive in this world.
Kalimera: Do people realise that the OP has deleted his profile and isnt actually here?
That is too funny! Nope. I didn't know why it was kinda black...don't know that much about this site!! I just try to 'wing' it! Thanks for pointing it out!
equiya: I want to be rich? Where do you get that from? I never said that. I thought this was about a married man, claiming his marriage is over but still living with his wife in the same house and asking us to help him find another woman.
speanding the night to see whos under the marquiee? what a life we have? no one dying i hope! 7 men down! black, white or green? love you all! WE SHOULD BE IN CONTROL! steve i will meet you! in a bit
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That's a sweeping statement, which in fact is not entirely true.