What have you done for me lately ? ( Archived) (29)

Mar 19, 2010 11:01 AM CST What have you done for me lately ?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
I was thinking about this morning and thought it might be a good topic for a forum.
I am on my lunch break and can't stick around to see what happens, but here goes.

What are little things you can do to make that special person's day.
What are things you would love to see your special person do for you.
When is a good time to do these things ?

What have you done for me lately ??

Have a great day. (wave) ( this computer here ...the emotion thingies don't work ! ) ( very mad !! ) ( laugh )..
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Mar 19, 2010 12:25 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
Leave him loves notes on the bathroom mirror or place them in his briefcase.

Stop by the grocery store to buy the ingredients for one or two of his favorite dishes.


Surprise me with one of my favorite dishes.

A back rub or full body massage.
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Mar 19, 2010 12:30 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
love note,give him a back rub...a huge smile and a kiss...any time of the day or night
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Mar 19, 2010 12:32 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
I was 'cyber-dating' someone on here a while back. I'd mentioned to him that I forgot my lunch one day & he was going to call in a surprise order from all the way across the country to Pizza Hut & have them deliver it to my office. I thought that was really sweet. thumbs up
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Mar 19, 2010 12:59 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
It seems to me that these non-specific "little things" occur more-or-less spontaneously when the other person is,indeed,special.The particulars of what they involve may count for little.Sometimes they become symbolic.A gesture,or an abstraction.
Lately I have been sending old love songs to be opened for breakfast or after dinner.
They can only be assessed by the sender according to how they are percieved by the recipient.
Sardines might be met with a lack of enthusiasm.Or Daffodils could take on an enormous import.
One way to approach it: assign significance to something of no real value,but which is UNIQUE,that which no one else possesses-or would even care to.
A common wildflower.
A piece of quartz.
A bluejay feather.

or make it an action...

Cleaning the ice from a wind-shield.(worked for a friend of mine.He did it all one winter)
Making friends with the cat(tuna is a great help)
Facilitate any project if only by taking an interest in it.

More a matter of how you do it than what you do...maybe it's more about how you say it than what you say.
cool
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Mar 19, 2010 2:40 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
jeepers: I was thinking about this morning and thought it might be a good topic for a forum.
I am on my lunch break and can't stick around to see what happens, but here goes.

What are little things you can do to make that special person's day.
What are things you would love to see your special person do for you.
When is a good time to do these things ?

What have you done for me lately ??

Have a great day. (wave) ( this computer here ...the emotion thingies don't work ! ) ( very mad !! ) ( laugh )..


Aw, Jeeps. You are so nice to me that you always make me happy.teddybear
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Mar 19, 2010 2:54 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
trurorob
trurorobtrurorobAlicante, Valencia Spain1,741 Posts
demonfairy: love note,give him a back rub...a huge smile and a kiss...any time of the day or night
How come i missed that note then??
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Mar 19, 2010 2:58 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
OneKitty
OneKittyOneKittyLa Grande, Oregon USA56 Threads 4 Polls 1,351 Posts
sweetowen: I was 'cyber-dating' someone on here a while back. I'd mentioned to him that I forgot my lunch one day & he was going to call in a surprise order from all the way across the country to Pizza Hut & have them deliver it to my office. I thought that was really sweet.


awwwww.....
That IS sweet! smitten
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Mar 19, 2010 2:59 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
trurorob
trurorobtrurorobAlicante, Valencia Spain1,741 Posts
sweetowen: I was 'cyber-dating' someone on here a while back. I'd mentioned to him that I forgot my lunch one day & he was going to call in a surprise order from all the way across the country to Pizza Hut & have them deliver it to my office. I thought that was really sweet.
Did he know you dont like Pizza then??
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Mar 19, 2010 3:01 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
OneKitty
OneKittyOneKittyLa Grande, Oregon USA56 Threads 4 Polls 1,351 Posts
wonderworker: It seems to me that these non-specific "little things" occur more-or-less spontaneously when the other person is,indeed,special.The particulars of what they involve may count for little.Sometimes they become symbolic.A gesture,or an abstraction.
Lately I have been sending old love songs to be opened for breakfast or after dinner.
They can only be assessed by the sender according to how they are percieved by the recipient.
Sardines might be met with a lack of enthusiasm.Or Daffodils could take on an enormous import.
One way to approach it: assign significance to something of no real value,but which is UNIQUE,that which no one else possesses-or would even care to.
A common wildflower.
A piece of quartz.
A bluejay feather.

or make it an action...

Cleaning the ice from a wind-shield.(worked for a friend of mine.He did it all one winter)
Making friends with the cat(tuna is a great help)
Facilitate any project if only by taking an interest in it.

More a matter of how you do it than what you do...maybe it's more about how you say it than what you say.


Ya, if it's appreciated! I did all kinds of "nice" things and I'm not sure it was even noticed let alone appreciated. It was most certainly not recipicated. What happened? I have up. I gave the whole thing up.


Ahhh....in a perfect world....
(i.e., "if only...")
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Mar 19, 2010 3:02 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
OneKitty: awwwww.....
That IS sweet!


Yes it was. Unfortunately, he had a problem trying to use his credit card, but the thought was so nice!! Won me over... smitten

We're still good friends. wine
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Mar 19, 2010 3:02 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
trurorob: Did he know you dont like Pizza then??


I do like pizza... just not very crazy about Pizza Hut pizza... but it didn't matter... wink
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Mar 19, 2010 3:35 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
ladyfingers: Aw, Jeeps. You are so nice to me that you always make me happy.
Hey there ladyfingers...are you supposed to post this on the "what makes you happy" thread ? laugh

I glad you enjoy it. Is there any other way I can put a smile on your face this evening ma'am. wink
Have a nice evening, I am taking the mutt for a walk. wave

Have fun with the thread !! applause
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Mar 19, 2010 3:48 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
For them....

give them a massage in front of the roaring fire...
cook them something nice...
get their side of the bed warm on a cold night
let them have the TV remote for the night.laugh

for me....
Do foal watch for a night so I can get some sleep...yawn
Cook me something nice...
Give these aching shoulders and neck a massage...
laugh when I have a 'blonde moment'

good time to these....erm, now would be perfect...
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Mar 19, 2010 4:11 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
What have you done for me lately...typical all about ME ME ME syndrome...


I don't need anybody to do anything for me...I'm free.
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Mar 19, 2010 4:11 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2: What have you done for me lately...typical all about ME ME ME syndrome...I don't need anybody to do anything for me...I'm free.


syndrome statement...
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Mar 19, 2010 4:13 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
OneKitty
OneKittyOneKittyLa Grande, Oregon USA56 Threads 4 Polls 1,351 Posts
thewall2: syndrome statement...


laugh Funny!
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Mar 19, 2010 6:30 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
jeepers: I was thinking about this morning and thought it might be a good topic for a forum.
I am on my lunch break and can't stick around to see what happens, but here goes.

What are little things you can do to make that special person's day.
What are things you would love to see your special person do for you.
When is a good time to do these things ?

What have you done for me lately ??

Have a great day. (wave) ( this computer here ...the emotion thingies don't work ! ) ( very mad !! ) ( laugh )..



Good topic Jeeps!

There are many things you can do to make their day:
TELL the person how much they mean to you(verbal communication)
SHOW the person how much you appreciate them (actions speak louder than words)

There is nothing different I'd love for him to do than what he already does...
He is truly the most awesomely amazing guy ever! (Love you, Slim)

NEVER procrastinate! Don't take anyone for granted.

I encourage your photography at least once a week, if not more. And helped cheer you on in support when you quit smoking. So there!
tongue wave
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Mar 19, 2010 6:45 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
tarzan909
tarzan909tarzan909CC, Texas USA35 Posts
xxfrecklesxx: For them....

give them a massage in front of the roaring fire...
cook them something nice...
get their side of the bed warm on a cold night
let them have the TV remote for the night.

for me....
Do foal watch for a night so I can get some sleep...
Cook me something nice...
Give these aching shoulders and neck a massage...
laugh when I have a 'blonde moment'

good time to these....erm, now would be perfect...


TV....Throw it out the window!!! The rest sounds like a fair trade!grin
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Mar 19, 2010 6:47 PM CST What have you done for me lately ?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
hopefloats: Good topic Jeeps!

There are many things you can do to make their day:
TELL the person how much they mean to you(verbal communication)
SHOW the person how much you appreciate them (actions speak louder than words)

There is nothing different I'd love for him to do than what he already does...
He is truly the most awesomely amazing guy ever! (Love you, Slim)

NEVER procrastinate! Don't take anyone for granted.

I encourage your photography at least once a week, if not more. And helped cheer you on in support when you quit smoking. So there!


hug


tongue Thanks hf
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