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Mar 20, 2010 10:23 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
Blues63
Blues63Blues63Brisbane, Queensland Australia6 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
Big_John: I agree with you on this one Solsticemoon. I see many times someone new comes into the Threads and post something and the general mood of the Thread gets attacked. I don't know why! I think so many people are not used to someone expressing their emotions in public so they believe it couldn't be real. Sometimes they probably are real and just different then the majority of us.

Just because it is different shouldn't make it wrong.


I agree, after all, it IS a dating site, not Salem.handshake
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Mar 20, 2010 10:25 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
Blues63: People respond to various posts based on their own perspective moulded by their own individual collection of experiences. Some truly make my eyes pop (yes, Robert, moreso than usual). But I feel that generalisations are bandied about recklessly and they can be quite harmful. Just because in X's past, Y behaved in a similar fashion doesn't necessarily mean that Q is of a similar personality. If that makes any sense. Always hated Algebra.


don't you want to keep it linear?hug
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Mar 20, 2010 10:26 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
solsticemoon: Oh Bj..( that seems kinda wrong somehow )..yet again you make perfect sense!


Now that I have said that let me present you with some flower to match your beautiful eyes.....

bouquet heart wings
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Mar 20, 2010 10:26 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
wave flirty teddybear hey sweets blushing
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Mar 20, 2010 10:27 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
^ @ 45
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Mar 20, 2010 10:28 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
solsticemoon: yeh and we all keep our emotions close to our chest..but really does anyone deserve to be slated so much?...


No-one deserves to be slated.......

On the other hand each and everyone has a right to be heard, even if the voice is saying something we may not like to hear. Yet, those who spoke against such beliefs were turned on by others, in a sense it was equal on both sides of the discussion.

Not all women like sentiments such as those professed, I would have to included myself in that. I feel it is more of a personal issue than something that can be used as a blanket to conver all. I left the rose tinted glasses at the door of CS through expereince,and I even left some of my cynism behind with them. There are more like me in herelaugh And some have exspressed themselves rightly sodunno

The threads you are referring to are heart warminng, yet, for me, it doesnt become real until you are with actually are with someone.
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Mar 20, 2010 10:28 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
elsson
elssonelssonLondon, Greater London, England UK24 Threads 1,864 Posts
Big_John: Now that I have said that let me present you with some flower to match your beautiful eyes.....


Yeah, sure, you were looking at her eyesrolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 20, 2010 10:29 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
elsson: I am not slating anybody just offering an opinion to your question and my answers are not directed at any individual just offering a general opinion.
wave hullo cutie!kiss
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Mar 20, 2010 10:30 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
elsson
elssonelssonLondon, Greater London, England UK24 Threads 1,864 Posts
felixis99: hullo cutie!


Now you are a woman I would give individual compliments to blushing
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Mar 20, 2010 10:30 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
TurkishDelight: No-one deserves to be slated.......

On the other hand each and everyone has a right to be heard, even if the voice is saying something we may not like to hear. Yet, those who spoke against such beliefs were turned on by others, in a sense it was equal on both sides of the discussion.

Not all women like sentiments such as those professed, I would have to included myself in that. I feel it is more of a personal issue than something that can be used as a blanket to conver all. I left the rose tinted glasses at the door of CS through expereince,and I even left some of my cynism behind with them. There are more like me in here And some have exspressed themselves rightly so

The threads you are referring to are heart warminng, yet, for me, it doesnt become real until you are with actually are with someone.
thumbs up thumbs up

I have nothing to add. well said
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Mar 20, 2010 10:32 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
elsson: Yeah, sure, you were looking at her eyes


See my sincere compliment is being attacked!!!! Are those eyes in the middle of her chest? If not, why do I keep looking there? head banger
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Mar 20, 2010 10:34 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada31 Threads 2,419 Posts
elsson: I think I understand

The mods changed me back....c'mon mods I was having a lot of fun...party poopers!!!!!!
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Mar 20, 2010 10:34 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
Blues63
Blues63Blues63Brisbane, Queensland Australia6 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
felixis99: don't you want to keep it linear?


Good idea confused hug bouquet
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Mar 20, 2010 10:37 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
elsson: Now you are a woman I would give individual compliments to
danke schoen in the truest sense of the word!

How are things in England? Do you have a really cute accent baby?blushing
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Mar 20, 2010 10:38 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
solsticemoon
solsticemoonsolsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 Posts
TurkishDelight: No-one deserves to be slated.......

On the other hand each and everyone has a right to be heard, even if the voice is saying something we may not like to hear. Yet, those who spoke against such beliefs were turned on by others, in a sense it was equal on both sides of the discussion.

Not all women like sentiments such as those professed, I would have to included myself in that. I feel it is more of a personal issue than something that can be used as a blanket to conver all. I left the rose tinted glasses at the door of CS through expereince,and I even left some of my cynism behind with them. There are more like me in here And some have exspressed themselves rightly so

The threads you are referring to are heart warminng, yet, for me, it doesnt become real until you are with actually are with someone.


Actually..well said!cheering
yes we read stuff and make up our minds instantly..but what if the guy is actually being genuine..have we become so jaded we dimiss real sentiment without a second glance?..or are we just protecting ourselves..either way, if this is the case maybe we are the ultimate losers?....should we not be a little more open in listening to what people have to say?
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Mar 20, 2010 10:38 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
Blues63: Good idea
hellooooooooo

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Mar 20, 2010 10:40 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
solsticemoon
solsticemoonsolsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 Posts
felixis99: danke schoen in the truest sense of the word!

How are things in England? Do you have a really cute accent baby?


No he doesnt..hes a true scouser thru n thru n if you can understand him you do better than me!!!!rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 20, 2010 10:42 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
elsson
elssonelssonLondon, Greater London, England UK24 Threads 1,864 Posts
felixis99: danke schoen in the truest sense of the word!

How are things in England? Do you have a really cute accent baby?


Well not sure if cute but it is one that even other english people dont understand
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Mar 20, 2010 10:44 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
elsson: Well not sure if cute but it is one that even other english people dont understand
pray tell daddy?

where are you from?comfort
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Mar 20, 2010 10:45 PM CST Jaded and Cynical
solsticemoon: No he doesnt..hes a true scouser thru n thru n if you can understand him you do better than me!!!!
scouser eh? that doesn't sound good?dunno he's cuter than heck tho solsticesmitten
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