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I'm single because I have chosen this for now. I have not had a date since December. I had a GF last year from December to May, but I took that as long as I could take it and it was not a good match for me.
From 06-08 I was in a perfect relationship and I really had my soulmate. However, the woman was 37 and had no kids. She really wanted one. I already have two kids who are still pretty young and I was not ready to have another kid at the time. So I had to let her go so she could be with some man who wanted a kid with her. She has one now and I am happy for her.
In any case, I notice people bicker here and make some claim that we single ones are miserable because somehow being single has been bestowed on us because we are evil people or something.
I just wanted to say that I enjoy being single. It gets lonely at times, but it's better than being in something that is not fun or even going on a fury of dates. I can wait for that. I had my fury of weekend romances last summer during baseball season. I guess when I'm ready, I'll be ready. I like my individual freedom right now and I need some extra time for myself.
So that is why I am here, in these forums. To hang out, have a solid discussion, smile a bit, tell people how wrong they are lol, and of course flirt around a bit---innocently of course. I'm into short distance relationships and I don't have the heart of a LDR, but anything is possible if the wind is right.