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Apr 14, 2010 1:20 PM CST does he like me?
Kezia1974
Kezia1974Kezia1974bridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados6 Threads 14 Posts
How do we know if a guy really like us?
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Apr 14, 2010 4:41 PM CST does he like me?
boredinpalermo
boredinpalermoboredinpalermopalermo, Sicilia Italy2 Threads 11 Posts
In response to: How do we know if a guy really like us?


Ciao Carina, I always find that initially giving them an indication that yes I would like to see them again and then backing off and waiting....acting not overly interested in whether they call or not (I never call or text in the early days when things are just starting out) but doing my own thing and not being available all the time is oneway to find out. Men like the chase. You become way more interesting to them if you are independent, confident and not clinging on to seeing them. If they do not make the effort and call or pursue then they are not interested.

Hope this helps...all the way from Sicily. lips baci
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Apr 14, 2010 4:44 PM CST does he like me?
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
Kezia1974: How do we know if a guy really like us?



Ask him...
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Apr 14, 2010 4:45 PM CST does he like me?
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
Olsojente: Ask him...


straight to the point grin
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Apr 14, 2010 4:46 PM CST does he like me?
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
boredinpalermo: Ciao Carina, I always find that initially giving them an indication that yes I would like to see them again and then backing off and waiting....acting not overly interested in whether they call or not (I never call or text in the early days when things are just starting out) but doing my own thing and not being available all the time is oneway to find out. Men like the chase. You become way more interesting to them if you are independent, confident and not clinging on to seeing them. If they do not make the effort and call or pursue then they are not interested.

Hope this helps...all the way from Sicily. baci



That would work if you were 16!doh How about honesty without the game playing?
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Apr 14, 2010 4:47 PM CST does he like me?
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
lushguy4you: straight to the point



Well, why ask me... ???



dunno laugh
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Apr 14, 2010 5:10 PM CST does he like me?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
They get a chubby grin devil
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Apr 14, 2010 5:14 PM CST does he like me?
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
boredinpalermo: Ciao Carina, I always find that initially giving them an indication that yes I would like to see them again and then backing off and waiting....acting not overly interested in whether they call or not (I never call or text in the early days when things are just starting out) but doing my own thing and not being available all the time is oneway to find out. Men like the chase. You become way more interesting to them if you are independent, confident and not clinging on to seeing them. If they do not make the effort and call or pursue then they are not interested.

Hope this helps...all the way from Sicily. baci

Rubbish.... don't need to play stupid games.....

If guy really likes you, you will know.

If a guy just wants to get you in the sack you will know that also, but there is a big difference in what he will say and do to let you know either or !
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Apr 14, 2010 5:15 PM CST does he like me?
Kezia1974: How do we know if a guy really like us?

He lets you drive his car.
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Apr 14, 2010 5:15 PM CST does he like me?
bassman67
bassman67bassman67culver, Oregon USA2 Threads 9 Posts
Godsgift: That would work if you were 16! How about honesty without the game playing?
I totally agree! any man that is looking for someone real will take the time and appriciate your values!
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Apr 14, 2010 8:49 PM CST does he like me?
Godsgift: That would work if you were 16! How about honesty without the game playing?
it's not game playing - it's a matter of dignity. Nice girls do NOT chase boys. If a man is interested he will call, and remember we're talking about the early stages here. Later after you've been together for awhile that is different.

I know it sounds old fashioned and cliche - ish but IME - nothing else works - For me, the times I did take the chance & call 1st at his request - or call first early on - things didn't work out

probably because that mode goes against my upbringing so I 'm too far out of my comfort zone there
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Apr 14, 2010 8:50 PM CST does he like me?
greenbouy: He lets you drive his car.
no
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Apr 14, 2010 8:51 PM CST does he like me?
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
Kezia1974: How do we know if a guy really like us?
he'll give your best friend a note to pass to you during gym class....uh oh
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Apr 14, 2010 8:52 PM CST does he like me?
Englishman55: Rubbish.... don't need to play stupid games.....

If guy really likes you, you will know.

If a guy just wants to get you in the sack you will know that also, but there is a big difference in what he will say and do to let you know either or !


can you enlighten me on that last sentence. IME men will say - ANYTHING - to get laid - so I hear them saying the same things that the "good guys" say only we find out after- too late- that he was lying (whereas, had he been one of the good guys he would not have been lying)
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Apr 14, 2010 8:52 PM CST does he like me?
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
Englishman55: Rubbish.... don't need to play stupid games.....

If guy really likes you, you will know.

If a guy just wants to get you in the sack you will know that also, but there is a big difference in what he will say and do to let you know either or !
thumbs up plain and simple we can make things way to hard
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Apr 14, 2010 8:54 PM CST does he like me?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
Remember when you were a kid,passing notes...do you like me,check yes or no rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing devil
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Apr 14, 2010 10:54 PM CST does he like me?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
They try to talk to you, call you, take you out, get to know you, in other words, they take an initiative to be closer to you. bouquet
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Apr 14, 2010 10:56 PM CST does he like me?
lee001
lee001lee001manahawkin, New Jersey USA10 Threads 682 Posts
venusenvy: They get a chubby



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing





But not for long..moping
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Apr 14, 2010 10:57 PM CST does he like me?
denmcintyre
denmcintyredenmcintyrewest melbourne, Florida USA10 Threads 1,106 Posts
venusenvy: They get a chubby
rolling on the floor laughing i like herdancing
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Apr 14, 2010 10:58 PM CST does he like me?
laura139
laura139laura139Broomfield, Colorado USA11 Threads 1 Polls 668 Posts
calmheartseeks: They try to talk to you, call you, take you out, get to know you, in other words, they take an initiative to be closer to you.


but that's always temporary--they don't really mean it, it's just a ploy to make you feel special at the moment...I'm getting tired of the b.s.rolling on the floor laughing
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