Guys, If a Girl Is Not Attracted To You (142)
Despite my earlier crack, I don't expose myself to this situation, as I've never bothered a lady unless I'm getting obvious signals. 
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My only suggestion to this Thread is if you are on the receiving end of this news don't keep asking why? If you do she will probably tell you the truth and you really won't be able to handle the hard facts. Most egos are not design for a full body blow!!!!
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Blues63: Despite my earlier crack, I don't expose myself to this situation, as I've never bothered a lady unless I'm getting obvious signals.
I'm the same, it is like gate crashing a party without an invitation......
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bob1959: EssJay: "I would say..." You are a nice guy,but I felt no connection with you. I wish you all the best in finding what you are looking for"
no need to hurt anyones feelings...."
That's not bad!
no need to hurt anyones feelings...."
That's not bad!
Totally agree.
Whatever you do, don't ignore them hoping they'll go away.
Mike.
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In response to: How should she tell you that you are not for her without hurting your feeling?
Just after I left school I went out with one of the nicest guys Ive ever met.
I was very uncomfortable about telling him the truth -- that he bored me to death.
I didnt -- so I lied.
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Blues63: Despite my earlier crack, I don't expose myself to this situation, as I've never bothered a lady unless I'm getting obvious signals.
running outta signals here
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Ocee35: I prefer it simple and direct.
Don't bother with a bunch of pointless details
"I'm never getting naked with you, ever."
handles it just fine.
Don't bother with a bunch of pointless details
"I'm never getting naked with you, ever."
handles it just fine.
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LoveMovies: How should she tell you that you are not for her without hurting your feeling?
Due to childhood trauma, a terminal disease, various STDs, and the fact that I'm probably a lesbian, I feel, despite your obvious and nearly overwhelming charms and dashing good-looks that it would be a gross travesty of justice and a possibly horrific violation of karma for me to be with you. I wish to holy god this weren't the case.
I think I could live with that.
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Good idea, btw, Love! 
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RDM59: Well then, tell him you are incompatible because he is too big.
At least he will go away with a smile on his face ......
At least he will go away with a smile on his face ......
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EssJay: I would say..." You are a nice guy,but I felt no connection with you. I wish you all the best in finding what you are looking for"
no need to hurt anyones feelings....
I like that one. To the point, but not hurtful.no need to hurt anyones feelings....
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You're welcome. 
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Blues63: Don't say, "What? You've got a head like a smashed crab!"
That ones hurts.
That must be an Australian saying. I never heard that one before. That ones hurts.
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Ambrose2007: Due to childhood trauma, a terminal disease, various STDs, and the fact that I'm probably a lesbian, I feel, despite your obvious and nearly overwhelming charms and dashing good-looks that it would be a gross travesty of justice and a possibly horrific violation of karma for me to be with you. I wish to holy god this weren't the case.
I think I could live with that.
I think I could live with that.
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RDM59: I'm the same, it is like gate crashing a party without an invitation......
I could use a lesson. My friends actually make fun of me because I totally miss the signals. 
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Analie: Just after I left school I went out with one of the nicest guys Ive ever met.
I was very uncomfortable about telling him the truth -- that he bored me to death.
I didnt -- so I lied.
And the world didn't come to an end.I was very uncomfortable about telling him the truth -- that he bored me to death.
I didnt -- so I lied.
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bob1959: I could use a lesson. My friends actually make fun of me because I totally miss the signals.
I don't blame you. I'm not good about giving out signals. My sister said that I need to learn how to flirt. When I guy at me looks at me I tend to look away. I feel uncomfortable staring, but if he was to wait a second or two he might be surprised. I do look back if I'm interested. 
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LoveMovies: I don't blame you. I'm not good about giving out signals. My sister said that I need to learn how to flirt. When a guy looks at me I tend to look away. I feel uncomfortable staring, but if he was to wait a second or two he might be surprised. I do look back if I'm interested.
Sorry, haven't had my coffee yet.
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LoveMovies: I don't blame you. I'm not good about giving out signals. My sister said that I need to learn how to flirt. When I guy at me looks at me I tend to look away. I feel uncomfortable staring, but if he was to wait a second or two he might be surprised. I do look back if I'm interested.
Oh boy! I look away too, and don't look back....at least not for a while. Can you imagine us in the same room interested in each other? It would be like a comedy routine!------ This thread is Archived ------
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...OK I agree and if that doesn't work tell them you have just discovered the gay person inside and are coming out of the closet