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ssololos angeles, California USA1 Threads 29 PostsWhat is it with viewers who send an e mail or flower or messege with JUST: "hi"? That tells me NOTHING. AND it's pretty lame. I tend not to answer those. Does anyone else feel the same way? Why are men so lame---shouldn't they be more take charge?
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ssolo: What is it with viewers who send an e mail or flower or messege with JUST: "hi"? That tells me NOTHING. AND it's pretty lame. I tend not to answer those. Does anyone else feel the same way? Why are men so lame---shouldn't they be more take charge?
I get those from the women as well. I disregard them usually. Maybe they want to draw your attention to their profile
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MovinFWD: I get those from the women as well. I disregard them usually. Maybe they want to draw your attention to their profile
well, in that case, then why don't they just come out and say what they want? whyare people so wishy-washy? they can't just be truthful and straight-forward and say what they feel and want---seems all people do is play games. come on...we ARE adults, afterall.
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Maybe they're shy and don't really
know what to say at first.
Men aren't lame.
know what to say at first.
Men aren't lame.
In response to: What is it with viewers who send an e mail or flower or messege with JUST: "hi"? That tells me NOTHING. AND it's pretty lame. I tend not to answer those. Does anyone else feel the same way? Why are men so lame---shouldn't they be more take charge?
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ssolo: well, in that case, then why don't they just come out and say what they want? whyare people so wishy-washy? they can't just be truthful and straight-forward and say what they feel and want---seems all people do is play games. come on...we ARE adults, afterall.
We're men! You know what we want!
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Godsgift: We're men! You know what we want!
Ha ha ha---true, very true....
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Godsgift: We're men! You know what we want!
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ssolo: well, in that case, then why don't they just come out and say what they want? whyare people so wishy-washy? they can't just be truthful and straight-forward and say what they feel and want---seems all people do is play games. come on...we ARE adults, afterall.
Not everyone will share the same attitude as you with regards to how you think people are so wishy washy. People use this site for many different reasons, genuine or not, some use it to wind others up in the forums, many are actively seeking a partner or just friends, or here for the forums. One cannot pass judgement on others when in real life we live in a world full of different characters, it is the same on here in terms of personality. You just have to bide your time, jump in the forums, many different folk there. If we were all the same it would be a very boring place to be. And this is a big adults playground.
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ssolo: well, in that case, then why don't they just come out and say what they want? whyare people so wishy-washy? they can't just be truthful and straight-forward and say what they feel and want---seems all people do is play games. come on...we ARE adults, afterall.
Ok...I want you!!!
Waits for incoming rejection....
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mbcasey: Ok...I want you!!!
Waits for incoming rejection....
Awe...now who would reject a sweetie like youWaits for incoming rejection....
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cincity: Awe...now who would reject a sweetie like you
I may hold the CS record for being rejected...
But I persevere!!!
(at least until the record is officially broken)
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Haven't you ever heard that you had me at "Hello"? Sometimes you just need to know the other person exist. We are all different and different approachs appeal to some and not all.
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mbcasey: I may hold the CS record for being rejected...
But I persevere!!!
(at least until the record is officially broken)
But I persevere!!!
(at least until the record is officially broken)
I don't believe that at all..
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when someone sends a message thats just says hi - i send one back saying hi - it doesnt hurt to say hi back and it takes very little time - its usually just an ice breaker i think - so to me i dont really see a problem with it. just because we are online doesnt mean everyone loses their shyness. i think some are still not wanting to be rejected but still want to at least well say "hi" 
and see if they get a response
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gemeh22: when someone sends a message thats just says hi - i send one back saying hi - it doesnt hurt to say hi back and it takes very little time - its usually just an ice breaker i think - so to me i dont really see a problem with it. just because we are online doesnt mean everyone loses their shyness. i think some are still not wanting to be rejected but still want to at least well say "hi" and see if they get a response
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gemeh22: when someone sends a message thats just says hi - i send one back saying hi - it doesnt hurt to say hi back and it takes very little time - its usually just an ice breaker i think - so to me i dont really see a problem with it. just because we are online doesnt mean everyone loses their shyness. i think some are still not wanting to be rejected but still want to at least well say "hi" and see if they get a response
yeah
i think this op is so mean (that means original post not poster
)i mean sheesh that guy is the guy courageous enuf to send something
maybe thats all someone can muster at first
have none of us ever felt that way
criminy how crushing
anyone who has such high "standards" for anothers behavior even at a beginning, man
poor fools are better off without them
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ssolo: What is it with viewers who send an e mail or flower or messege with JUST: "hi"? That tells me NOTHING. AND it's pretty lame. I tend not to answer those. Does anyone else feel the same way? Why are men so lame---shouldn't they be more take charge?
i've gotten a few "lame" emails like that too.....
and NO, they were'nt from men...
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gemeh22: when someone sends a message thats just says hi - i send one back saying hi - it doesnt hurt to say hi back and it takes very little time - its usually just an ice breaker i think - so to me i dont really see a problem with it. just because we are online doesnt mean everyone loses their shyness. i think some are still not wanting to be rejected but still want to at least well say "hi" and see if they get a response
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