sweetlyscented1: Hey guys I have been reading these forum topics.. and I dont get it at all
If you guys have found young philippino wives and they are so amazing and LOVE you so much for YOU, when why on earth are you bothering here?? why are do you care what us single people here think of your relationship or these kind of relationships?? why arnt you just getting on with your NEW lives and getting married and living happily ever after
I know If I claimed to have found this amazing life, I definately wouldnt be bothered to be arguing with people on a singles forum about IF its right or not.....its YOUR life so WHO cares what anyone things.......GET ON WITH IT.
I dont normally speak up but........hell what allot of carry on....
GOOD LUCK to you all I hope its all you dream about and these relationships work out to build happiness for all invloved.
Cheers Deb
not sure that this was directed toward me.. as I have only stated that I have a friend who is Filipina and i have stated repeatedly that i disagree with the other thread that claimed that foreign brides are better, I simply posted to wish a friend well and congratulate him on finding love...as for this thread, it was a result of some things that were posted on another thread..
phoenixrising2OPnotrh, British Columbia Canada162 posts
sweetlyscented1: Hey guys I have been reading these forum topics.. and I dont get it at all
If you guys have found young philippino wives and they are so amazing and LOVE you so much for YOU, when why on earth are you bothering here?? why are do you care what us single people here think of your relationship or these kind of relationships?? why arnt you just getting on with your NEW lives and getting married and living happily ever after
I know If I claimed to have found this amazing life, I definately wouldnt be bothered to be arguing with people on a singles forum about IF its right or not.....its YOUR life so WHO cares what anyone things.......GET ON WITH IT.
I dont normally speak up but........hell what allot of carry on....
GOOD LUCK to you all I hope its all you dream about and these relationships work out to build happiness for all invloved.
Cheers Deb
ok thanks for that....i will be a member here till i die...im not just connecting to find a lover but a friend too
and she is my girlfriend...lol
but the question still stands.....how do some girls here profess to marry for love....bt s.e.asian wonan ...they claim....mary only for money.....now anyone who knows me knows i can not let that go unchallanged
summer_2009Paradise Lost, Central Visayas Philippines230 posts
phoenixrising2: IN ANOTHER THREAD RUNNING ....SEVERAL PEOPLE HAVE STATED CLEARLY THAT ASIAN WOMAN ONLY MARRY FOR MONEY OR EXIT VISA...
HOW IS THIS? .....SUCH A GENERALIZATION
AND WESTERN WOMAN ,, SOME CLAIM IN THIS THREAD .. MARRY FOR LOVE?......
BUT HOW CAN YOU SAY SUCH A THING?...i quote!
hi k! still troubled huh!
i believe this does not apply to women only but also to MEN? but that is out of the topic.
i feel ashamed every time this topic is brought up since I am from SE Asia BUT there are good women in Asia too who are capable of loving someone without the money..people don't generalize! Investigate first before jumping to conclusions..We all both know that it is a reality ANYWHERE in the world..
Like to quote this.."instead of condemning people, let's try to understand them..let's try to figure out why they do what they do. That is a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism as it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness..to know all is to forgive all"
phoenixrising2OPnotrh, British Columbia Canada162 posts
summer_2009: hi k! still troubled huh!
i believe this does not apply to women only but also to MEN? but that is out of the topic.
i feel ashamed every time this topic is brought up since I am from SE Asia BUT there are good women in Asia too who are capable of loving someone without the money..people don't generalize! Investigate first before jumping to conclusions..We all both know that it is a reality ANYWHERE in the world..
Like to quote this.."instead of condemning people, let's try to understand them..let's try to figure out why they do what they do. That is a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism as it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness..to know all is to forgive all"
hi summer....i admire you so much....and your work is very interesting...and your so smart
summer ...anyone who knows me knows i can not put up with this kind of nonsence....we all want something!...
where i live it is a culture of booze and drugs..so its easy to get what you want from many woman with booze....i have a large wineroom and made it for decades..
some will give a man what he wants for drug money...some for rice...some for love....that is why i went to filipines in the first place....LOL...to reject the culture surrounding me...
like most members here i am looking for trueheart and love and do not waist my time with people who are prone to drugs and booze... my baby does not smoke or drink...not even wine with me..lol she is happy with a little rice and dried fish...and my hugs and kisses...happy am i..hehehe
but for the poster to say she will marry for love and asian woman only mary for money is an outright provacation
kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam2,003 posts
phoenixrising2: IN ANOTHER THREAD RUNNING ....SEVERAL PEOPLE HAVE STATED CLEARLY THAT ASIAN WOMAN ONLY MARRY FOR MONEY OR EXIT VISA...
HOW IS THIS? .....SUCH A GENERALIZATION
AND WESTERN WOMAN ,, SOME CLAIM IN THIS THREAD .. MARRY FOR LOVE?......
BUT HOW CAN YOU SAY SUCH A THING?...i quote!
And its not just asian but I also have south american friends. Same dealio. They marry the guy for his money ONLY!!!! Dont think any different no matter how "nice" they act. I know what they say in private.......
Welllllllllllll I am foreign!!!! But from almost the same culture as america. Though most american men find me "different" in a nice way. I dont go for people because of their money, prestige, or what it can "get me". I dont put on "airs"...I am not fake to get what I want, call me crazy for this. I marry for love.....only. A foriegn bride will be gone like a bat out of Hell as soon as she can maintain citizenship without you.
Call it what you want, political correctness if you like but do you think Asian woman are not capable for marrying for love. Pull the political correctness card on me if you so desire but I tend to keep an open minded correctness.
NOW... I LOVE TO EXPOSE THE CLASH OF CULTURES....but this is not the clash of the cultures.....its assination
I know that i will not have enough beautiful english words to write against your criticized words on SE asian woman by using your mother language, but i also like to write here my thoughts on your posting:
I dont feel something wrong or ashamed if some of SE asian women get married with guy for money, citizenship, that is their life & their choice, no one's interest will be same as other's interest. Of course, there is also some of SE asia women will marry guy for love, for both love and money, citizenship,....
I feel laughing as why the SE asian is thought bad like that way, the white guy still want to marry her and dont marry with other good woman who just want to marry for love only. Why u dont think SE asian woman get married with white man because he always willingly give her all his heart with all his love.
And finally I feel unfair for us when several people's posting here to say that only SE asian women marry guy for money & citizenship... as i think this can be also applied for both genders (male & female) and for all 5 continent's people as the good one and the bad one are mixed in all over the world.
kcuc0574: --------------------------------------------------- I know that i will not have enough beautiful english words to write against your criticized words on SE asian woman by using your mother language, but i also like to write here my thoughts on your posting:
I dont feel something wrong or ashamed if some of SE asian women get married with guy for money, citizenship, that is their life & their choice, no one's interest will be same as other's interest. Of course, there is also some of SE asia women will marry guy for love, for both love and money, citizenship,....
I feel laughing as why the SE asian is thought bad like that way, the white guy still want to marry her and dont marry with other good woman who just want to marry for love only. Why u dont think SE asian woman get married with white man because he always willingly give her all his heart with all his love.
And finally I feel unfair for us when several people's posting here to say that only SE asian women marry guy for money & citizenship... as i think this can be also applied for both genders (male & female) and for all 5 continent's people as the good one and the bad one are mixed in all over the world.
I think you did a very nice job expressing yourself
phoenixrising2OPnotrh, British Columbia Canada162 posts
kcuc0574: --------------------------------------------------- I know that i will not have enough beautiful english words to write against your criticized words on SE asian woman by using your mother language, but i also like to write here my thoughts on your posting:
I dont feel something wrong or ashamed if some of SE asian women get married with guy for money, citizenship, that is their life & their choice, no one's interest will be same as other's interest. Of course, there is also some of SE asia women will marry guy for love, for both love and money, citizenship,....
I feel laughing as why the SE asian is thought bad like that way, the white guy still want to marry her and dont marry with other good woman who just want to marry for love only. Why u dont think SE asian woman get married with white man because he always willingly give her all his heart with all his love.
And finally I feel unfair for us when several people's posting here to say that only SE asian women marry guy for money & citizenship... as i think this can be also applied for both genders (male & female) and for all 5 continent's people as the good one and the bad one are mixed in all over the world.
Have been to many countries in SE Asia, I have a friend in JKT Indonesia, she is a Lady and I wondered if she was after the big ticket because she thought I was the man for her, Her family is extremely wealthy and to make a long story short she ended up getting married to a guy perfect for her, I was happy for her and ended the friendship as I was not sure how I would fit into because there are many differences in Culture...
I know it is quite the game over in SE Asia in general as the Asian culture is geared in Class and meaning how much loot you have and there is alot of greed over there, there is however some good ones over there...
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No they dont......