tainogirl: Don't people marry for all sorts of reasons? Good and Bad? I've seem both men and women go after cash? I don't know that there is any specific culture that ONLY marries for money, on the other hand if the person is coming from an improvished country and you are a foreigner of some means, then knowing this you take your chances, I'm sure there could be room for LOVING YOU AS WELL AS YOUR MONEY.
Pixels1London, Greater London, England UK755 posts
phoenixrising2: IN ANOTHER THREAD RUNNING ....SEVERAL PEOPLE HAVE STATED CLEARLY THAT ASIAN WOMAN ONLY MARRY FOR MONEY OR EXIT VISA...
HOW IS THIS? .....SUCH A GENERALIZATION
AND WESTERN WOMAN ,, SOME CLAIM IN THIS THREAD .. MARRY FOR LOVE?......
BUT HOW CAN YOU SAY SUCH A THING?...i quote!
And its not just asian but I also have south american friends. Same dealio. They marry the guy for his money ONLY!!!! Dont think any different no matter how "nice" they act. I know what they say in private.......
Welllllllllllll I am foreign!!!! But from almost the same culture as america. Though most american men find me "different" in a nice way. I dont go for people because of their money, prestige, or what it can "get me". I dont put on "airs"...I am not fake to get what I want, call me crazy for this. I marry for love.....only. A foriegn bride will be gone like a bat out of Hell as soon as she can maintain citizenship without you.
Call it what you want, political correctness if you like but do you think Asian woman are not capable for marrying for love. Pull the political correctness card on me if you so desire but I tend to keep an open minded correctness.
NOW... I LOVE TO EXPOSE THE CLASH OF CULTURES....but this is not the clash of the cultures.....its assination
Well...it would be nice to think people marry for love but it is also true independent people no longer need to marry for economic reasons. I have sympathy for people who are in a situation they wish to change, but respect them more for being honest about it from the beginning than trying to pretend and convince you otherwise and then wham ...I want to marry you or money to stay in your country. This applies every where in the world.
Pixels1: Well...it would be nice to think people marry for love but it is also true independent people no longer need to marry for economic reasons. I have sympathy for people who are in a situation they wish to change, but respect them more for being honest about it from the beginning than trying to pretend and convince you otherwise and then wham ...I want to marry you or money to stay in your country. This applies every where in the world.
That’s very true, and just because of certain persons does, and bad previous personal experiences they had coz of their own decision in the past, so they got fooled for money, 1 continent/ 2 races get bashed for “money oriented title”.. I have sympathy for those independent persons who stand with pride & have a life, being accused for meal ticket/citizenship grabber for some unreasonable thoughts.. from narrow minded head.. yet.. the brain works their ways each head.. so… it is ones right to have any kind of thoughts.. It does happen all over the world..
a friend of mine marriad a millionairess. she wasnt a nice person! id rather wake up with someone i love and find attractive, rather than some girl with money and nothing in common with me! it doesnt matter where a person is from, thers got to be that spark!
jimmyl: a friend of mine marriad a millionairess. she wasnt a nice person! id rather wake up with someone i love and find attractive, rather than some girl with money and nothing in common with me! it doesnt matter where a person is from, thers got to be that spark!
So so.. true.. true.. I agree !! spark that comes from the click.. not just a piece of meat.. its built amazing feelings that even millionaire can not buy.. Poor.. for those people who think everything just about money..
can you open your mind just _ this little and see for yourself if South east asian women and South american women only marry because of money.. how many women have you met yet?
Angler: So so.. true.. true.. I agree !! spark that comes from the click.. not just a piece of meat.. its built amazing feelings that even millionaire can not buy.. Poor.. for those people who think everything just about money..
it is always nice to have money, but it isnt everything!
it would be no good having a billion pound if we had unteatable cancer!
sorry, ill stop being morbid lol! the suns out, and in durham thats a rarety so ill enjoy my day!
Jack68: I think you are talking about they marry to get residence permit in US but most asian mens go to EU and US and they pay some woman not all money accordind to the paper marriage agreement between them for getting residency
On the contrary here in Japan, most asian women pay some Jmen to gain residency status.
tatami: On the contrary here in Japan, most asian women pay some Jmen to gain residency status.
I am agreed with you because japan is a big economic power in the world and men and womens from poor nation some of them used this method to get residency but i have seen many old swedish men bring young wives from thailand and philpine to bring happiness in their life.They also know that they will leave them once they received permanent residence at most in a three year time but they need some one to be near them or company.
I thought he was already with an asian woman...yet he still writing to another and telling her romantic things?
Have I got that right?
You are not the only one!!!
Have we not had the same threads a few months ago before the S.E. Asia trip? I don't know about everyone else but I am thouroughly fed up listening to this s^%$.
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Whew...glad someone is in the confused corner with me.