phoenixrising2: IN ANOTHER THREAD RUNNING ....SEVERAL PEOPLE HAVE STATED CLEARLY THAT ASIAN WOMAN ONLY MARRY FOR MONEY OR EXIT VISA...
HOW IS THIS? .....SUCH A GENERALIZATION
AND WESTERN WOMAN ,, SOME CLAIM IN THIS THREAD .. MARRY FOR LOVE?......
BUT HOW CAN YOU SAY SUCH A THING?...i quote!
And its not just asian but I also have south american friends. Same dealio. They marry the guy for his money ONLY!!!! Dont think any different no matter how "nice" they act. I know what they say in private.......
Welllllllllllll I am foreign!!!! But from almost the same culture as america. Though most american men find me "different" in a nice way. I dont go for people because of their money, prestige, or what it can "get me". I dont put on "airs"...I am not fake to get what I want, call me crazy for this. I marry for love.....only. A foriegn bride will be gone like a bat out of Hell as soon as she can maintain citizenship without you.
Call it what you want, political correctness if you like but do you think Asian woman are not capable for marrying for love. Pull the political correctness card on me if you so desire but I tend to keep an open minded correctness.
NOW... I LOVE TO EXPOSE THE CLASH OF CULTURES....but this is not the clash of the cultures.....its assination
Have you noticed the respect that asian women have for their spouse .... I havn`t seen that in the western world
phoenixrising2OPnotrh, British Columbia Canada162 posts
denmcintyre: I think that the majority of people on this site are good and honest people and are happy for those who find love.. but there will always be a few miserable souls who feel it is their lot in life to make the rest of the world miserable with them... I say, step over or around them and be thankful for the friends who wish you well and are happy for you...
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
denmcintyre: no sweetie not at all..it was just an observation based on behavior I have noticed from a few people on here..Nope, I think you are pretty amazing
Glad to hear it. Actually I think people need to stop coming here as if they are seeking permission to get involved with who they want to. You want to marry an Asian lady- then marry one, you want to marry American - then marry one. What I find pathetic are people who will marry foreign BECAUSE they expect to be pampered like a baby that needs a diaper change every few seconds or complaining that they were used as a meal ticket when all the clear signs were there. Women are not the only ones who contribute to how a culture behaves, men contribute too so if you find a certain culture of women behaving a certain way whose fault is that? There is good and bad in EVERY CULTURE. Men marry from whatever culture you wish and get on with it without having to resort to generalized degrading of other women.
sideshowbob: POT KETTLE BLACK, look at what you have written, do you expect and respect that all Asian woman according to 'you' are expected to show respect.
Nice picture by the way and great guitar--'play it again Sam'
No one wants to talk about it....
but lets face it.... Men are tired from the ... uuuh I need attention...uuuh you never take me anywhere... I need new shoes... make your own dinner.... honey the toilet seat ... honey... I have to have a girls night out, you watch the kids
elssonLondon, Greater London, England UK1,864 posts
sideshowbob: POT KETTLE BLACK, look at what you have written, do you expect and respect that all Asian woman according to 'you' are expected to show respect.
Nice picture by the way and great guitar--'play it again Sam'
Sorry but have to say that both genders should be expected to show respect in a relationship so his post is valid in my opinion.
tainogirl: Glad to hear it. Actually I think people need to stop coming here as if they are seeking permission to get involved with who they want to. You want to marry an Asian lady- then marry one, you want to marry American - then marry one. What I find pathetic are people who will marry foreign BECAUSE they expect to be pampered like a baby that needs a diaper change every few seconds or complaining that they were used as a meal ticket when all the clear signs were there. Women are not the only ones who contribute to how a culture behaves, men contribute too so if you find a certain culture of women behaving a certain way whose fault is that? There is good and bad in EVERY CULTURE. Men marry from whatever culture you wish and get on with it without having to resort to generalized degrading of other women.
I for one could not agree more, and this is directed at the OP of that other sickening thread.. I have a problem with anyone who is quick to judge a person based solely on their ethnic background.. there are also many women in SE Asia and other countries who are very independent.. Personally, I like a woman who has opinions of her own and is willing to share them.. to you Taino, I think you summed it all up in one post
phoenixrising2OPnotrh, British Columbia Canada162 posts
denmcintyre: I for one could not agree more, and this is directed at the OP of that other sickening thread.. I have a problem with anyone who is quick to judge a person based solely on their ethnic background.. there are also many women in SE Asia and other countries who are very independent.. Personally, I like a woman who has opinions of her own and is willing to share them.. to you Taino, I think you summed it all up in one post
sideshowbob1st house on the left, Tasman New Zealand337 posts
elsson: Sorry but have to say that both genders should be expected to show respect in a relationship so his post is valid in my opinion.
Why can't we all just get along, I promise that if you agree with me I'll vote on your side...... Cameronite , Bring back Blair coz I miss a bit of bush, I'm desperate
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
Boban1: No one wants to talk about it....
but lets face it.... Men are tired from the ... uuuh I need attention...uuuh you never take me anywhere... I need new shoes... make your own dinner.... honey the toilet seat ... honey... I have to have a girls night out, you watch the kids
in other words.... Men have stopped to be Men
Does being a man mean: She doesn't need any attention from you? Many women are incapable of buying their OWN shoes. You can't make your own dinner sometimes? You are incapable of turning down the toilet seat? Only you are entitled to a guys night out? Only SHE should watch the kids?
Men don't stop being men until they give away their bat and balls.
elssonLondon, Greater London, England UK1,864 posts
sideshowbob: Why can't we all just get along, I promise that if you agree with me I'll vote on your side...... Cameronite , Bring back Blair coz I miss a bit of bush, I'm desperate
To be honest SSB I wouldn't vote for any of them, all pretty much the same old crap. I am voting for Mayor West.
tainogirl: Does being a man mean: She doesn't need any attention from you? she will get attention when I punish her Many women are incapable of buying their OWN shoes. one pair every three years You can't make your own dinner sometimes?Men don`t cook You are incapable of turning down the toilet seat?I can piss even when its down Only you are entitled to a guys night out? yes Only SHE should watch the kids? who els???
Men don't stop being men until they give away their bat and balls.
its impossible to have two dominant figures in the same house
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HOW IS THIS? .....SUCH A GENERALIZATION
AND WESTERN WOMAN ,, SOME CLAIM IN THIS THREAD .. MARRY FOR LOVE?......
BUT HOW CAN YOU SAY SUCH A THING?...i quote!
And its not just asian but I also have south american friends. Same dealio. They marry the guy for his money ONLY!!!! Dont think any different no matter how "nice" they act. I know what they say in private.......
Welllllllllllll I am foreign!!!! But from almost the same culture as america. Though most american men find me "different" in a nice way. I dont go for people because of their money, prestige, or what it can "get me". I dont put on "airs"...I am not fake to get what I want, call me crazy for this. I marry for love.....only.
A foriegn bride will be gone like a bat out of Hell as soon as she can maintain citizenship without you.
Call it what you want, political correctness if you like but do you think Asian woman are not capable for marrying for love. Pull the political correctness card on me if you so desire but I tend to keep an open minded correctness.
NOW... I LOVE TO EXPOSE THE CLASH OF CULTURES....but this is not the clash of the cultures.....its assination
Have you noticed the respect that asian women have for their spouse .... I havn`t seen that in the western world