DannyCGNOPBerlin/Frankfurt am Main, Berlin Germany20 posts
Should we tell a white lie to those we love ,to those who trust us of all? Should we lie, not for personal gain, but because we believe it's for the good of the person we're lying to? Should we lie to our children on money or marital matters? Should we lie to the dying about the state of their health? Should we lie to our closestfriend because the truth about her talents or son or psyche whoud be--or so they insist--utterly devastating? ............ Should we?
DannyCGN: Should we tell a white lie to those we love ,to those who trust us of all? Should we lie, not for personal gain, but because we believe it's for the good of the person we're lying to? Should we lie to our children on money or marital matters? Should we lie to the dying about the state of their health? Should we lie to our closestfriend because the truth about her talents or son or psyche whoud be--or so they insist--utterly devastating? ............ Should we?
On average every person lies 7 times a day, 6 of which are white lies.
DannyCGN: Should we tell a white lie to those we love ,to those who trust us of all? Should we lie, not for personal gain, but because we believe it's for the good of the person we're lying to? Should we lie to our children on money or marital matters? Should we lie to the dying about the state of their health? Should we lie to our closestfriend because the truth about her talents or son or psyche whoud be--or so they insist--utterly devastating? ............ Should we?
Yes...am not going to go into the whys of this ....but EVERYONE lies it is needed in everyones lives everyday.... a lie is a lie period....white, black or whatever we have to lie to live in this world ...and this is not a lie....
I think an outright lie can come back to bite you. However, I believe there's a lot to be said for applying tact and compassion to sensitive situations.
DannyCGN: Should we tell a white lie to those we love ,to those who trust us of all? Should we lie, not for personal gain, but because we believe it's for the good of the person we're lying to? Should we lie to our children on money or marital matters? Should we lie to the dying about the state of their health? Should we lie to our closestfriend because the truth about her talents or son or psyche whoud be--or so they insist--utterly devastating? ............ Should we?
People tell white little lies all the time... no harm in it if you know the boundaries between white little lies and a LIE.
DannyCGN: ...Should we lie to our children on money or marital matters? Should we lie to the dying about the state of their health? Should we lie to our closestfriend because the truth about her talents or son or psyche whoud be--or so they insist--utterly devastating? ............ Should we?
opentuit: I think an outright lie can come back to bite you. However, I believe there's a lot to be said for applying tact and compassion to sensitive situations.
You believe in lying, in other words... WOW, a woman who admits it! That's why it's raining here!
I don't tell little white lies. I do believe in "Gentle Truth."
For example if a person has a hideous hairstyle and they ask me if I like it, I do my best to find something positive to say without lieing. You can almost always find something positive to say on most everything, no matter how small.
Example: " WOW! This is certainly a good time of the year for a short hair cut. You will stay really cool. Can you believe it was over 100 degrees yesterday" (subject changed cleverly)
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............ Should we?