White lies ( Archived) (40)

May 5, 2010 7:37 AM CST White lies
DannyCGN
DannyCGNDannyCGNBerlin/Frankfurt am Main, Berlin Germany3 Threads 20 Posts
Should we tell a white lie to those we love ,to those who trust us of all? Should we lie, not for personal gain, but because we believe it's for the good of the person we're lying to? Should we lie to our children on money or marital matters? Should we lie to the dying about the state of their health? Should we lie to our closestfriend because the truth about her talents or son or psyche whoud be--or so they insist--utterly devastating?
............ Should we? confused
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May 5, 2010 7:40 AM CST White lies
rizlared
rizlaredrizlaredNot in Cebu City, Central Visayas Philippines89 Threads 2 Polls 5,588 Posts
DannyCGN: Should we tell a white lie to those we love ,to those who trust us of all? Should we lie, not for personal gain, but because we believe it's for the good of the person we're lying to? Should we lie to our children on money or marital matters? Should we lie to the dying about the state of their health? Should we lie to our closestfriend because the truth about her talents or son or psyche whoud be--or so they insist--utterly devastating?
............ Should we?


On average every person lies 7 times a day, 6 of which are white lies.

According to my English teaching text booklaugh
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May 5, 2010 7:41 AM CST White lies
davpk10
davpk10davpk10somewhere, New York USA23 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
DannyCGN: Should we tell a white lie to those we love ,to those who trust us of all? Should we lie, not for personal gain, but because we believe it's for the good of the person we're lying to? Should we lie to our children on money or marital matters? Should we lie to the dying about the state of their health? Should we lie to our closestfriend because the truth about her talents or son or psyche whoud be--or so they insist--utterly devastating?
............ Should we?
Yes...am not going to go into the whys of this ....but EVERYONE lies it is needed in everyones lives everyday.... a lie is a lie period....white, black or whatever we have to lie to live in this world ...and this is not a lie....wink
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May 5, 2010 7:42 AM CST White lies
steve6610
steve6610steve6610Goolwa, South Australia Australia2,184 Posts
rizlared: On average every person lies 7 times a day, 6 of which are white lies.

According to my English teaching text book



all except me I dont lie at all not once liar laugh
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May 5, 2010 7:45 AM CST White lies
opentuit
opentuitopentuitKnoxville, Tennessee USA14 Threads 2 Polls 2,014 Posts
I think an outright lie can come back to bite you. However, I believe there's a lot to be said for applying tact and compassion to sensitive situations.
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May 5, 2010 7:46 AM CST White lies
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
DannyCGN: Should we tell a white lie to those we love ,to those who trust us of all? Should we lie, not for personal gain, but because we believe it's for the good of the person we're lying to? Should we lie to our children on money or marital matters? Should we lie to the dying about the state of their health? Should we lie to our closestfriend because the truth about her talents or son or psyche whoud be--or so they insist--utterly devastating?
............ Should we?


People tell white little lies all the time... no harm in it if you know the boundaries between white little lies and a LIE.


DannyCGN:
...Should we lie to our children on money or marital matters? Should we lie to the dying about the state of their health? Should we lie to our closestfriend because the truth about her talents or son or psyche whoud be--or so they insist--utterly devastating?
............ Should we?


That you cannot do even if you wanted to.
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May 5, 2010 7:49 AM CST White lies
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
If white lies are OK....how about a white lie with spots....huh....huh.....how bout it? dunno
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May 5, 2010 7:52 AM CST White lies
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
I think one of my problems is that I don't lie enough. I could avoid a lot of headaches if I lied more I think. angel
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May 5, 2010 7:55 AM CST White lies
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
I think it boils down to intent.
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May 5, 2010 7:57 AM CST White lies
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
opentuit: I think an outright lie can come back to bite you. However, I believe there's a lot to be said for applying tact and compassion to sensitive situations.


You believe in lying, in other words... WOW, a woman who admits it! That's why it's raining here!laugh
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May 5, 2010 8:02 AM CST White lies
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: I think it boils down to intent.


in a nutshell - yes.
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May 5, 2010 8:06 AM CST White lies
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Laura25: in a nutshell - yes.
Well! I'm the kinda nut that would know!grin
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May 5, 2010 8:06 AM CST White lies
DeeDee610
DeeDee610DeeDee610North Eastern, Pennsylvania USA1 Threads 88 Posts
I don't tell little white lies. I do believe in "Gentle Truth."

For example if a person has a hideous hairstyle and they ask me if I like it, I do my best to find something positive to say without lieing. You can almost always find something positive to say on most everything, no matter how small.

Example: " WOW! This is certainly a good time of the year for a short hair cut. You will stay really cool. Can you believe it was over 100 degrees yesterday" (subject changed cleverly)

head banger
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May 5, 2010 8:08 AM CST White lies
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
A white lie is generally without deceit or intention
to decieve.

Sometimes necesary to lift a persons spirit.


peace
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May 5, 2010 8:11 AM CST White lies
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
True story! A woman asked my father about her new hat (wierd,ugly)

and my father said,

"You know. Anyone who likes that kind of hat.....thats the one to have."

and she left there so Happy!
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May 5, 2010 8:12 AM CST White lies
opentuit
opentuitopentuitKnoxville, Tennessee USA14 Threads 2 Polls 2,014 Posts
Grandepensees: You believe in lying, in other words... WOW, a woman who admits it! That's why it's raining here!


wave
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May 5, 2010 8:13 AM CST White lies
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: True story! A woman asked my father about her new hat (wierd,ugly)

and my father said,

"You know. Anyone who likes that kind of hat.....thats the one to have."

and she left there so Happy!



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Women are so easy to please! rolling on the floor laughing devil
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May 5, 2010 8:14 AM CST White lies
opentuit
opentuitopentuitKnoxville, Tennessee USA14 Threads 2 Polls 2,014 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: True story! A woman asked my father about her new hat (wierd,ugly)

and my father said,

"You know. Anyone who likes that kind of hat.....thats the one to have."

and she left there so Happy!



WOW-- your father is the MASTER of diplomacy!!! handshake
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May 5, 2010 8:17 AM CST White lies
DannyCGN
DannyCGNDannyCGNBerlin/Frankfurt am Main, Berlin Germany3 Threads 20 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: True story! A woman asked my father about her new hat (wierd,ugly)

and my father said,

"You know. Anyone who likes that kind of hat.....thats the one to have."

and she left there so Happy!


Great role mode for you cheers
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May 5, 2010 8:17 AM CST White lies
DannyCGN
DannyCGNDannyCGNBerlin/Frankfurt am Main, Berlin Germany3 Threads 20 Posts
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