I think that the most broken thing in my life would be my heart, but I am sure that you experience that with losing your children in divorce and the divorce in general.
I think the most broken thing in my life right at this moment is also one of the most proud moments of my life too. My oldest son joined the National Guard today...SO my thoughts are going crazy...
The most broken thing i have right now is my heart...within that heart is the loss of a happy home..my children, the uncertainty of a future...all those things and more...all within one broken heart..
To feel broken emotionaly, spiritualy and all loss of dignity. I've experienced it twice. The first time due to alcoholisme and the second time due to an abusive spouse. But it has made me the person I am today. Strong and comfertable where i am in my life.
Ive been there in the abusive relationship part of it.. it breaks you down piece by piece...But Im right there with you when you say its made you the person you are today. I agree. Its done the same for me missy
Tis' your heart when you look at what life deals you.. that is the thing that is most broken... here are some reasons why it is the heart that is most broken-
Failing relationship (yea intimate) Failing Friendships (on line, and in real life) Deaths of people we love Deaths of loved pets Screwing up at work etc....
The one thing we can count on is CONTINUALLY HEALING/ RECOVERING our hearts, and growing from what we have felt.. sharing the data, of the emotion, and the experience.. to help eachother learn.
My dear, breath in and breath out, each and every moment .. think each time you breath just for a second... now be thankful that you will never have to be broken emotionally that many times in life.
You will heal... I send you hugs and kisses from the far North.
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The most broken thing for this Dad is losing a child in divorce.