Why do Nice Guys never get the woman (221)
jac379: I've been accused of being mumsy on the blogs before, so I nipped off into the garage for a roll-up and a cuppa and had a little think about this one. I've come up with a few mumsy traits:
1. Accepting people for whatever stage of development they are at;
2. Encouraging people to move on and grow when they are ready to do so and in the direction that they want to go in;
3. Creating boundaries whilst being open to change when the need arises;
4. Acknowledging that learning works both ways;
5. Expecting to be listened to, but never forgetting to listen;
6. Resolving conflict;
7. Knowing when to be there for someone, but knowing when you need time for yourself.
Is that mumsy, or is it what you would do in any relationship, be it children, friends, family, or lovers?
Whad'ya think?
Jac xxx
1. Accepting people for whatever stage of development they are at;
2. Encouraging people to move on and grow when they are ready to do so and in the direction that they want to go in;
3. Creating boundaries whilst being open to change when the need arises;
4. Acknowledging that learning works both ways;
5. Expecting to be listened to, but never forgetting to listen;
6. Resolving conflict;
7. Knowing when to be there for someone, but knowing when you need time for yourself.
Is that mumsy, or is it what you would do in any relationship, be it children, friends, family, or lovers?
Whad'ya think?
Jac xxx
Not mumsy at all, But something we should all strive to learn and live by.
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Englishman55: I think there was something in that roll-up you were smoking in the garage !
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because nice guys normally are poor or at least not
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davpk10: because nice guys normally are poor or at least not wealthy...
Oh lord, not that old chestnut, again, davpk.
NNNNNOOOOO!!!!!
Jac xxx
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Englishman55: I think there was something in that roll-up you were smoking in the garage !
Golly, that would be awfully unmumsy!
Jac xxx
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jac379: Oh lord, not that old chestnut, again, davpk.
NNNNNOOOOO!!!!!
Jac xxx
Or, to give it the Latin name (in Welsh)NNNNNOOOOO!!!!!
Jac xxx
Aesculus hippocastanum
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jac379: Oh lord, not that old chestnut, again, davpk.
NNNNNOOOOO!!!!!
Jac xxx
It was a bit "tounge in cheek" with a bit of truth thrown in for the hell of it...NNNNNOOOOO!!!!!
Jac xxx
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Englishman55: Or, to give it the Latin name (in Welsh)
Aesculus hippocastanum
Aesculus hippocastanum
What can I say? Nuts on the mind.
Jac xxx
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jac379: What can I say? Nuts on the mind.
Jac xxx
Jac xxx
It's when you have them on your chin, that your mind might start working
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davpk10: It was a bit "tounge in cheek" with a bit of truth thrown in for the hell of it...
Ah well, count me out. Not on my list of priorities. Besides, growing your own (tomatoes) is cheaper.
Jac xxx
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venusenvy: Ya well, chicks already know this about men. Is this a revelation to you or something?
Know what, exactly?
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Englishman55: It's when you have them on your chin, that your mind might start working
D'ya know what, Saesneg? For once you've left me lost for words.
Jac xxx
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jac379: D'ya know what, Saesneg? For once you've left me lost for words.
Jac xxx
oooops..... sorry Jac xxx
I did wonder if it was a little O.T.T. when I posted it 
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CherryBlossom73: I have the answer for you. Nice guys are not nice. They are insecure and lame, placid. Otherwise they'd be like the rest of em. Men are men, plain and simple.
Thats the only piece of that post that I would agree with, personally!
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DodgeBabe: Thats the only piece of that post that I would agree with, personally!
Well, it was a pretty obvious statement to make.... "Men are men"
wow.... what a revelation.Does that mean...... Women are women ?
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Englishman55: oooops..... sorry I did wonder if it was a little O.T.T. when I posted it
No worries, my friend, I'm not in the slightest bit offended. Revel in a minor victory - you got me to shut my mouth.
Tee hee hee.
Jac xxx
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Englishman55: Well, it was a pretty obvious statement to make....
"Men are men" wow.... what a revelation.
Does that mean...... Women are women ?
"Men are men" wow.... what a revelation.
Does that mean...... Women are women ?
Well goodness sakes I hope so, I wouldnt want it any other way
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1. Accepting people for whatever stage of development they are at;
2. Encouraging people to move on and grow when they are ready to do so and in the direction that they want to go in;
3. Creating boundaries whilst being open to change when the need arises;
4. Acknowledging that learning works both ways;
5. Expecting to be listened to, but never forgetting to listen;
6. Resolving conflict;
7. Knowing when to be there for someone, but knowing when you need time for yourself.
Is that mumsy, or is it what you would do in any relationship, be it children, friends, family, or lovers?
Whad'ya think?
Jac xxx