Why do Nice Guys never get the woman ( Archived) (221)

Jun 9, 2010 5:52 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
jac379: Errr...and the Latin for horse chestnut tree is?

Jac xxx

Castagno ??? dunno
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Jun 9, 2010 5:53 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
sweetlyscented1: ooooohh love it when you talk french like that

flights to Italy...
mange tout laugh laugh
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Jun 9, 2010 5:58 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
sweetlyscented1: I can be sweet, but does being a nurturing person mean your mumsy?? cause maybe I am at times.... cant help myself I guess


I'm non the wiser than you are sweetly. Quite frankly, I don't give a toss. I can't say I'm short of attention on this site, so I must be doing something right.

Happen I'm mumsy and some men like that, happen I'm not and some men like that. I'll be damned if I'm gonna try and fit into somebody else's categorization, or change anything about myself unless I'm being a pratt.

Nah, scrap that, I quite like being a pratt.

Jac xxx
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Jun 9, 2010 5:58 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
puppypower: im still trying to work out how it is that quite a few posters on this thread seem to equate bad with abusive

pp


Perhaps some are not taking due care and attention to separate the two words and define in what context they can be used.

Could do another thread on that one.
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Jun 9, 2010 5:58 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
sweetlyscented1: I can be sweet, but does being a nurturing person mean your mumsy?? cause maybe I am at times.... cant help myself I guess


I don't know you, therefore, could not comment.

It is fine to be supportive, even nurturing, as you put it, but it is totally not good if the line is crossed, and she becomes more like a surrogate mother.

handshake
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Jun 9, 2010 6:04 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Dknew: Aesculus hippocastanum :)


One point to Dknew.

For a bonus point can you say it in a Welsh accent?

Jac xxx
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Jun 9, 2010 6:07 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
jac379: One point to Dknew.

For a bonus point can you say it in a Welsh accent?

Jac xxx
Yes... of course......

Aesculus hippocastanum

How was that.... perfect eh ? boogie
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Jun 9, 2010 6:07 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
jac379: I'm non the wiser than you are sweetly. Quite frankly, I don't give a toss. I can't say I'm short of attention on this site, so I must be doing something right.

Happen I'm mumsy and some men like that, happen I'm not and some men like that. I'll be damned if I'm gonna try and fit into somebody else's categorization, or change anything about myself unless I'm being a pratt.

Nah, scrap that, I quite like being a pratt.

Jac xxx
thumbs up in the words of popeye I yam who I yams....applause
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Jun 9, 2010 6:09 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
Englishman55: Yes... of course......

Aesculus hippocastanum

How was that.... perfect eh ?
confused I think I lost in this one moping
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Jun 9, 2010 6:11 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
jac379: One point to Dknew.

For a bonus point can you say it in a Welsh accent?

Jac xxx



I wish laugh
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Jun 9, 2010 6:12 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
sweetlyscented1: I think I lost in this one
You're still a winner to me kiss bouquet
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Jun 9, 2010 6:15 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
Dknew: I wish


But, Can I have my mate from Cardiff say it for me ? laugh
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Jun 9, 2010 6:19 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
Englishman55: You're still a winner to me
mmmm YOU always make me smile grin smitten

Now I just need you to pack up your little suit case, get on a bus to the airport, wait in a que, then board the plane hand over your boarding pass, walking up those stairs, sit in your set, eat n drink and watch the in flight movie..and sleep a little (if you can)chat to the person next to you, then land in SYDNEY AUSTRALIA, stand up gather your things, walk down those stairs and into Sydney International terminal at Mascot,get your luggage from turnstiles, wait in more que's to get through customs, then walk out into the terminal and THERE WILL BE ME grin all sounds so simple now dosent it rolling on the floor laughing


doh heart beating teddybear
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Jun 9, 2010 6:21 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Dknew: But, Can I have my mate from Cardiff say it for me ?


Nah, Saesneg said it perfectly and gets the bonus point. Sorry, Dknew...

Jac xxx
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Jun 9, 2010 6:22 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
sweetlyscented1: mmmm YOU always make me smile

Now I just need you to pack up your little suit case, get on a bus to the airport, wait in a que, then board the plane hand over your boarding pass, walking up those stairs, sit in your set, eat n drink and watch the in flight movie..and sleep a little (if you can)chat to the person next to you, then land in SYDNEY AUSTRALIA, stand up gather your things, walk down those stairs and into Sydney International terminal at Mascot,get your luggage from turnstiles, wait in more que's to get through customs, then walk out into the terminal and THERE WILL BE ME all sounds so simple now dosent it
Piece if cake batting
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Jun 9, 2010 6:24 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
jac379: Nah, Saesneg said it perfectly and gets the bonus point. Sorry, Dknew...

Jac xxx




well maybe next time laugh
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Jun 9, 2010 6:29 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
sweetlyscented1
sweetlyscented1sweetlyscented1Gosford, New South Wales Australia60 Threads 1 Polls 3,060 Posts
Englishman55: Piece if cake
rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up
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Jun 9, 2010 6:38 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
sweetlyscented1: I can be sweet, but does being a nurturing person mean your mumsy?? cause maybe I am at times.... cant help myself I guess


I've been accused of being mumsy on the blogs before, so I nipped off into the garage for a roll-up and a cuppa and had a little think about this one. I've come up with a few mumsy traits:

1. Accepting people for whatever stage of development they are at;

2. Encouraging people to move on and grow when they are ready to do so and in the direction that they want to go in;

3. Creating boundaries whilst being open to change when the need arises;

4. Acknowledging that learning works both ways;

5. Expecting to be listened to, but never forgetting to listen;

6. Resolving conflict;

7. Knowing when to be there for someone, but knowing when you need time for yourself.

Is that mumsy, or is it what you would do in any relationship, be it children, friends, family, or lovers?

Whad'ya think?

Jac xxx
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Jun 9, 2010 6:38 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
Baddabing66: Thru the years I notice alot of guys never get the woman because they are to nice.


Well if all the women are with guys who aren't nice (bad boys) and the divorce rate being so high then it means that they are divorcing said bad boys - which leaves an opening for all those 'nice' guys out there. See you can get the girl after all.wine
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Jun 9, 2010 6:40 PM CST Why do Nice Guys never get the woman
davpk10
davpk10davpk10somewhere, New York USA23 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
because nice guys normally are poor or at least not wealthy...professor
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