mbcasey: Very happy for you. Do you have a sister???
Thank you!! No sister, but quite a few cousins in the Carolina area... not sure who's currently single ...but will let you know if I find out anyone is
scoutmaster: It is amazing how no woman will admit that money is a big factor in choosing a mate but a very high percentage of men get know that it is.
I once signed up on a different dating sight that profile matching and I was honest in my profile, they did a nation wide surch and found only two matched, one if denver and the other in florida, since I live in Washington state that didnt work. I then did an experiment and changed my income to over 80,000 a year, suddenly I had over 800 matches in this state alone.
Kind of tells you something.
Yes... money is a huge part of life. And I'm sure part of that 800 was looking for money alone. But I think I'd have to find out a lot more info before concluding that looking for a man with that kind of income is selfish or unreasonable. Personally, I've Never dated a man who had an income that high... but I've also never lived in Washington State, which has a much higher cost of living than the states I've lived in. Anyway, best of luck in your search for a good-hearted woman... they do exist...
Heck no..... .....i will never ever settle with those people who are bragging thier wealth and cars..... ......THAT WAS A BIG TURN OFF FOR ME....
In fact that was the main reason why I turned down some men becoz the moment they told me that i have to accept them becoz they are rich and they have everything i can enjoy in life, i told myself, HECK NOOOOOOOOOOOO........i wont settle down with someone who is rich but NO LOVE AT ALL....HECK NOOOOOOO...... ....
And so, the moment i heard that i quickly did this>>>>>>> .... .....hahhahha.... ... ... ....Becoz first of all , IM NOT A MATERIALISTIC PERSON, IM HAPPY TO BUY THINGS FROM MY HARD WORK.....
Awww Babe. Please tell me me tou are not after me just because I am poor. If that is what it takes I will stay poor just to be with you.
scoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA1,100 posts
SCatlyn: Yes... money is a huge part of life. And I'm sure part of that 800 was looking for money alone. But I think I'd have to find out a lot more info before concluding that looking for a man with that kind of income is selfish or unreasonable. Personally, I've Never dated a man who had an income that high... but I've also never lived in Washington State, which has a much higher cost of living than the states I've lived in. Anyway, best of luck in your search for a good-hearted woman... they do exist...
thanks and I actualy have come across a few good hearted women, unfortunately they have all been married.
swordfish44: Not all women are high maintenance... hire a bike to meet up with them and take them for a meal at MacDonalds and you'll know straight away if they're genuinely interested in you or not!!
yes, i wouldn't see any problem with this plan, and it certainly wouldn't put me off a man if he....
collected me on an old bike drove us safely to macdonalds bought us both a happy meal and whatever shared a stimulating conversation went for a walk to extend the conversation brought me back safely on the bike to my home
how i would judge the date...did we smile or laugh a lot? if the answers yes, then i would be happy to spend more time and get to know this person better. being nice and having fun costs nothing....
Ironically, I have a couple of nice cars (one being a jaguar XK8), and earn a couple hundred thousand euros a year. It has made no difference to meeting women. The ones I meet say they aren't into money (until it comes to divorce then that's what it's all about - funny that). I have been told am tall, dark and handsome, funny and a nice personally. I volunteer at the local dog shelter, give to charity. So I am not all about the money or cars,or about myself, but still?
I have a joke that I usually tell " Did you know it took 5 years for the movie with Mel Gidson, " What women want" to be made"? They couldn't make up their minds
Heck no..... .....i will never ever settle with those people who are bragging thier wealth and cars..... ......THAT WAS A BIG TURN OFF FOR ME.... It's so good to be broke.
In response to: how come you find a very good man which all of you are looking for. however if the car and cash is not there. the good honest man now means nothing to you ?
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Thank you!! No sister, but quite a few cousins in the Carolina area... not sure who's currently single ...but will let you know if I find out anyone is