tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
bradlee1: how come you find a very good man which all of you are looking for. however if the car and cash is not there. the good honest man now means nothing to you ?
So are you saying that men don't care about cars or the amount of cash in their wallets?
trulee01: I have a '79 bike and thin wallet. My girl loves me for me as I for her. If you think all woman are shallow and after money I see your challenge. Good luck.
i think i will get me a 1000 cc bike it might do the trick
BoyracerBMW: Women definitely date me for my car.....they take the car, and I stay home and watch TV.
Aww...Not me...if I dated you, it would be for the same reason I date anyone else... similar interests, personality, etc. Definitely not for someone's car(tho I might like driving it with the guy beside me if it was a type I'd never driven). Instead I'd watch TV w/you... and sometimes like going for a walk hand in hand together
ladyfingers: I think that if guys worked on their personalities rather than worry about their cash, they might have more luck. JMO
I have to agree....
After viewing many pics of men on dating sites, the majority of them are pictured with their cars, boats, big homes, etc...who or what are they trying to attract?
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
Did somebody just love you for your car,your wallet in the past?Or did they make you feel that way.But not all men/woman are looking for things...things come and go over the years,but love is special,its what we all are searching for,to be loved for ourself,to except us for who and what we are and not try to change us.
leostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa1,685 posts
Well, in all honesty, a good, honest man is great. But why can't we also have a good, honest man who is successful? Although I don't measure success purely on a man's material wealth, there are certain attributes like ambition that I find attractive. I've been poor and now I'm doing ok. I certainly don't fancy 'keeping' a guy. Why should I? I'd rather that we both contribute towards our lifestyle.
bradlee1: how come you find a very good man which all of you are looking for. however if the car and cash is not there. the good honest man now means nothing to you ?
I dont covert a rich man, but I want a financial secure man.
Thats not being a gold digger; thats being sensible.
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
2intrigued: I have to agree....
After viewing many pics of men on dating sites, the majority of them are pictured with their cars, boats, big homes, etc...who or what are they trying to attract?
Exactly, I've seen some where the CAR or BIKE was the main profile pic! Then the cries of why won't she just love me for me?
After viewing many pics of men on dating sites, the majority of them are pictured with their cars, boats, big homes, etc...who or what are they trying to attract?
not all of us by the way, i wish i had money to worry about actually that stuff never really mattered to me, aside from earning a living, hopefully a comfortible one, alowing for nice things maybe and able to do things go places, otherwise as for cars, as long as it starts and gets me where i need to go, thats the only importance it holds for me.
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