Keep ex as friend? (78)
cutesimplegirl: would you still keep your ex as a friend when you know that you still love him/her so much and you would feel jealous anytime you see him/her with his/her new couple?
is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP
is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP
Don`t know about you , but knowing myself ...HELL NO ....
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cutesimplegirl: would you still keep your ex as a friend when you know that you still love him/her so much and you would feel jealous anytime you see him/her with his/her new couple?
is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP
is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP
clean break best option
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Boban1: Don`t know about you , but knowing myself ...HELL NO ....
hmmmmmm, there are 999 from 1000 told me the same thing you told me... but I was too stubborn... awww, you just complete it to 1000 persons... lol
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Mazza1970: clean break best option
should agree with you too 
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I'm still great friends with a couple of exes, I guess we realised in time that it wasn't going to work and got out whilst we could still be friends. But I didn't have that love feeling.
I don't think you could just be friends with this man. Your jealousy will tie you in knots. You'd probably do the things like the Facebook stalking. And you'd nevr set your heart free to find the one who really deserves you.
Part on good terms by all means, but I think you're going to have to put this one behind you sweetie x
I don't think you could just be friends with this man. Your jealousy will tie you in knots. You'd probably do the things like the Facebook stalking. And you'd nevr set your heart free to find the one who really deserves you.
Part on good terms by all means, but I think you're going to have to put this one behind you sweetie x
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sassinspain: I'm still great friends with a couple of exes, I guess we realised in time that it wasn't going to work and got out whilst we could still be friends. But I didn't have that love feeling.
I don't think you could just be friends with this man. Your jealousy will tie you in knots. You'd probably do the things like the Facebook stalking. And you'd nevr set your heart free to find the one who really deserves you.
Part on good terms by all means, but I think you're going to have to put this one behind you sweetie x
I don't think you could just be friends with this man. Your jealousy will tie you in knots. You'd probably do the things like the Facebook stalking. And you'd nevr set your heart free to find the one who really deserves you.
Part on good terms by all means, but I think you're going to have to put this one behind you sweetie x
I agree with this, except that maybe after a few years, if you realize it wasn't meant to be for you two to be a couple, you can try to contact this person again to say hello, then see where it goes. 
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cutesimplegirl: would you still keep your ex as a friend when you know that you still love him/her so much and you would feel jealous anytime you see him/her with his/her new couple?
is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP
is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP
My ex girlfriend is my best friend & she can see who she pleases as far as i'm concerned. We still go shopping together & days out occasionally but obviously it's different for you as you still have loving feelings.
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cutesimplegirl: would you still keep your ex as a friend when you know that you still love him/her so much and you would feel jealous anytime you see him/her with his/her new couple?
is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP
is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP
I am still friends with 2 out of 3 exes.
One near. One far away.
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No, it isn't possible to have a friendship with him if you still have strong feelings for him! You will just humiliate yourself if you hang around him and new gf and make yourself feel bad. Don't do it to yourself, even if he says he'd like to stay friends (to make himself and you feel better about ending the relationship). Time and distance will eventually heal you, even though you may not think so right now. Perhaps later when you've come to terms with your loss you can get back in touch? 
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cutesimplegirl: would you still keep your ex as a friend when you know that you still love him/her so much and you would feel jealous anytime you see him/her with his/her new couple?
is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP
is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP
If I wanted a friend I'd get a dog.
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cutesimplegirl: would you still keep your ex as a friend when you know that you still love him/her so much and you would feel jealous anytime you see him/her with his/her new couple?
is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP
is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP
Keep him at arms length until you have learned to forgive him and let him go.
Ya, its easier said than done. Nobody enjoys rejection and it hurts to see the man/woman you love being with someone else. But by forgiving and letting the person you love go, not only will it free you from jealousy and anger, it will also free you to fall in love again.
And when you can do that, then you can be real friends
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sassinspain: I'm still great friends with a couple of exes, I guess we realised in time that it wasn't going to work and got out whilst we could still be friends. But I didn't have that love feeling.
I don't think you could just be friends with this man. Your jealousy will tie you in knots. You'd probably do the things like the Facebook stalking. And you'd nevr set your heart free to find the one who really deserves you.
Part on good terms by all means, but I think you're going to have to put this one behind you sweetie x
I don't think you could just be friends with this man. Your jealousy will tie you in knots. You'd probably do the things like the Facebook stalking. And you'd nevr set your heart free to find the one who really deserves you.
Part on good terms by all means, but I think you're going to have to put this one behind you sweetie x
Thanks for your comment
I think you are right
But sometimes it's hard when we are on the same community and have same friend
we'll meet coincidence in friend's marriage and sometimes I can't hold my tears if I see him with his new girlfriend
and we go to the same church and I just can't avoid him.. arrrgghhhhhhhhhh....
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leostartingover: No, it isn't possible to have a friendship with him if you still have strong feelings for him! You will just humiliate yourself if you hang around him and new gf and make yourself feel bad. Don't do it to yourself, even if he says he'd like to stay friends (to make himself and you feel better about ending the relationship). Time and distance will eventually heal you, even though you may not think so right now. Perhaps later when you've come to terms with your loss you can get back in touch?
Thanks for your opinion
actually he is cheat on me
I told him many times to not go out with my friend but he said he just feel pity to that girl
Ah, man always say something like that and finally I found out that they cheat on me
But I still keep them as a friend
we are from same church community, sometimes we met coincidence many times
but I have to stay sweet and smile tho my heart get bleeding
people must see something on my face tho I give smile and almost all our friends know that he IS my ex...
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I very rarely speak to my first ex and it's been almost 3 years since I last saw and spoke to her. My youngest son can't wait to graduate high school next year and move out
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You keep her....
I've had my full...
I've had my full...
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tinypixie: Keep him at arms length until you have learned to forgive him and let him go.
Ya, its easier said than done. Nobody enjoys rejection and it hurts to see the man/woman you love being with someone else. But by forgiving and letting the person you love go, not only will it free you from jealousy and anger, it will also free you to fall in love again.
And when you can do that, then you can be real friends
Ya, its easier said than done. Nobody enjoys rejection and it hurts to see the man/woman you love being with someone else. But by forgiving and letting the person you love go, not only will it free you from jealousy and anger, it will also free you to fall in love again.
And when you can do that, then you can be real friends
Thanks
I would try to forgive and let go
and I think he doesn't deserve me lol
that's why I'm here, looking for new love
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cutesimplegirl: would you still keep your ex as a friend when you know that you still love him/her so much and you would feel jealous anytime you see him/her with his/her new couple?
is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP
is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP
There is no real answer to this question because it depends on each individual case.You have to respect that some people simply prefer to cut all contact because that is how they deal best with the ending of a relationship.
If staying friends means there will only be positive reasons for both of you to do so then yes I think it is great.You can always change your mind if it becomes negative for either of you.
There is only one partner that I am not in some form of contact with and I am very happy about that.
No one likes constant reminders of there bad choices or mistakes.
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I prefer a clean break Im not one of those that likes to keep my ex dangling on a string. Or play maybe games. For me if somethings over, its over. 
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is that wise to let them remain as a friend because you want to see them happy one day because if you don't have any contact with them anymore, you can't see their life in future.
would you keep them as your friend? NEED HELP