I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested. ( Archived) (85)

Jul 23, 2010 4:59 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
Cruzanon
CruzanonCruzanonBrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Threads 26 Posts
head banger
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Jul 23, 2010 5:00 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
me too head banger
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Jul 23, 2010 5:06 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
I think it's only common courtesy for people to

stop acting butthurt cause they were rejected

on the internet.
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Jul 23, 2010 5:09 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
Thing is though, its common courtesy to READ someones profile before emailing then you will find out if you're compatible..

Most don't dunno
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Jul 23, 2010 5:10 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
Ocee35: I think it's only common courtesy for people to

stop acting butthurt cause they were rejected

on the internet.



giggle
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Jul 23, 2010 5:14 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
TheStillOfNight
TheStillOfNightTheStillOfNightEastern NL, Newfoundland Canada48 Threads 1 Polls 530 Posts
It used to bug me when people would not reply but a lack of a reply is actually better than a "I'm flattered, but" letter. Leaves no questions and no doubts.
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Jul 23, 2010 5:16 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
Proudamerican100
Proudamerican100Proudamerican100Somewhere, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 570 Posts
There are a lot of things I think are common courtesy and you have broken a few of them. Go stand in the corner.devil
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Jul 23, 2010 5:17 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
BoyseeksGirl
BoyseeksGirlBoyseeksGirlCooloola, Queensland Australia8 Threads 75 Posts
Yes you are so right, however some people don't have manners and some don't understand culture and one more, maybe lack of intelligencefrustratedLots of men are dumb frustratedOK I am not saying another thing,all my male friends are well mannered blushing
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Jul 23, 2010 5:17 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
Cruzanon
CruzanonCruzanonBrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Threads 26 Posts
It's not about rejection, it's about courtesy which you seem to lack. Sorry if you have been rejected and it upset you, I feel for you.
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Jul 23, 2010 5:18 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
ennaj
ennajennajVaxjo, Kronoberg Sweden1 Threads 16 Posts
I will respond to all, especially the scammers here, very interesting correspondence it can be there sometimeslaugh
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Jul 23, 2010 5:19 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
Cruzanon
CruzanonCruzanonBrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Threads 26 Posts
Most definitely, totally agree.
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Jul 23, 2010 5:23 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
Cruzanon
CruzanonCruzanonBrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Threads 26 Posts
TheStillOfNight: It used to bug me when people would not reply but a lack of a reply is actually better than a "I'm flattered, but" letter. Leaves no questions and no doubts.


That's one way of putting it, but still nice to know if your email got through, personally I would prefer a I'm flattered, but...
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Jul 23, 2010 5:24 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Cruzanon: It's not about rejection, it's about courtesy which you seem to lack. Sorry if you have been rejected and it upset you, I feel for you.


would you rather been rejected (ignored)... ore insulted????...grin
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Jul 23, 2010 5:34 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
Cruzanon
CruzanonCruzanonBrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Threads 26 Posts
Boban1: would you rather been rejected (ignored)... ore insulted????...


The lack of courtesy remark was for Ocee, not you Boban. Rejection does not bother me unless it's from someone you care about and have or had a relationship with. head banger
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Jul 23, 2010 5:42 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
inwestend
inwestendinwestendChengdu, Sichuan China4 Threads 1 Polls 139 Posts
I disagree. I think it's kinder just not to write back.

A reply can be cruel, however hard you tailor it to be kind - it's still an explicit rejection.
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Jul 23, 2010 5:43 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
jennb
jennbjennbsydney, New South Wales Australia38 Posts
banana banana banana thumbs up
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Jul 23, 2010 5:45 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
SummerUK: Thing is though, its common courtesy to READ someones profile before emailing then you will find out if you're compatible..

Most don't


Amen! Thank you.
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Jul 23, 2010 5:46 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
inwestend: I disagree. I think it's kinder just not to write back.

A reply can be cruel, however hard you tailor it to be kind - it's still an explicit rejection.


Yes, that's exactly how most people take it.
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Jul 23, 2010 5:49 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
Ocee35: I think it's only common courtesy for people to

stop acting butthurt cause they were rejected

on the internet.


wine
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Jul 23, 2010 5:53 AM CST I think it's only common courtesy for people to reply to an email, even if they are not interested.
Cruzanon
CruzanonCruzanonBrisbane, Queensland Australia1 Threads 26 Posts
inwestend: I disagree. I think it's kinder just not to write back.

A reply can be cruel, however hard you tailor it to be kind - it's still an explicit rejection.


Each to their own, that's what makes us unique. Personally as I think I have said I am not bothered by rejection from someone I don't even know. After all they have the right to, no reason to take it to heart. head banger
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