How much do you want to know... (137)
benhur: my lovly laura.....
iam like a open book.,so could you cook something for me....
little bit hungry....
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prince
iam like a open book.,so could you cook something for me....
little bit hungry....
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prince
Hey there, lovely prince,
how could I miss your post! Yes, darling, you are an open book, but no, no cooking, I'd rather discuss ex lover's performance...
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Laura25:
No, it is the past.
By *not favorable truth* I meant -- if/when you asked her directly, you learnt that her ex was a better lover that you.
No, it is the past.
By *not favorable truth* I meant -- if/when you asked her directly, you learnt that her ex was a better lover that you.
Costapacket:
Your getting into the realms of fantasy now.....
If and I say if, I would do whatever to improve the relationship in the bedroom.
but if she told me something like that tehn she clearly has serious mental issues and im the out the door.
Your getting into the realms of fantasy now.....
If and I say if, I would do whatever to improve the relationship in the bedroom.
but if she told me something like that tehn she clearly has serious mental issues and im the out the door.
"Your getting into the realms of fantasy now..... "
Am I? Really?
Costapacket:
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but if she told me something like that tehn she clearly has serious mental issues and im the out the door.
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but if she told me something like that tehn she clearly has serious mental issues and im the out the door.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...
Care to elaborate, NP?
Is it because she was truthful (you asked her this question, remember?)?
Or... because...
...what exactly would "clearly indicate her serious mental issues" to you? 
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the fact that you don`t ask doesn`t mean that you don`t wanna know
but instead of asking directly you ll rather pretend
but instead of asking directly you ll rather pretend
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Boban1: the fact that you don`t ask doesn`t mean that you don`t wanna know
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True. At times...
Boban1: the fact that you don`t ask doesn`t mean that you don`t wanna know
but instead of asking directly you ll rather pretend
but instead of asking directly you ll rather pretend
Pretend?
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Laura25: True. At times...
Pretend?
Pretend?
yep.... why would I lie to her ore to my self , that I don`t care ore don`t wanna know about her past
If I have some dark secrets about my past, Ill rather tell her before the relationship gets any deeper ( unless I have a hidden goal ore motive )
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Amity: Hi Laura
I do not think i would wish to know....what is the past should remain there.
And i also feel that what someone shared with someone else should be private....i would hate to think of an ex discussing my love making with his new GF
I do not think i would wish to know....what is the past should remain there.
And i also feel that what someone shared with someone else should be private....i would hate to think of an ex discussing my love making with his new GF
Hello A .....
well I agree with Amity, think apart of past was past just apart our life, no matter with less or good.
Each person different so I wouldn't ask those .....
cos today is today & last day was just memory of life
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Tortoise and the Hare...
Fast and furious or slow and steady...
Does it really matter...its getting to the finish line that counts...
And no....not gonna ask....at this age got a pretty good idea I'm not the first....more wondering if I'll be the last
Fast and furious or slow and steady...
Does it really matter...its getting to the finish line that counts...
And no....not gonna ask....at this age got a pretty good idea I'm not the first....more wondering if I'll be the last
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Boban1: yep.... why would I lie to her ore to my self , that I don`t care ore don`t wanna know about her past
If I have some dark secrets about my past, Ill rather tell her before the relationship gets any deeper ( unless I have a hidden goal ore motive )
If I have some dark secrets about my past, Ill rather tell her before the relationship gets any deeper ( unless I have a hidden goal ore motive )
No, not about your or her past.
About ex-lover(s)' performance in bed.
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cgedvr: Tortoise and the Hare...
Fast and furious or slow and steady...
Does it really matter...its getting to the finish line that counts...
And no....not gonna ask....at this age got a pretty good idea I'm not the first....more wondering if I'll be the last
Fast and furious or slow and steady...
Does it really matter...its getting to the finish line that counts...
And no....not gonna ask....at this age got a pretty good idea I'm not the first....more wondering if I'll be the last
Neither would I.
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jvaski: Disgussion is fine, ...
Disgussion, J.?
Hahahaha... A perfect Fraudian slip example!!
I take it you wouldn't ask...
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Laura25: No, not about your or her past.
About ex-lover(s)' performance in bed.
About ex-lover(s)' performance in bed.
expesually that .... full disclosure ... with all the juicy dirty details
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Boban1: expesually that .... full disclosure ... with all the juicy dirty details
And if you find out that 'he'(or even all of them) were much better lovers than you, will you stay in this relationship?
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Laura25: In your new relationship,
are you willing and/or find appropriate discussing your previous lover with your current SO?
Do you want to know if they were better lovers?
I'd imagine many in a new relationship ponder this question...
But would you ask?
And would you tell the truth if you are asked?
are you willing and/or find appropriate discussing your previous lover with your current SO?
Do you want to know if they were better lovers?
I'd imagine many in a new relationship ponder this question...
But would you ask?
And would you tell the truth if you are asked?
I've never met, or dated, or even had a relationship with, a man who didn't discuss his exs.
I find most do it when they are trying to establish what they don't want in a present or future relationship, or to set boundaries.
If he brought the subject up and asked me, I'd discuss it generally, and honestly, but not in detail.
I don't generally ask, but if he felt the need to unburden himself, I might ask pertinent questions, to help him clarify where he was going with the subject.
I am not someone who stores personal information to make comparisons, since it is someone else's business and not worth my head space.
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GingerBe: I've never met, or dated, or even had a relationship with, a man who didn't discuss his exs.
I find most do it when they are trying to establish what they don't want in a present or future relationship, or to set boundaries.
If he brought the subject up and asked me, I'd discuss it generally, and honestly, but not in detail.
I don't generally ask, but if he felt the need to unburden himself, I might ask pertinent questions, to help him clarify where he was going with the subject.
I am not someone who stores personal information to make comparisons, since it is someone else's business and not worth my head space.
I find most do it when they are trying to establish what they don't want in a present or future relationship, or to set boundaries.
If he brought the subject up and asked me, I'd discuss it generally, and honestly, but not in detail.
I don't generally ask, but if he felt the need to unburden himself, I might ask pertinent questions, to help him clarify where he was going with the subject.
I am not someone who stores personal information to make comparisons, since it is someone else's business and not worth my head space.
I feel the same, Ginger.
Good morning
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Laura25: And if you find out that 'he'(or even all of them) were much better lovers than you, will you stay in this relationship?
the question is, would she ... what is it that I can offer her....
is it just a pat time entertainment , real love, ore just a convenient hiding place
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Laura25: I feel the same, Ginger. Good morning
Hi Laura.
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Boban1: the question is, would she ... what is it that I can offer her....
is it just a pat time entertainment , real love, ore just a convenient hiding place
is it just a pat time entertainment , real love, ore just a convenient hiding place
An excellent question indeed, Bo.
But that aside - would you??
A real love is a very subjective matter, btw. To simplify it, assume that you are in love, and you think she might be too.
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GingerBe: Hi Laura. Good thread!
Thank you, G.
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Laura25: An excellent question indeed, Bo.
But that aside - would you??
A real love is a very subjective matter, btw. To simplify it, assume that you are in love, and you think she might be too.
But that aside - would you??
A real love is a very subjective matter, btw. To simplify it, assume that you are in love, and you think she might be too.
As I posted , a long time ago.... I cannot chose who Im gonna fall in love with
the only way for me to even think of getting in to a real relationship is ,it must be based on trust and knowing all about each other ... the things I don`t like at the moment about her past ore she doesn`t like about mine , will be a matter of the past ... but it can only be "the past " as long as your partner knows about it
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I know I would be better than her ex in bed, so it's all fine to me.
Uh-huh