How much do you want to know... ( Archived) (137)

Jul 26, 2010 10:33 AM CST How much do you want to know...
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
I'm going to venture a guess: one's attitudes about discussing previous relationships is indicative of one's attitudes toward communication in general.

That is, if you don't believe in such discussions, you probably don't believe in truly open lines of communication with your significant other. You likely are also banning other subjects as well.
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Jul 26, 2010 10:46 AM CST How much do you want to know...
nanners2863: Whoa!! You dropped the F-bomb and used the word "eh".. . Knew I liked you!! And yes I concour. The ultimate closeness requires the ultimate in openess.
Ah crap..conquer..is that right..uh oh Why can't I spell today!!!doh
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Jul 26, 2010 10:54 AM CST How much do you want to know...
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
Laura25: In your new relationship,

are you willing and/or find appropriate discussing your previous lover with your current SO?

Do you want to know if they were better lovers?

I'd imagine many in a new relationship ponder this question...

But would you ask?

And would you tell the truth if you are asked?


For me once i hv started the new relationship, that mean i hv forgotten my ex lover completely, then i feel very bored to talk about him to anyone, although in my mind i always consider him as one of my very good friends, i will willingly help him if he need my help, then if the current lover ask me about ex lover, i will hv nothing to tell ... i will say nothing, there is nothing to remember or to tell.
But for my new lover, in my thingking i am really concerned about his ex-lover, i will choose many suitable chances to ask him about his past life, then i can understand him more, i will understand to some extent what he will think of me ....
It is very complicated to discuss about this.
Bye Bye, bouquet bouquet bouquet
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Jul 26, 2010 10:55 AM CST How much do you want to know...
deadbutwhy
deadbutwhydeadbutwhyeast, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia9 Threads 2 Polls 1,295 Posts
Laura25: In your new relationship,

are you willing and/or find appropriate discussing your previous lover with your current SO?

Do you want to know if they were better lovers?

I'd imagine many in a new relationship ponder this question...

But would you ask?

And would you tell the truth if you are asked?
They tell me right away that I'm the best they ever had, so all discussion ends at that grin
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Jul 26, 2010 10:56 AM CST How much do you want to know...
deadbutwhy: They tell me right away that I'm the best they ever had, so all discussion ends at that
Awww...you're gullable too eh??
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Jul 26, 2010 11:05 AM CST How much do you want to know...
deadbutwhy
deadbutwhydeadbutwhyeast, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia9 Threads 2 Polls 1,295 Posts
nanners2863: Awww...you're gullable too eh??
I dunno about "gullable"... maybe you meant to say I'm humble but still the best?? grin uh oh
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Jul 26, 2010 11:05 AM CST How much do you want to know...
ChasingCars
ChasingCarsChasingCarsCrappy Thrappy, Northamptonshire, England UK26 Threads 5 Polls 1,006 Posts
nanners2863: Awww...you're gullable too eh??


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
thumbs up thumbs up
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Jul 26, 2010 11:12 AM CST How much do you want to know...
deadbutwhy: I dunno about "gullable"... maybe you meant to say I'm humble but still the best??
Oh wait..let me think.....hmmmmm...nope..just gullable..grin
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Jul 26, 2010 11:18 AM CST How much do you want to know...
deadbutwhy
deadbutwhydeadbutwhyeast, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia9 Threads 2 Polls 1,295 Posts
nanners2863: Oh wait..let me think.....hmmmmm...nope..just gullable..
Fool me once, shame on — shame on you. Fool me — you can't get fooled again.

doh
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Jul 26, 2010 11:20 AM CST How much do you want to know...
deadbutwhy: Fool me once, shame on — shame on you. Fool me — you can't get fooled again.
I'm sorry..uh oh can you repeat that..I don't speak jibberish..dunno
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Jul 26, 2010 11:20 AM CST How much do you want to know...
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Laura25: In your new relationship,

are you willing and/or find appropriate discussing your previous lover with your current SO?

Do you want to know if they were better lovers?

I'd imagine many in a new relationship ponder this question...

But would you ask? yep

And would you tell the truth if you are asked?
hell no


no one said that life is fair ...grin
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Jul 26, 2010 11:26 AM CST How much do you want to know...
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
Laura25: In your new relationship,

are you willing and/or find appropriate discussing your previous lover with your current SO?
I don't find it at all constructive to do that. First, it would be a one-sided story so if it's to waste time and spit on a memory lane which I'm only half-privy to, I'd rather my time with her pursuing happier horizons.

Laura25: Do you want to know if they were better lovers?
I'd imagine many in a new relationship ponder this question...
I've never asked and never will. I know what I'm worth, no I don't want to know because it wouldn't make a bit of a difference would it? I'm me and I can't be anybody else but myself.
Laura25: But would you ask?
Nope.
Laura25: And would you tell the truth if you are asked?
I've been asked that before and I always say the same thing:
She was good at somethings which you seem to hesitate on but then again, you're much better at what you do. I'd be lying if said I wanted to be with her now instead of being with you, babe.

It's diplomatic, it's the truth and it always gets me a tender kiss

grin
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Jul 26, 2010 11:32 AM CST How much do you want to know...
deadbutwhy
deadbutwhydeadbutwhyeast, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia9 Threads 2 Polls 1,295 Posts
nanners2863: I'm sorry.. can you repeat that..I don't speak jibberish..
You inadvertently insulted our past president and his Republican fellas... kudos applause
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Jul 26, 2010 11:41 AM CST How much do you want to know...
deadbutwhy: You inadvertently insulted our past president and his Republican fellas... kudos
Ahhhh...that explains why I never understood a word Bush uttered..rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 26, 2010 11:43 AM CST How much do you want to know...
trurorob
trurorobtrurorobAlicante, Valencia Spain1,741 Posts
nanners2863: Ahhhh...that explains why I never understood a word Bush uttered..
Does any man ever understand a word a bush uttered except welcome!!
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Jul 26, 2010 11:44 AM CST How much do you want to know...
benhur
benhurbenhurmichigan,newbaltimore, Michigan USA131 Threads 7 Polls 630 Posts
my lovly laura.....
iam like a open book.,so could you cook something for me....
little bit hungry....
click clicks
prince
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Jul 26, 2010 11:46 AM CST How much do you want to know...
benhur
benhurbenhurmichigan,newbaltimore, Michigan USA131 Threads 7 Polls 630 Posts
nanners2863: Ahhhh...that explains why I never understood a word Bush uttered..

on the way...still iam seeking his (bush) walking style.,
ha ha ha ha ha
click clicks.,
prince
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Jul 26, 2010 12:00 PM CST How much do you want to know...
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Mature people in a new relationship,don't ask such questions,of cource both parties, compare with past experiences, and if somebody tells you my previous lover,was better than you, is like telling you the door is open,please leave.
Laura25: In your new relationship,

are you willing and/or find appropriate discussing your previous lover with your current SO?

Do you want to know if they were better lovers?

I'd imagine many in a new relationship ponder this question...

But would you ask?

And would you tell the truth if you are asked?
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Jul 26, 2010 12:02 PM CST How much do you want to know...
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
"Whenever you want to marry someone, go have lunch with his ex-wife".

ack. Shelley Winters

Just a thought...?! dunno

laugh
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Jul 26, 2010 12:03 PM CST How much do you want to know...
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Hello Laura
I would rather not to know about past reltionships but if he wants to know something I would give the answers but never saying anything bad from anyone in the past.

wave
bouquet

that click is making me dizzy roll eyes
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